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Types of Women Men Are Looking For 

 A Housewife 

A man who wants his wife like this appreciates coziness and comfort the most. Cleanliness and order in the house, things neatly laid out in their places, starched sheets, and a hot three-course dinner are important to him. A quiet homely atmosphere, a delicious smell in the kitchen, evening hours for two together in front of the TV, and a freshly-ironed shirt for work in the morning are the things a man wants.

Those men work hard just need an island of calm and care at home to relax their body and soul from difficult everyday life. Such a man doesn’t care how long your legs are and how you dress – the main thing is that you know how to care for him and your house. If you cook well and are not afraid of being a housewife, then you will stick quite well together with a man that is looking for one. 

A Mother 

Such a wife is sought for by infantile men, men spoiled by maternal affection, or men who have not received enough of it. Representatives of this type of men expect from their future wife the role of the mother: to care, support, pamper, and love him no matter what. By being with such a man, you will have to solve all his problems, large and small, do almost everything for him, and hold his hand if he, God forbid, catches a cold.

Get ready to give a lot, but in return, do not expect anything. Unlike men who prefer housewives, who, in response to your efforts at home and caring for your husband, will give you their love and gratitude, infantile types are just boys – they only want to receive, and they consider this entitlement natural and taken for granted.

Be careful not to confuse these two completely different men. You can recognize a “boy” by the way he is overly attached to his mother, idealizes her, and often repeats that his chosen one should be a copy of his mother. In general, such men are not very independent and indecisive in life, so it is not difficult to recognize them. 

A Mother of His Children 

A man who wants to start a strong family with lots of children is interested in finding a good mother for his kids. For them, the continuation of their genes is important; therefore, a potential wife is evaluated in terms of her talents when it comes to motherhood.

This implies not only the ability to conceive and endure healthy offspring but also a strong desire to have a child (maybe more than one), the ability to get along with children, and a willingness to devote herself to the family.

Such men are not looking for incubators – it’s just that they value you as a reliable partner that is capable of producing offspring; love comes second. He will honor and respect you, no doubt. If the family is the main thing for you and you want to have and raise children, then you will create a wonderful union with this person. 

A Mistress 

This is quite a simple one, if a man wants a short-term relationship with a lot of sex, he will be interested in finding a mistress. In a woman, they value attractiveness, gentleness, and the ability to get them hooked. Men that are interested in mistresses know exactly what they want.

They are not interested in knowing how to find a girl to marry; they want something with less commitment and more fun. With such a macho man, you will feel like a real woman, always charming. The question is whether there will be enough romance and unforgettable sex for the development of a serious and lasting relationship with the possibility of further marriage. 

A Friend 

Some men seek a faithful companion in a woman, a partner whom they can rely on. By dating such a woman, he is looking for qualities such as devotion, an ability to support, an agile mind, a calm disposition, and patience. He tries to figure out a woman’s personality; he wants a reliable person with whom he can create a strong family that is built on respect.

Maybe there won’t be that much passion, but men who want a friend with to have guarantees of stability and confidence in the future. Their priorities are as follows: to achieve everything together, relate to each other with mutual understanding, and spend long evenings in meaningful, interesting conversations.

This is a great option for a woman who knows how to be a friend and needs a strong shoulder and support from her husband without him shutting her down or dominating her.

Let’s summarize everything that’s been said above. It should be noted that there are no truly correct or incorrect male ideas about women, just as there are no bad or good types of women. And of course, only you know what is right for you, what kind of a woman or a man you are, and what you want in a relationship. 

 

Game/PUA: One Sex Has to Dominate the Other

…we either have male dominance and violence, or gentle female dominance.

First of all,  you’re going to have male violence (and female violence too for that matter) in either one. Actually the men might be more violent if they were being dominated by women because being dominated by women is one thing that pisses real men off more than anything else.

First of all, female dominance of men will never be gentle. Women are never gentle with the men that they dominate, in relationships or otherwise. It just doesn’t work that way. I think it is not possible for a woman to dominate a man in a gentle way. Women will always be cruel, vicious, and even evil with the men they are dominating.

On the other hand, I think we men can dominate women in a civilized manner. First of all, we men evolved to be dominant, to dominate women and children, and to fight for dominance with other men. The fact that dominance was bred right into us means that we can choose to implement our inborn trait either nicely or cruelly. It is certainly possible for men to dominate women in a non-harmful way. I’ve done it in most of my relationships.

Sadly, one gender has to dominate the other. The reality for most men is that most women expect the man to dominate. Women come into the relationship specifically expecting to be dominated by the man. Now, in their minds this is not a bad thing, as they like being submissive, and their view of male dominance often does not involve harm.

Men realize that if we don’t dominate our woman, she is going to take those pants right off of us and dominate you! It’s like someone has to dominate – it’s either him or her, take your pick.

I used to believe that full equality between the sexes was possible, but after 45 years of experience with women, I no longer believe this. Complete equality between men and women is simply not possible – it’s folly, a fool’s errand, an unwinnable war.

Gay male relationships are full of dominance and submission, tops and bottoms, bears and twinks, in full imitation of heterosexuality.

Lesbians like to think they are beyond this, but how many times you have seen a lesbian couple where one was butch (the man) and the other was more femme (obviously the woman)? So they’re imitating heterosexuality too. And you can’t tell me there’s no dominance-submission stuff going on in that butch-femme relationship either.

From the lesbians I read on the web, I have learned that there is quite a bit of dom-sub type sex going on with them as a matter of course, especially with the young ones, 18-30. I hate BD/SM but I know a lot about it. The number of female subs who have dom “mistresses” is very high, and the setup is about the same as with male dom-female sub relationships.

If you look at mammals, it is quite typical for male mammals to not only be much more aggressive but also to keep harems, fight over females, etc. And in mammalian sex the male often acts quite dominant, and the female acts…you guessed it – submissive.

I am reading a book about grizzly bears, and the author witnesses a rare mating. Yes, the male bear is acting very aggressive and dominant, and believe it or not, the female grizzly bear of all things is acting…yep – submissive!

Ape sex is often about rape. In chimps and baboons, a male will literally terrorize a female ape for some time, chasing her, hitting her, scaring the living crap out of her. He acts extremely mean towards her. And guess which male she picks to mate with come mating time? Yep, the rapey, female-beating, stalking, creepy, abusive male ape, the same one who terrorized her her before.

I think the best we could hope for would be one sex dominating the other, but in the mildest and kindest way possible that does the least harm to the more submissive partner. And we should hope for submissive partners who don’t like to be hurt or abused.

Alt Left: Attack My Masculinity and I’ll Kill You

Nothing makes men more furious that being dominated in a cruel way by women or having their masculinity attacked by them. It actually literally makes us want to kill them. I had several girlfriends in the past who more or less attacked my masculinity, even gleefully.

Others had other  men at the time we were together (although we were in an open relationship) but they deliberately did so in an open and outrageous way as if they were actually trying to provoke me. Yes, they were actually trying to make me murder them. But women do this all the time. Many women delight in provoking men to such an extent that as far as I am concerned, they are trying to get murdered.

Because they do things to men that in Man World would immediately get you hit, if not out and out murdered. Women try to push us men to our limits or even beyond them. It is very stupid (and dangerous) of women to do this, but they keep doing it.

Feminism has made this female behavior dramatically more common. In my mother’s generation, women were  terrified to attack their husband’s masculinity. My mother even told that she didn’t want to do that. I asked her why she didn’t do something one time, and she said, “Oh he will see that as attacking his masculinity. I don’t want to attack his masculinity.”

Her attitude was more that doing such things was gross, unladylike, and undignified. My mother would see that sort of behavior as common with working class women and Black and Hispanic women. That’s what low class women do – provoke their husbands, bitch at them for no reason, and pick fights with them.

My mother’s coterie of White middle to upper class women simply didn’t act that way – you would be acting like those low class and non-White women they looked down on.

I knew a Colombian woman once. The worst insult you could say to a woman in her society  was that she was “a woman of the streets.” To her, there was nothing lower than that. She was from an upper middle class background in the north of Bogota.

I remembered those damned girlfriends who attacked me that way. In some cases, I forgot all the fun we had, and when I reminisced, all I would think of was those times when they deliberately tried to cut my balls off with words, sometimes in public, sometimes in front of other men and women. Public humiliation. I remembered those incidents for decades.

And for decades, I literally wanted to kill every one of those women who attacked my masculinity like that. I’ve gotten over it now and I feel better with this off my shoulders. But nevertheless, my first and immediate instinct to a woman wantonly and even gleefully attacking my masculinity was, “You’re going to die for that, bitch. No forgiveness. Ever.”

Of course I never killed any of those women. I never even tried to, seriously considered it, or hatched any plan or anything. It was just a violent fantasy that never got implemented. So what! Who cares!

Not only that, but I am almost ashamed to say I never even hit or did anything violent to any of those women. Even worse than that, I rarely even fought back against these attacks. I just sat there and took it like a big, fat pussy.

Why? Because my Mom taught us that you never fight a woman.

At My Age, There are Tens of Millions of American Humans Who I Am Never Allowed to Even Speak To

Polar Bear: Key words “hot” and “young”. In certain areas of the modern West, young and hot are off limits to old White men. You’re welcome to a young homely girl or a hot older woman. But combine young and hot and that’s something sacred. A Time to Kill, “now imagine the innocent victim was White”. Today it’s, “Now imagine the innocent victim is young and hot!

Yeah, it’s been going this way for some time now.  Every year it gets worse and worse. Young women and high school girls – forget it. I can’t even say hello, hi, or the most basic things to them. If I do, they look at me like, “How dare you even fucking speak to me! I cannot believe you are even talking to me! I’m going to call the cops!”

Also I am not allowed to even look at a lot of them. Every year, as I get older, young women and teenage girls get more and more hateful. Their hatred of me is almost at psychotic levels now. Maybe I should just quit talking to them unless I get a real go-ahead.

The other day I was in a Starbucks waiting in line, and this female, looked like a high school girl, was after me. We were waiting and waiting. I walked over to her and said, “Hurry up and wait, huh?” She acted like, “How dare you even try to fucking talk to me! I’m calling the police!”

This bullshit is all new. I don’t ever flirt with any girls or even young women in general unless they give me a go-ahead, which almost never happens. I just comment on the weather or the most basic things. I have not flirted with any of these girls or young women who gave me this attitude. I just said something like, “Hello.”

But increasingly they act like I have no right on Earth to talk to them or even in many cases, to look at them! Some are outraged that I even dare to look at them! They act like they are going to call the police for me looking at them.

Unfortunately, most of the other Normie shitheads in my society seem to agree with these hostile little twats, these children, these bratty little  babies.

When I was growing up it was never like this. Adults walked up to us and talked to us constantly. We spent a good part of our time with adults, mostly adult men of course. Adult women didn’t really talk to us very much. But adult men would walk right up and talk to us all the time.

We often went on trips to the beach, fishing, or backpacking with adults, generally adult men. Those men taught us how to be men! I worry that these boys growing up nowadays are going to grow up with zero exposure to adult male role models, and the results are going to be catastrophic.

Back in the day, an adult man or even women could walk up to any kid, especially a teenager, and start talking to them.

Even if an older man talked to high school or college girls, if the stupid little twats complained, everyone, I mean everyone, all women included, would ask, “Well what did he say? What did he do?” As long as he just talked about the weather and didn’t say or do anything sexual, the adults would basically tell the little twat to shut the fuck up.

Somehow now adults cannot talk to kids or even teenagers, or, if you are an older adult, even young adults, ever. There’s no way this is going to end well. Minors are always assisted in learning the roles of life and growing up by adults of both sexes. Now this is all banned except for the parents, who may be just one parent (a woman) in a lot of cases.

I blame these feminist cunts from Hell for all of this crap, along with conservatives, especially femiservitives. But a lot of liberals are on this Pedophile Mass Hysteria too. The whole thing is so ridiculous and absurd, I don’t know what to even say.

The whole idea that there are tens of millions of human beings in my own nation who I am not allowed to make the most innocuous comment to without getting accused of “harassment” is absolutely insane and bizarre.

Game/PUA: A Major Downside to Adult Men Having (Legal) Sex with Teenage Girls

The problem is that no matter how much she seems to be into it at the time, and trust me, most of them are into it bigtime – in fact, it’s very frequently the case that these girls out and out seduce the men – things tend to change a ways down the road.

Some girls who have these legal relationships with older men like it and even years later, smile and look back on it fondly. But it’s far more likely that she will regret it later on. It’s sort of a form of Regret Rape, a female specialty.

These changes of heart are very typical for teenage girls who have sex with men. Men, if you ever have sex with a (hopefully legal) teenage girl, be careful because as much as she seems like she’s into it, there’s a very good chance that 10-20 years down the road she is going to change her mind and decide that you took advantage of her.

She will also suddenly develop all sorts of ridiculous psychological symptoms which of course only show up when she changes her mind and decides she was harmed. As long as she thought there was nothing wrong with it, she had no symptoms.

This is one thing I have against the way society deals with these relationships. Even if they are completely legal and consensual as is often the case, we run around screaming that the minor was just subjected to the most horrible abuse, and no matter how the minor feels about at the time, as a result of our antics, they now decide that they are all fucked up.

Wa-la! Lots of pernicious psychological symptoms pop up where before there were none precisely because we freak out so much about it and scream at the kid about what a horrible crime was done to them. I don’t know what the alternative is, but it seems like the “anti-sex with minors” folks are actually creating a lot of the damage that these minors suffer from the minor-adult sex that they have.

Interracial Dating in My City

RL: That’s not the ideal situation at all, Jason. Even here in California in the midst of the diversity, Whites are generally paired up with Whites, Blacks with Blacks, Hispanics with Hispanics, and so on. Most people end up dating their own kind for whatever reason.

Jason: I’m saying people should be cool with it if it’s on the table, but normally it’s not, although it is way more than in the past.

Oh yeah! People are absolutely cool with interracial dating here! This is California, bro. Yes there are some Whites who disapprove of racemixing, but they are very much the minority, and they better be awful careful about who they talk to about this.

*****

The following two combos are relatively common, although you don’t even see these very often.

White man – Hispanic woman. You hear about them, but you don’t see them very often.

White woman – Black man. You don’t see these very often either. You see more of it in young White women around here, but the Black men they hook up with are the worst thugs of all, and the White girls don’t seem to marry them – they only date them. These White girls will probably marry a White man.

*****

As you can see, only Whites are dating outside their race with any frequency. I am not sure what that means. I will allow commenters to elaborate. Obviously we Whites are the most evil and diabolical racist scum of all since we are more likely to date outside our race than any other group, right? The extent of White racist evil never fails to amaze me.

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The following combos are not common:

Hispanic woman – Black man. I have seen one case – divorced.

Black woman – Hispanic man. I know of only one case.

Black woman – White man. Only saw one case, a high school boy and girl, and both appeared to be either virgins or near-virgins. It sure was delightful to see these two 15 year old teenagers love wrestling and making out in public.

Asian M or F – Any other race F or M. No interracial dating at all. We simply hardly have any of these people around here. We have a tiny few Chinese and a very small Filipino population. There is also a tiny Vietnamese and Khmer population. They all date within their own races.

There was something just joyously beautiful about two sexual greenhorns breaking themselves in so innocently. And it really charmed me that this White boy fell for this Black girl and the other way around for that matter. You don’t see that very often.

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As you can see, both Black and Hispanic women don’t hook up outside their race all that much.

Getting Banned from Starbucks

SHI: I’ve been thrown out of a couple of Starbucks outlets because other customers were “uncomfortable” around me. The staff gave no further explanations. That’s why I hate the Gaybucks outlets and don’t visit them anymore.

I actually feel much better that SHI has been banned from a couple of Gaybucks too for much the same reasons that I have been. I thought that only creeps, weirdos, freaks, losers, autists, incels, and social retards* got banned. Not players. But I guess they ban any guy who goes after women in that place. Players go after women all the time because that’s what players do, so they’re going to get banned from SJW joints like Fagbucks.

I had another friend who was a huge player (much more of one than I ever was) and he used to get banned or get warnings for this stuff a lot too. He had a tablet or cellphone, and he used to walk around public places taking pictures of women’s bodies – their tits, their asses, etc.

He even did this in supermarkets! And he did it all the time in bars and nightclubs to the point where he kept nearly getting thrown out of these places. The bouncers at a number of those places really hated him. He even got the cops called on him once. He ended up just getting a warning, but it could have been worse.

Now I must admit that that is creepy, but he wasn’t some creepy weirdo who couldn’t get laid either. The guy was drowning in pussy most of the time.

So apparently highly successful players can do creepy stuff sometimes. I mean they have sex on their brains, and they are chasing women 24-7, so there’s bound to be some complaints in this SJW #Metoo World.

It’s important to note that #metoo doesn’t just go after creeps, weirdos, freaks, and dangerous men. It also goes after guys who can’t get laid with God’s help. #metoo has heavily targeted men who are hugely successful with women from the very start.

I feel a lot better now that players get banned for this crap as much as creeps, freaks, and dangerous weirdos.

SHI’s been banned from two Gaybucks and he’s quit patronizing them. I’ve been banned from three of them so far.

Here’s my history with this shitty company:

2007: Banned for “looking at the baristas.” I looked at one’s tits after she served me, and she noticed and got mad. Hey, I’m heterosexual! Fuck it man, I’ve been looking at women my whole life. Of course I look at their bodies – their tits, their pussies, their asses, their curves – the whole nine  yards. How in the Hell do you not look at a hot woman’s body? How is that even possible?

Did it suddenly become illegal or something? I complained to corporate and got ban revoked. Banned by 18-23 year old shits. Just kids, really.

2009: Someone who worked at a Fagbucks came to my site and said everyone there thinks I’m really creepy, and they all don’t want me coming in there anymore. I haven’t the faintest idea what I did to make them feel this way.

I did bring in some stuff of my website for them to read,  which as it turns out, was a huge mistake. It was Spot the Language stuff. But that just seemed to completely freak them out.

I saw one guy reading one of my posts with a baffled expression on his face like he could not figure out what in God’s name I was talking about, like it was written in Greek or something. He also acted like he found it weird and disturbing as if it was some sort of dangerous and possibly illegal printed material.

This happened at another coffee shop too, and some guy got totally weirded out by another Spot the Language post. He thought it was advocating “pedophilia” or some nonsense. Of course it wasn’t. My Mom said to never show any of them any of my work every again.

“They won’t understand it. Because they don’t understand it, they’ll think it’s weird and disturbing, and they might think you are a strange or dangerous person. It will make them hate you because people hate what they can’t understand.”

This ban is still beyond me. Ok, I’m creepy. What does that even mean? How do I not be creepy? I have no idea whatsoever. I don’t usually make sexual remarks or flirt.

Also, I never would have done so well with women if I was some sort of a creepy socially retard perverted freak. Those guys don’t get laid. Creepy weirdos aren’t players.

I thought I was on pretty good terms with a lot of those people too. Banned by 18-25 year old turds. Basically kids.

2019: Banned after “a number of young women” complained that I was harassing them. I have no idea what this means. I do talk to people all the time. I talk to all kinds of people of all ages and either sex. People next to me in line, people at the counter, people at the pickup counter. Mostly people standing next to me in line.

I guess that’s creepy!

A woman and her daughter, I might ask if it’s a mother and daughter. Might inquire about someone’s kids, like guess their ages. That’s usually not an issue. I try to act very non-creepy when I do this, but honestly it’s not that hard because boys and little girls/Lolitas don’t do it for me anyway.

I guess all this is creepy too!

Sometimes if I see a young woman I know, I will go over and have a very brief conversation with her, ask her what she’s doing, etc. If it seems like she’s busy and doesn’t want to talk, I will end it in 30-60 seconds. It could be less than that.

I guess that’s creepy!

Sometimes, I will finish a conversation I had with someone in line. I will go up to their table, say a few sentences that add to the conversation, and then turn and walk away if they seem like they don’t want to talk. I don’t want to make women feel like I’m picking up on them, so I break it off real fast if I get the “I don’t want to talk” vibe, which sadly I get all the time nowadays.

I guess that’s creepy!

If someone acts like they don’t want to talk or gives one word or one sentence answers, I break it off.

I guess that’s creepy!

I do chat up baristas, ask them if they are in college, etc. Sometimes if they live in town. Sometimes comment on an outfit, jewelry or change in hair color or makeup. Sometimes I comment on their names. If they don’t have a name tag, I make a joke about it. I’ve become friends with a few of them and had conversations about a lot of stuff.

I guess that’s creepy!

I never hit on any of baristas because they were all quite young, and I never got an IOI from any of them.

I guess that’s creepy!

I did tell one woman near my age that if she wasn’t married I would ask her out. She said, “Oh that’s so sweet.”

I guess that’s creepy!

If they mean sexual harassment, I never sexually harassed any women in there ever.

I did get a couple of IOI’s. One from a police officer and another from an attorney, both women. They both walked right up to me and started talking to me. Actually, that’s the type of women who typically approach me – some sort of professional. But I didn’t even flirt with or come on to either of them too for some reason.

I never asked for one phone number or date the whole time I was there. Honestly I almost never even flirted with any women in there because I need IOI’s to do that, and they pretty much don’t exist anymore.

The only thing I can think of is that some young women think it’s harassment when I talk to them at all, and apparently they don’t want me talking to them, period. But a lot of times they act like they like it, so I continue. If they act like they don’t, I shut it down.

“Talking to someone when they don’t want you to talk to them even though they never communicate that to you” hardly seems like much of a crime.

*Losers, incels, autists, and social retards are absolutely welcome here. Most of you are not bad people. Creeps, weirdos, and freaks – not so much. But even the latter three are welcome if you want to come here and try to figure out what you are doing wrong. We will try to help you figure out how you are messing up and steer you on a path to where you are not doing these things. We are not moralfags!

Game/PUA: The Intersection of Race and Gender

Great post from Polar Bear.

This is why I love stereotypes. We all know full well that stereotypes are not true in their entirety and are only widespread average glimpses of entire groups. Anyway, people will never stop stereotyping no matter how much the SJW’s scream. Stereotyping is simply generalization and pattern recognition. Generalization is one of the hallmarks of higher thinking.

SJW’s hate generalizations. I tell you what. Try to go through one full day without generalizing. I really doubt if you will even make it out of your bed. We all make generalizations about all sorts of things all the time, every minute of every day. The notion that humans should live without generalization is not only ridiculous. It is downright dangerous.

Pattern recognition is the essence of higher thinking. The higher the IQ, the greater the pattern recognition. This even extends beyond IQ’s of 145.

Stereotypes are generalizations, a necessity every moment of our lives. All generalizations are pattern recognition, the very essence of the highest thinking that we are capable of. In other words, stereotyping is simply pattern recognition, the ultimate in thinking, in terms of human behavior. Polar Bear does a lot of stereotyping here, but while he does this, he tells us many (in my opinion) essential truths about the behavior of various racial, religious, and ethnic groups.

Polar Bear: Black men put up with way less shit, give their “bitches” more shit, and benefit from it.

By the time a White man has a kid with his lady, he is owned.

Orthodox Jews have more of a team relationship.

Muslim men put their women in their place. Jokes at the expense of women right in front of them are common with many of these guys.

Asian women submit and take care of their man.

I believe Jews have the healthiest relationships. I see more of all the other groups, but the Jew couples I’ve seen really had their shit together. My theory is the ethnocentric and religious commonality strengthen their bonds.

Asian women know their role and have great taste in men. This is also a recipe for success.

Muslim men dominating their women is perhaps born out of necessity.  Anyway it’s far better than women dominating men, and I see a lot of strength in their women’s eyes.

Blacks dominate their sick White cows. The women seem on drugs, but at least Cosby Light wears the pants.

Western White men today are steamrolled by their abusive butch women.

Game/PUA: Reading Conversational Shutdown and Negative IOI Signals from Women

RL: A lot of women just don’t like you or do not see you as attractive for some reason. The fact that you are interested in them sexually at all infuriates and enrages them. Basically you have no right to have a sex drive.

Jason: Well, they can always confront the person, but now they going to extremes and making harassment charges.

It’s often unnecessary to go to the extreme of a confrontation.

There are all sorts of ways to let a guy know that you don’t feel like talking to him. I get this shit constantly, every single day. Mostly I just read it right and simply don’t approach them or shut off an ongoing conversation if I get that signal, which I am very good at picking up on.

And a lot of times I can have a casual conversation with a woman, often a young woman, but then if I try to get a little more personal:

Are you in college?…Are you working?…Do you live here in town? That’s an interesting name (insert comment on her name)…*

…I often get a pretty hard shutdown. I call it The Wall. I pick up on that and think, ok, I can only talk about very light things with this woman. I can’t get into anything even slightly personal.

 

Sometimes it takes me a while to figure out that this woman doesn’t want this personal talk because she’s not really making that clear to me.

Sometimes if she doesn’t like personal talk, she just acts nervous when you try to talk to her like this. This is hard to figure out because you wonder if she is just a shy, nervous woman or if she doesn’t want to talk. After a while you can put it together and figure out the nervousness means she doesn’t want to talk to you.

I figure it out slowly over weeks by observing her behavior, how she acts around me, if anyone else notices that I am trying to talk to her personally, subtle verbal and nonverbal communication from others, etc.

Sometimes they figure out that I like some woman at some store and act like they don’t like it. That’s hard to figure out because it’s communicated to me in a cryptic code (they don’t come right out and say it at all – you have to completely read between the lines and catch a lot of nonverbal stuff), but I can usually figure it out. The more I think about it, the better I understand it.

*Please note that those sentences above are in no shape or form flirting in any way. It’s just friendly talk. I guess a lot of women nowadays think friendly talk is evil.

Just Got Banned from a Store for “Harassment”

This is the most BS charge I’ve ever heard of. I patronize the local Starbucks coffee shop a lot, typically every day. This has been going on for years. I’ve never been told by anyone that there was ever any problem involving me. This is over years now. I am talking maybe 10 years.

Well I go in tonight, and one guy, who, granted, can be asshole if he wants to be, although I know him extremely well for years and we have talked about everything under the sun. He sees me coming and “gets into position” apparently in advance of having a conversation with me. He doesn’t look particularly friendly.

I put my mind into a “see nothing, hear nothing,  speak nothing” form of mind where you probably literally have no idea what I am thinking. I’m hiding cognitively and emotionally. I often do this in socially touchy situations where I want to maintain a bit of distance.

I was trying to maintain distance from this guy as lately he has been giving me stupid messages about breaking social rules, and he’s starting to  really piss me off. He has a list of 900,000 social rules – 600,000 things you can’t say and 300,000 things you can’t do. I try to follow the rules, but I keep forgetting them.

It’s all my fault. I know I should remember 900,000 fucktarded rules that are all about things I can’t say or do. They’re all nothing but restrictions on my behavior. Fuck that. I feel like I’m in a cage. I will obey many or even most of the rules, but some people’s rules are just insane. I will talk about these in a future post.

He informs me in serious tone that I am not allowed to come into the store anymore. I am banned. “A number” of young women complained that I was “harassing” them. Later it turned out that “a number” means two and “harassment” means sexual harassment.

I had to think long and hard about who that might be, and I was entertaining all sorts of theories. He said he was required to tell me that. I asked him to give me some details on the complaint, and he said he could not do that.

This is the new #metoo feminist insanity: you often have no idea what the complaint against you is. You have no idea what you did wrong except make some lame cunt feel “uncomfortable.” And we are talking about women here, creatures who probably feel “uncomfortable” 50% of the time no matter what’s going on, and that’s on a good day. That probably even goes for when they are alone.

So I went to the other coffee shop. I kept thinking it was a group of young women, maybe 18, at an outside table as I was getting my coffee condiments. I knew they were not interested in me. I could tell. But they were nice to look at and pretty, happy, laughing young women are always a delight to watch even on a purely nonsexual basis.

However, I didn’t want to stare at them so I placed my gaze literally on their table a foot or so away from any of them (on one far end of the table). If you looked at me, it would seem as if I were looking at something on the table. I did this because I did not want to look at those young women directly.

I often look at a table, the wall, the sky, something across the street, etc. when I want to view some people. That way you get a panorama view of everyone in the area, but you are not looking directly at anyone. You can’t see people as well as when you focus on them, but you still get a good overall view. You’re only staring at someone if you are looking directly at them.  You’re never staring at someone if you are looking at a wall, a table, or the sky.

So I thought that they busted me. But that was a week or so ago, and they would have had to have complained that day. So that pretty much didn’t make sense. Because they needed someone to complain about, they had to have complained about me when I was in the store at the time of the offense. If they complained later, they would not be able to describe who I was.

Since action would have probably taken place immediately on  receiving the complaint, it had to be recent. Very recent. I didn’t think they would wait even one day to inform me of the ban. The ban probably went into place upon immediate receipt of the ban. So I zeroed in on yesterday, as that was the last time I was in the store.

What had happened yesterday? I think I had a casual conversation with a couple of young women. I had had this conversation with them about a fire in the area because there was smoke everywhere. Now I had to figure out when the fire was.

Bingo! Turns out it was yesterday. So yesterday is when I talked to the young women about the fire.  They must have complained about me as soon as I left the store, otherwise employees would not have known who they were talking about.

So that was it. The fire conversation.

Here is literally what happened. I am

Two young women, maybe 18, standing in back of me in line. We exchange looks a few times. I move over towards one and say”

Me: “Looks there is a fire somewhere. There’s smoke in the air. Doesn’t that look like smoke?”

She is extremely friendly as I talk.

She nods her head.

Her: “Yes, it does look like smoke.”

I go back and order. I get done with my order, and as I am putting my stuff away, I wave the women to come over and order anyway even though I am still at the counter. Note that this is an extremely, almost over the top, polite thing to do and a lot of people don’t do it. So my behavior was not just polite but extremely polite. I always do this as I am extremely polite and don’t like to make people wait.

One of them hesitates as if to say are you sure we can come up now?

I nod my head of course. She comes and orders. Orders a frappuchino. An iced drink. I say,

Me: “Cold drink on today? Today’s too cold for a cold drink.”

She giggles.

Her: “I always order a cold drink no matter what the weather is like.”

They leave somehow before I am done putting my stuff away.

I go over to the condiments counter and put stuff in my coffee. I look over at the young women a few times, as they are to my right maybe 15 feet away. They don’t return my glances for whatever reason, but this is something that happens to me constantly, as in every single day, so I think nothing of it.

Then I think. I should go over and inform the young women that I know the source of the fire. I walk over 15 feet to their table. They both turn around. I point to the smoke outside.

Me: “There’s a fire in Sacramento. That’s what all the smoke is, apparently.”

They both nod their heads as if they appreciate this information that adds to our previous conversation.

Her:Ah, yes.”

…as if this information is interesting to her, as it explains the smoke. They are both extremely friendly. After I say one sentence, I immediately turn and walk away since I am not getting any IOI from these young women.

I will walk over to someone’s table and talk to them, but if I get no IOI or indication that they want me to stick around and talk them, I usually just turn tail and walk away. Basically because I don’t want them to think I am trying to pick up on them.

I am actually very shy, reserved, and conservative, believe it or not. I am also a hardcore introvert with all of the guilt and  extreme conscience that goes along with that.

I am also analyzing my behavior all the time to see how it is going over. In particular, I am very paranoid of #metoo and sexual assault crap, so whenever I am talking to women, especially  young women, I am always trying to see if I get an IOI.

If no IOI, I don’t flirt, come onto them, try to pick up on them, try to get their numbers, or ask them out. Also I figure that means that they are not interested in me sexually, so I pretty much shut down my sexual interest too to the extent that that is possible.

For a few years now, I pretty much get zero IOI’s anywhere I go, especially from young women, so for quite some time now, I never flirt, come onto, or try to pick up on women, and I never try to get their numbers or ask them out. I am the ultimate shy, inoffensive man with no sexual interest in women who never flirts, comes onto women, or asks them out or for their numbers.

I ask you all to look at the conversation above and see if there is any sexual harassment going on. As you can see, I am literally talking about the weather! Talking about the weather is the ultimate inoffensive conversation. But I guess you can’t even do that anymore because so many women are such cunts nowadays that if you try to talk to the weather with them, that literally constitutes sexual harassment.

I guess these women think any conversation at all from an undesired man is sexual harassment. I guess it’s sexual harassment to say:

“Nice day.”

“Hello.”

“Hi.”

“Nice weather we are having, eh?”

“Rainy  enough for you?”

“Brr, I’m cold. Is it cold out there or what?”

If the woman thinks the man is not attractive or desirable.

So now, incredibly, sexual harassment doesn’t even have to have anything to do with sex! It can have zero sexual content whatsoever. If you try to talk to some woman about anything on Earth, and she does not want you talking to her, that’s somehow sexual harassment!

This is incredible, and it’s also very bizarre. Any woman can get any man banned from anywhere at any time. All she has to say is, “That man was harassing us.” Does she need to provide details? Of course not.

The mere fact that he was talking to them at all constitutes sexual harassment! Does she need to say what he said or did, specifically in a sexual tone or sense, that qualifies the behavior as sexual harassment? Of course not!

The conversation and behavior can be 100% nonsexual, and now apparently even completely nonsexual words and behavior now constitutes sexual harassment.

Sexual harassment is literally any time any woman feels bothered, annoyed, or made to feel uncomfortable by any man anywhere for any reason no matter what he said or did!  Make a woman feel uncomfortable and it’s harassment!

How are we supposed to know if our words or behavior are making a woman uncomfortable?  There’s no way to tell! What might be fine with one woman might be serious harassment to another.

Is there any way to tell while you are interacting with a woman that you are making her feel uncomfortable? Of course not! These two women are all smiles and pleasantness.

Usually when a woman doesn’t want to talk to you, she gives off those vibes. There are literally a million verbal and nonverbal ways to do this, I’ve seen them all, and I know them very well. Here I had a conversation with two young women, and they smiled, laughed, and thanked me for the words and gave off the impression of a consensual conversation in which both parties were consenting enthusiastically of their own free will.

I really need to know what in God’s name I did wrong. Except maybe that at my age, I am forbidden to talk to any young woman anywhere for any reason because I can only make them uncomfortable. I’ve actually been thinking just that for some time now because those are the vibes I often get.

I’m not going to shut down and stop talking to other humans no matter what fucked up attitudes they have. If they don’t want to talk to me, they can make that clear, and I will end the conversation and take off.

But this idea that for some reason, I am so old, ugly, undesirable, or creepy now solely because of my age that I am not allowed to converse with 50% of the population is absurd. I’m going to rebel against that. I only have one life here, and I intend to enjoy it. Telling me I’m not allowed to talk to half the human race anymore pisses me off. I don’t care if that’s the message of humanity. I’m going to break that fucking rule whether people like it or not.

Final message to all feminists:

Burn in Hell, cunts!

Game/PUA: Natural Law Wants Males to Be Masculine and Females to Be Feminine

Polar Bear and I are both suggesting that Nature wants men and women to be a certain way, and when we decide to act in a way contrary to the way Nature wants us to act, the result is unhappiness. Mother Nature bats last.  She always gets the last laugh too. And you can’t fool her either. She’s always got that winning card hidden up her sleeve somewhere.

I have noticed that feminine (not effeminate) straight men are not very happy. Sometimes I get around these guys, and they start acting a lot more masculine, apparently riffing off me. While I’m not the most masculine guy around, I’m positively macho compared to a lot of feminine men.

I have noticed that these men often jump at the opportunity to act macho and embrace their masculinity. It’s like it was hiding in there all along, and it was just waiting for a signal to break out. And they seem very happy while they are acting masculine. Like they finally found their groove.

I have also noticed that when females are really horny and definitely want to fuck, their behavior changes, and they start acting a lot more feminine. I have seen pretty bitchy women convert into fluttery Southern belles simply because I made them horny or they were in love with me.

The two things – female horniness and “love” – have a lot more in common than you think, guys. When they’re madly in love, women often get insatiably horny. It’s like love turns on the female sex drive.

I have also noticed that when women get into this extreme feminine or submissive behavior around me, they truly seem to be in their special happy place. Deep down inside, this is where they all want to be, submissive and feminine.

Hence butch women or domineering bitches often seem miserable. Domineering bitches are being turned that way by their wimpy male partners, and while they seem to enjoy tormenting these guys; in reality, I think they are resentful at these men for not acting more masculine and forcing the woman to wear the pants.

They don’t really enjoy beating up on these guys. If you look closely, a lot of these bitches don’t look very happy. They deliberately seek out wimpy men to dominate and beat up on, but these are not happy relationships for either party.

Obviously the man is miserable by being dominated by a bitchy women, and the bitches themselves seem to resent being forced into this role as I suggested above.

Like all women, even domineering bitches probably long for a masculine man to dominate them, boss them around, and maybe even put them in their place.

You know how many women have specifically requested me to dominate them in bed? More than a few.

And a woman once told me to come over to her place for the weekend:

“I really need a man to boss me around. I haven’t been laid in forever.”

That freaked me out. What? She wants to be bossed around? Afraid so. And she ain’t the only one, guys.

If you study the mating habits of mammals, the female tends to act quite submissive and “feminine” when she is mating. The male often acts with exaggerated masculinity when he is mating.

The same thing happens in humans. Go to a bar some time and watch a couple pick each other up. I saw a couple at a bar near me do this. They were both Hispanic, so they believe in traditional sex roles. As they got more and more into each other, the man got increasingly masculine. It seemed that he was almost growing taller in front of my eyes. And the woman got more feminine as she got more into the guy. On the contrary, she seemed to almost shrink in his presence.

I am reading a book about grizzly bears now, and the author is witnessing a pair of bears mating. Yep, the male exaggerates his swagger, and the female almost cowers in front of the male, to the extent that a male grizzly can actually act more tough and to the degree that a female grizzly can get submissive at all, anyway.

It’s the heterosexual dance, and we humans are all mammals. I have long said that I didn’t really start to understand male and female humans in a sexual sense until I started studying higher mammals and comparing them to us humans.

Want to know how human females act in a sexual sense? Study those female elk, those female elephant seals.

Want to know how human males act in a sexual sense? Same thing. Study male cats, elk, or seals.

Mammals are like us in surprising ways,  all the way down to the Alphas with their harems, and the females taking a number and waiting in line to fuck the Alpha. Mammals even have legions of incels cast aside, Darwinian losers and dead ends.

The incel seals, the bachelors who aren’t getting any lady seal pussy, are stranded on these rock formations they call haul-outs, while the psychopathic monster elephant seal has his harem of 50 seal babes. I have no idea what those poor incel seals are doing there on their haul-outs other than barking. Holding their seal dicks in their flippers, I guess.

Alt Left: Human Abnormality and Normality: Two Contrasting Definitions

The two definitions would be:

First definition, Common versus uncommon.

1a. Abnormal as in uncommon: Everything only existing a small percentage of humans is abnormal like this. This usually but not always implies that it would not be workable if the majority were like this.

In this sense, sorry, but blue eyes and blond hair are abnormal unless you’re an Estonian. And of course left-handedness is abnormal. But one could argue that those three things are also harmless. Abnormal things could be either harmless or even positive (blond and blue above).

1b. Normal as in an always-present part of the human tapestry. In this sense, child molesting, rape, wife-beating, murder and all sorts of nasty things are “normal” in the sense that they are simply part and parcel on the human experience. On the other hand, we want to keep this sort of thing at as low a level as possible due to the moral aspect of it (it harms innocents) and the social chaos dimension (high levels of any of this cause a lot of chaos).

Second definition: Workable versus unworkable.

2a. Abnormal as in unworkable for the majority. In this case, the human behavior works on when only a few humans do it, but it might not work well at all if a majority of people were like this. I will give examples like this below.

2b. Normal as in workable for the majority. In this sense, left-handedness and blond hair and blue eyes would be both normal and abnormal at the same time: they are all rare so they are abnormal per se, but if the majority were left-handed or blond and blue, this would not only be workable for society but it might even make the world a better place. A world full of Swedish women sounds like an upgrade, at least to me.

Let us point out that geniuses, retards, murderers and saints are abnormal in the 1a sense for better or for worse.

Abnormal and bad (1a-2b type): On the other hand, neither killers nor retards are normal in the other sense.  You can’t really have a human species where most humans are murderers. Granted tribal societies like this exist (the Yanonamo), but it wouldn’t be healthy in larger groups.

In the US 110 million men would have murdered a man by age 40. You really think that’s sustainable. Killers get locked away forever in prison. You’d have millions or tens of millions of men locked away for decades. Not to mention the total societal chaos that would ensue.

Could you have a human species where most people are retards? Not going to work either.

Abnormal but good (1a-2a types). The good but abnormal things are different. Geniuses and saints are both normal and abnormal. They’re a normal part of the human experience, but only a tiny percentage of humans are either, so it’s abnormal de facto – anything practiced by only a tiny percentage of humans is obviously abnormal.

This also shows that there’s not necessarily wrong in the abnormality of tiny behavioral minorities. It takes all kinds to fill the freeways. And geniuses and saints both have contributed immensely to our species and our accomplishments.

But could you have a society of geniuses? I’m not sure. Probably no one would ever get laid for one thing because genius men at least are the worst at getting laid because they’ve left their bodies and swim in their heads all the time. Most Normies notice that and think it’s weird if not nuts.

That’s part of why genius men often find it hard to get laid. As IQ rises, men have less and less sex, girlfriends, wives, etc. and their likelihood of being virgins in their early years rises. So does their poor performance at sports. The awkward, dorky nerd genius who can’t get laid is more than a stereotype: there’s something to it.

And geniuses don’t hook up with each other very well  either, but maybe the female geniuses could seduce the male geniuses. A lot of female geniuses really like to fuck and have great success at dating and relationships. Genius doesn’t seem nearly so tied in with painful introversion in women. Female geniuses are often strikingly extroverted.

A society of saints? I’m going to go out on a limb here and say it won’t work. We’re not meant to be pure good and especially purely self-sacrificing. We’d all die trying to be heroes and protect other people. A lot of us would probably deny ourselves to death as saints are wont to do so – check out how many saints and saintly types died of sheer starvation. Not to mention they like to starve themselves in other ways, as in sexually.

Saints seem prone to masochism and no-fun ethics – if it’s fun, it’s bad; if it makes you suffer,  it’s good. So there would again be a lot of celibates – volcels this time – whereas the genius males would be incels.

I would also argue that it’s not healthy for us to be pure good. A little bit of rough makes the world go round. I don’t like bad people, but I’m not against being a little bit bad. Hell, I’m not against being a little bit evil for that matter. I like to stir just a tiny sprinkle of evil into my coffee every morning. Gives me that nice bad boy edge to go out and conquer in a hostile world.

I’ve had girlfriends remark that I’m a little bit evil. That’s just fine. As far as I can tell, it’s helped me get laid. I have had girlfriends even flat out admit that to me – they have told me that I am dangerous and scary, but that that turns them on like crazy. For that reason one was rejecting a “boring old man” in favor of me, about whom she remarked:

You’re scary. But scary’s hot.

Danger in men revs up the female sex drive. Take note, boyos. Score one for Bad Boy Game.

If they said I was real evil, I might get worried.

Perhaps being a little bit bad or evil is an essential part of the human experience for most of us.

After all, what humans say is evil is simply normal survival type behaviors for most mammals. In other words, if most mammals aren’t at least a bit “evil” they’re probably going to die or go extinct.

Want to feel good about yourself? Fine, be a saint. On the other hand, want to survive? Maybe you’ll need to be just a bit bad.

Repost: The Scarlet Letter of Modern White Society

I can’t believe this was written nine years ago! This is a repost of an old post on this site that people are still commenting on in its new locale on this new site.

I am trying to think hard how I feel about this. There are definitely some White men who feel this way. They are racist but not obviously so. If you knew them you would not notice it. Also it seems that things have changed in the past nine years.

It’s still not common for White women who have Black boyfriends or husbands, but it’s becoming quite common for White women to have sex with Black men for some obvious reasons that you could figure out if you put on your thinking cap. There doesn’t seem to be a lot of stigma against White women at the very least having sex with Black men.

I live here in the barrio – hood, and it’s fairly common around here to see White or Hispanic women with Black men. They have often had kids with these men. The kids are mulattos. Further you see more and more mulatto adults aged 18-35 around here. Or maybe Hispanic-Black or Hispanic-Black-White, etc.

At least among the poor, this sort of thing is quite common. Poor people don’t seem to care much who they have kids with and anyway, and even the worst Black culture has a good reputation among a lot of poor Whites and Hispanics around here. Wiggers and spiggers (higgers?) are everywhere.

I remember when this was first published and tulio, a commenter, objected to the piece. What I am wondering is if it matters what sort of Black man the White woman is with. I was told that even normal racist Whites (there’s a normal, typical casual racism common to most older Whites) might say to his daughter, “If you bring a Black man home here, he better be Sidney Fucking Poitier!”

Most White families with accept a Black man like Mr. Poitier as a partner for their daughter. I would think that the Black men who we Whites see as acting more or less like us would be acceptable with a White woman.

But there is a sort of less civilized Black man who we really don’t want to see with our women. I think you catch my drift here. Anyway, if Tulio, Greg, or Phil want to get with a White woman, I don’t think most Whites would have a problem with that. If the guy looks like he’s straight outa Compton, it’s a whole new ballgame and probably most White families and White men will not be happy about that.

It’s not a red A but a red B that many White women must wear in White society. It means she dates Blacks, and to many White men, she’s no longer White. If you look White and you act White, you’re White. These women have broken the second rule. Though they look perfectly White, they no longer act White, so they have been expelled from Whiteness.

An Asian commenter who is upset about Asian women dating White men and abandoning their race was somewhat comforted when I told him that we White guys, to a lesser extent, deal with the same silliness from our women:

fpy: Rob, so you’re saying that a white woman will, if she’s going to outmarry, choose an unemployed ghetto hoodlum over an Asian guy who makes good money from a software engineering company?

Of course. But mostly she won’t marry him, she’ll just date and sleep with him. But she won’t give the Asian guy the time of day.

Don’t lose any sleep over it. Why do women do this? Because in some ways, women are lousy Just recognize that women are lousy in some ways, and accept it and that there is nothing you can do about it, and then you will be happier and start to feel a lot more peaceful.

What much of White society does, even White racial liberals, White liberals and White Leftists, is draw the line at White women who date Blacks. For a lot of White men, that’s a supreme violation, and White women who do that are excised from the White race. I know many White men who tell me that they will not touch a White women who they know has a thing for Blacks. In this way, even liberal White society is still quite racist.

I actually don’t mind this too much, but I don’t practice it myself. It’s OK because it disciplines our women. I think we should allow them to date tulio and Car Guy (commenters on the site) type Blacks no problem, but when it comes to the ubiquitous more or less Black thug/semi-thug type, the shunning is a great idea.

Most of these White guys don’t lose any sleep over the issue. They tell me, “I don’t care about White women who go with Blacks. It’s only a certain type, and most don’t do that. To me, those women are simply lost to us, and I won’t touch them, so they don’t worry me one bit.”

These guys simply expel these White women from the White race, move on, and don’t get all upset it. Maybe it’s something Asian guys should consider?

Truth is it’s a certain type of White women who likes Blacks. Obviously, she’s the polar opposite of the Jewish/Asian women selecting for Einsteins. The White woman who likes Blacks likes jock type guys. A lot of women like jocks. Blacks are the ultimate jocks. But a lot of White women don’t go for the jock type, so this interracial dating is somewhat limited.

Black guys go on and on about how much better they are in bed than White women and how they treat White women better. I think that’s a bunch of shit. How many different ways are there to penetrate a vagina? What’s involved? Is it some sort of an Olympic sport?

So I won’t grant them that one, plus for sure they don’t treat White women better. In general, they’re abusive, controlling, possessive, and super-aggro. Lot of sick chicks like that. That’s called a masochistic woman. Leave the sickos to their neuroses.

In deference to Black men’s egos, I will say that they are better than Whites in a couple of ways:

1. Sports! Yes, they’re the ultimate jocks, and if there were as many jobs in sports as there are in White collar jobs, Blacks guys would be cleaning up and living large, that is if they didn’t blow every paycheck as soon as it hit their palms. But give credit where it’s due.

2. Rap! Yep, Black men are the ultimate talkers and the world’s premier charmers and bullshitters. Women are pretty stupid (as in gullible), and they are always falling for charming liars and sweet-talkers. Black men probably tell White women what they want to hear. They talk the talk. Women like that. They fall for the talk, even if the guy’s an abusive semi-thug.

Also, a White woman is a jackpot for a Black man. Even an unattractive or fat one will be treated like a queen because he’s so happy to have her. Homely and fat White women are everywhere in White society.

Most White women in their teens and 20’s are going for the Alphas. The Alphas are ~15% of the White male population. They’re pretty much all taken, and by age 30, 85% of White women lost out. These women are too good for Beta White men. By now they’re furious at White men because these women could not score the Alpha.

Plus no matter how fat or homely they are, like all women, they want to be worshiped like Jackie Onassis. Most White guys, if they get with a fat or homely woman like this, will say, “Hey, you’re ugly! LOL! To make things even worse, you’re fat! LMAO! Now get over on that bed right now.” This is the painful and crushing truth, and if you are a fat or homely woman, you should expect to be treated this way. But being treated like this makes these women angry.

A Black guy will treat even fat and homely White women like they are angels fallen from Heaven.

Another thing going on here is revenge. I have a Yahoo group that is full of single adults. Many are middle aged.

At one point, the group was full of angry single middle-aged White women. They were furious at White men, livid with rage, and like most women, they didn’t make sense.

They particularly hated macho White guys, and they took an ultra-feminist stance. They belittled, attacked, and castrated the White men in the group. Whole mobs of them engaged in regular episodes of what they called “ball-busting” of White men. They were also furious that White men were macho pigs who did not treat women right. Later I found out that a huge number of these women were dating Black men. Who, of course, treat them much worse than we do.

None of this female behavior makes much sense, but women are unfathomable in the best of times.

PUA/Game: The Young, Rich College Coeds I Met at USC 1982-1983

SHI: I found the girls from the wealthy group superficial, flaky, and snobbish. No shit, that’s how they were raised. Their parents were assholes too.

Jason: But they are of course in massive denial of this. Well, I did get one to admit he was an ass – sort of.

Yeah, who knows? Who knows what those people think?

SHI is correct for rich Indian women, no doubt. But American rich women seem a lot different.

Although I went to USC and I met a lot of young women from wealthy families. I was in a teaching program, and those are full of women with only a few men. Stud’s paradise. The few guys around are often lame, cucked, repressed or autists.

I was friends with this Japanese dude who was almost too Beta to even get laid, though he had a girlfriend who wanted to fuck him obviously. But he was too scared – nerdy = autistic – to do it, and he would make an excuse and turn her down. He was nice but very conventional.

He was also a writer. I spent a lot of time over at this guy’s house in Torrance. I was “Duude.” That was actually my name to him. He thought I was a crazy, offensive, super-asshole, which is of course true. He just thought I was an outrageous “funny asshole.” He rather liked me.

There were also these aide types around in the administration of the teaching program. Almost all women, one dyke, a lot of the rest single, one man in the whole program, decent enough guy. I think he ran the thing.

So the office was full of these horny single woman staffers. Like 10-20 years older than me. I chased them too because I’m an asshole, and I don’t care. This one hottie I befriended. She seemed really uptight. Lived alone. But obviously liked cock.

I used to have breakfast and lunch with her. One time we were talking about gay men, and I mentioned that people say they hate women, but really they don’t. Most women think this is a thoughtful conversational topic. And then I said, “But I think to truly hate the opposite sex, you really would have to be a heterosexual!”

She fell out of her chair, and every woman I used this line with loved it. Because straight women sort of hate and love men, and straight men sort of hate and love women.

We are wonderful and horrible to each other. Men hurt women badly and vice versa. Both sides accumulate battle wounds and bitterness over time. Everyone knows this but if you mention it, the defenses like Denial come out fast. But women think that statement hits it on the head.

We used to go out to the movies. I was an alcoholic at that time, drinking 10 beers a day and doing student teaching. I was also a mental mess and was going insane. She lived alone near Beverly Hills and slept alone on a pad in the living room. I made out with her pretty good at the door but she stopped short of that and would not let me come in.

She wanted to fuck me but stopped herself because “she had been married and traveled all over and I had not,” so we had nothing in common. So no sex. No pussy. Plus she was 15-20 years older than me. Mommy type. Mommy-son dynamic. Weird but fun. Maybe.

I actually dated quite a few of those USC coeds. If anything, they were a bit uptight and not real loose sexually. It wasn’t real easy to fuck them. They were sort of inexperienced/prudish, but not in a bad way. Others were living with a boyfriend.

I became good friends with one, and I used to hang out at her house. She was Jewish. We never had sex but we used to talk about porn, and she knew the names of female porn stars. But I don’t think she was an easy fuck, or at least she never fucked me.

I met another one, totally hot, Sandra, who drove a late model Mercedes and lived in her own expensive house  in Pasadena. She was well known for being a slut ,and the other women hated her. She was nice and actually I probably could have fucked her as she gave off vibes like that, one day in particular, but I blew it.

I made friends with an extremely uptight Black woman named Betty. I guess she liked me but she was ugly and ultra-uptight. She eventually decided I was an asshole after blowing her off for many months.

There were other Black women in the program.  They lived in South LA but they were extremely civilized, nice girl, often really religious types.

I used to hang out with one in the library. One day she laughed at me and asked, “Boooob. Are you shyyyyy?” I never went out with her, but I probably  could have. But as she was a church girl, she probably didn’t put out. But she sure was nice. And in a Black people sort of way, she was rather hot.

I dated a Venezuelan woman but it never went beyond lunch dates. She wasn’t exactly an easy fuck either.

I dated a repressed Black woman who lived in Marina del Rey whose father was a physician.

We were working as aides at an elementary school, and we would meet at 8 AM and all have breakfast in the lounge.

I guess the Black woman liked me. One day we were talking about the football game, and she looked at me and said, “Damn I sure wish someone would take me to the football game!” And then she repeated that a few times looking right at me. Not being a total idiot, I got her number, and we made plans.

We went to a football game, and a bunch of White conservatives saw me with a Black chick and laughed at me in a very racist way, like sneering Southern rednecks treating me like an object of derision and hilarity.

Back then it was like if a White guy was with a Black chick, he was a fucktard because that meant he couldn’t get a White woman, so he had to resort to Black chicks. Because obviously they are bottom of the barrel, right?

I went out with her again at her apartment where she lived with her physician father, who I met. She lived in the Marina. I forget what happened but we went to some disco and went out dancing. Nothing happened in this relationship, not even a kiss. She was insanely uptight and apparently inexperienced sexually.

Later she hated me. Some weird guy was calling her up all the time saying sexual things and threatening her. She was convinced that this was somehow me. She also thought I was the biggest fucktard idiot total loser of a man on the face of the Earth. I have no idea why she thought that because she never acted like that on dates.

She was basically out of her mind. She told everyone that I was doing this to her, and I think even tried to get authorities involved. Just another land mine in the minefield called Women.

Women are dangerous.

There was this other very proper White woman who nevertheless usually spent the night at her boyfriend’s house. She ate breakfast with us every morning. So she was getting fucked all the time. Most of the others were not. Seemed like she and maybe a few of the others were the only women having any sex.

She actually seemed like she really liked me too.

Almost all those women had parents who were dentists, lawyers, or physicians. I carpooled with this super uptight women who was going to Dentistry School.

She was sexually repressed and uptight, and sitting next to her in the passenger seat, she would look at me and nervously touching her pussy while she drove. Like her pussy was all backed up, female equivalent of blue balls. Which actually exists. She wasn’t getting laid at all obviously and she probably was very inexperienced.

I have seen other young women who were not getting any sex and probably not masturbating either. They also seemed “backed up” with female equivalent of blue balls and touched their pussies a lot nervously.

There was also some older couple in the car with us, no idea, maybe her parents. I managed to piss all these uptight, conventional, extreme Normie people off by being my usual offensive asshole self.

That woman really hated me, and her parents thought I was pure scum, which is sort of true. I didn’t really care because they were just typical Normie White people fucktards, completely uptight, conventional, critical, with 1 million prohibitions and what you can say or do and be appropriate.

She seemed like she was interested in me sexually though, even though she hated me. Which is pretty typical for a woman anyway.

There was a seriously hot Black woman with a physician father. She was in one of my night classes, and she and I became quite close, had all sorts of great conversations, and spent time together. She was my best friend!

She was very, very nice and absolutely gorgeous, but rather uptight and seemed like she was sexually repressed or possibly just inexperienced. I simply blew it with her because I was completely insane at that point in my life, and it was sort of clear to anyone who studied me a bit. So like a fucktard I never asked her out. She sure liked me though. I mean a lot. A lot a lot a lot a lot.

There was also this Korean woman whose parents were doctors. She was also in the night class with the Black woman and she was also in one of my day classes with the blond sorority cunt.

She was the sweet, kind, loving, super-friendly, knockout gorgeous Asian woman of your dreams, straight out of all the stereotypes you ever heard about these women. She embodied them all, literally an animated and mortal human stereotype in flesh and bone.

She seemed like she really liked me. I mean like really really really really liked me, but like a moron, I never asked her out.

To tell the truth, she also seemed very sexually inexperienced, but not uptight or prudish, more in that strange Asian woman way where they aren’t getting any but it’s not due to being prudish because they’re not. Instead they are sort of normal and ok with it as this is what an unmarried woman is supposed to be like in their society.

I probably could have easily dated half the women in the program, but I simply blew it with a lot of them. And I did  date quite a few of them anyway. They were mostly repressed, uptight, and sexually inexperienced. But most were very sweet and nice.

Also keep in mind that I was at the peak of my looks, and women said I looked like Tom Cruise and Rick Springfield. I got offers to be a male model, which I turned down due to homophobia. In retrospect maybe I should have braved the fags and taken the jobs.

So maybe these women were just really nice to me because I was Chad. Had I not Chad’s looks, perhaps my experience would have been very different.

I also had good Game even then, so maybe that too. But I needed the Looks.

You got the Looks? Fine. Add the Game on top of the Looks, and now woo woo you’ve got a killer machine. It’ll teach you ev-ry thing.

No Looks? Add Casanova’s Game and it might just be worthless, or worse, creepy and dangerous.

YMMV.

Silverlake, LA, 1983: Bizarro Split Personality in a Bisexual Man

I was doing aide work at a Black school in South LA, 4th grade. These kids were well behaved, even the boys. Teacher was a woman in her 40’s, a  super liberal. We became friends and she invited me to her place where she lived with her husband in Silverlake.

First time I went there was late on a weekend night, 10 PM. No idea what I was doing alone in Hollywood that late on a weekend night. She and the husband were there with a neighbor. Neighbor was extremely gay but very goodlooking.

He really liked me but he acted sort of taken aback by me because it was obvious that I figured out he was gay and I was put up an intense, near hostile front to make sure he didn’t get any ideas. You really have to act this way around gay men.  He was a nice guy but super femmy.

He asked me my name and last name, and he said he used to go to school with a Rick Lindsay in Encino. Asked if he was any relation. Actually it was my (gay) cousin. The gay said, “I knew Rick Lindsay, your cousin, in high school. Rick Lindsay was the smartest person I have ever known,” which was an interesting thing to say. I told my cousin Rick this in front of people several years before he died, and somehow this was an incredibly offensive thing to say!

Anyway, we were all drinking wine, and the woman’s husband,  in his 40’s, was acting  extremely gay like a raging faggot, apparently taking his clue from the femmy guy on the floor.

His wife thought this was very cute and amusing, which is a typical reaction of women who have gay/bisexual boyfriends. They think  these guys’ fagginess is cute and funny somehow. I don’t get it. And to me their seeing faggoty behavior in their boyfriend as cute or charming in some little boy way is just sickening and stupid. I consider those women to be idiots.

Anyway I am thinking. “Is this dude, the husband, a fag or what? He’s married to the teacher. So he’s bi? So she married a fag? WTF.”

He was acting totally faggy but he combined that bizarrely with this sociopathic total asshole view of life whereby it was ok to get to the top any way you could, and if you had to destroy people or walk on heads to get to the top, this was just fine.

So he was defending sociopathy. He was acting like a raging faggot and defending psychopathy at the same time. Whatever. It seemed a weird combo. Like Twilight Zone.

Well, this was LA, pretty much Hollywood, and that’s Hollywood for you. Just as he described it, stone fucking evil in that very way. Maybe it’s some weird Hollywood faggoty Satanism, just like the social conservatives say.

I took off at some point as this scene with two faggy dudes, one a total psychopath, and the “giggle at the faggots” straight wife of one faggy guy together in a room was weird as Hell, drinking wine in Silverlake at midnight, is just too weird for me. I’m weird myself, but when things are getting weird, the weird get going, and I take off.

I later went over to their new apartment a few times. Now the husband was in full macho man straight dude tough guy mode. I was like WTF. Are you a macho redneck man’s man or a raging fucking faggot?

Dude you don’t make sense!

But this is Silverlake, which is swarming with homosexuals, and said gay culture infects the whole place, even the straights, so maybe it all makes sense.

Or maybe bisexual men are just weird split personality macho straight guy – flaming faggot gay guy combos. I’ve seen some evidence in others that this is true.

He made some remark about the gay guys down at the corner at the gas station and how it took him a few years to figure all that out. Winking at me. Then he had an earring in a weird ear. He looked at me very thoughtfully.

Basically the guy was saying that he fucked men. He’s bisexual or whatever. And he’s thinking I’m like him. He’s gotten this idea somehow that I am gay, but then he’s figured out somehow that I love women,and therefore I’m straight, too. So he’s trying to complete the jigsaw. Bob’s obviously bisexual. Split the difference.

Wrong.

He’s looking at me like, “Are you gay/bi too, Bob? You seem like you’re gay/bi like me.”

I get this a lot from these men – for some reason, they think I am one of them, which really pisses me off.

This is a typical thing from these guys because no one can figure me out, and I don’t make sense. I gave him a hostile vibe like I thought faggotry was contemptuous and disgusting behavior, and he figured it out – “Ok, Bob’s not gay. He only likes pussy,” and he drops the subject. The wife gets it too.

Game/PUA: One Morning at an Elementary School in Hollywood

Student Teaching at USC -One Man in Pussy Paradise

My teaching program at USC was just me, a few totally beta nerdy but nice hopeless guys, and 10-15 hot college coeds for each guy. And none of them wanted the betas. So it was like 10 chicks for each dude who wasn’t a complete fucktard. I was the only fuckable guy in the program, so a lot of them acted like they wanted me all the time.

Some of them were pretty cunty like so many young women, with a mix of flirtation and offense/revulsion that so many women engage in: “Fuck me! What? You want to fuck me? Fuck you creep. Ew let’s get away!”

Took me a long time to figure out that this insane bullshit is actually a part of normal female behavior. Those nasty ones were usually sorority girls, and sorority girls and fraternity guys are notorious for being cunts and assholes.

However, I met and got to know quite a few of those rich young women and most of them were really, really nice.

The Library in Hollywood

I used to do aide work at an elementary school in Hollywood. It was like me and no other guys and 10-15 hot college-aged women. They were always all over me.

I was doing student teaching with 2nd graders. It was like me and 10-15 hot college babes. They all flirted with me all the time, and they were all always putting their hands all over me for no reason. I should have dated a lot more of them than I actually did, but I screwed up and was not bold enough.

One day they were all over me as usual and some kid pointed to me and the 10-15 chicks and said, “Who’s Bob’s girlfriend?” This cool second grader  like he could not even believe that men like me existed. he looked at me with wide but reverent yet uncomprehending eyes and said, “All of them! All those girls! They’re all his girlfriends!” Because that’s what it seemed like. But I didn’t take advantage of that like I should.

One of these women who was all over me was a hot young Romanian woman whose father was a doctor. Angela R. What do you know? I remember her name after 37 years! I have been trying to think of it this whole evening and I finally got it. Lived in Marina del Rey.

One day I said I was sick, and she got this concerned but very hesitant and frightened look in her face and came up to me and put both both of her hands nervously and tentatively on my lymph nodes. She said, “Yes, they’re swollen.” She seemed really turned on but also terrified. Like she was very afraid to openly flirt with me like that.

I got her number and asked her out to football games, but it never happened. She was a cool chick though. She was repressed too though.

“Which One of Us Is Going to Fuck Bob?”

One day they were all all over me and flirting with me, and then it was time to go. I was walking out and the two sorority cunts were leaving too.

A blond and a redhead.

The Blond

The blond was a rich, annoyed coed who nevertheless was always flirting with me for no reason at all. Then I would go talk to her and she would be, “Fuck off weirdo!”But this is just the normal behavior of women. See below.

Once I gave a presentation, and this hottie was flashing me her panties the whole time. I asked her where to buy cheap gas, and she acted annoyed. “I don’t know.” There was a gas price crisis, but rich people never concern themselves with petty things like the price of gas. So the same chick who was flashing me her pussy was also acting quite hostile towards me.

And later she switched to flirty. I passed out Macademia nuts for some dumb reason as a part of my presentation, and it turned into a party. She came around me and acted very sexy and flirty and talked about how much she loved Macademia nuts.

Sexual Attraction-Rejection Dynamics in the Human Female

You have to realize that this is typical female madness and not get weirded out or confused by it. Very important, or you will possibly hate women for at least a lot of your life. This nonsense is not worth hating them over.

Women are not evil even though they seem like they are. Instead they’re just crazy. They’re nuts. They don’t know what they are doing. So they’re off the hook on being evil.

As I Am Leaving the School with the Blond and the Redhead Sorority Girls

The blond was with her hot redhead best friend with curly hair who was actually pretty nice, if a bit hard to approach.

The redhead looked back at me with very horny eyes. I was a few feet behind them, and the redhead whispered to the cunty blond, “Who’s going home with him?” like after the flirt-fest with 10-15 chicks all over me all morning, obviously at least one of them was going to take me home and fuck me at the end right?

Because they had all acted like they wanted to fuck that day, and there was this intense sexual vibe in the library all morning. So she’s like, “Obviously one of us 15 girls is going to fuck Bob! Which one of us is it going to be?”

To tell you the truth, just hearing her say that was one of the peaks of experiences with women in my lifetime. I’ve rarely felt like such a damned stud.

The blond acted annoyed and said, “I don’t know!”

I should have made a severely bold move right then. I have gone over this day many times and rehearsed what I should have said. Instead I pussed out.

Game/PUA: Does She Hate You or Love/Hate You?

Women often hate the men who turn them on.

If a woman really hates you, she will ignore you. When I see a woman who acts like she really hates me, sometimes I think, “I should get her number.”

Sometimes she simply hates you, and you really ought to return her hatred with the same, even in a store. I do this to hostile cunts even in public in stores to the point where I become “the belligerent asshole customer.”

Thing is, I don’t care. This stupid cunt hates me for no reason and acts contemptuously towards me. Cunts who behave that way towards me get the full on hostile treatment. Sometimes they get angry and try to grab things away from me, and we have tug of wars with some object and a big scene unfolds. I laugh at this. They often say, “Sir! You really need to calm down!” I refuse to and I laugh at that too.

If she gets civilized, I stop the anger and return her decency. When I leave, I say, “Have a nice day!” in a sarcastic, snide way. A lot of times when I walk out the other employees look at me and smile as if to say, “Thumbs up!” What that means is, “Everyone hear hates that mean cunt too! Thank you for putting that bitch in her place, sir!”

If she hates you/wants you sexually, you get a mixture of contempt, rage, a fighting mode like she wants to punch you, and then it’s mixed with an extremely friendliness and seductiveness. There’s often a lot of nervousness thrown in.

Thing is this female has intense feelings towards you. I can’t tell you how many women who were in love with me, often wildly, alternated between profound love and extreme hatred. You see, she cares about you. When a woman cares about someone, she has intense feelings towards them. Like I said, women who really hate you will just act like you do not exist. That’s what real contempt looks like.

Dirty little secret is a lot of women sort of hate the men who they have sexual relationships with. If you are involved, even sexually, with a woman, and she acts extremely angry, hateful, or rageful towards you at times, it’s just normal crazy female behavior.

Sex is an extremely strong emotion in females, and it throws them into all sorts of weird and often insane moods and behaviors. She doesn’t really hate you. She just “hates you for fucking her.”

Or there are other things involved, like intensity. She simply has intense feelings for you. Her like for you is intense. It’s love affair of the century. When she’s mad at you, it’s intense. You are literally Satan and she is going to murder you and ruin your life. Then a few days later, you are the man she’s waited her whole life for.

Men are driven completely insane by this rollercoaster lunacy, and this is why most men say that women are all insane. They’re not really crazy. They are just very sensitive and emotional creatures, and when she is in love with you or sexually involved, this brings out the profound love and hate switching back and forth.

This is why wise men say, “Love and hate are very close, Bob.” Normie idiots usually use denial and say that’s not true. They’re either lying or they don’t get it. Most people don’t want to agree that love and hate are as close as they are because it seems nuts, and it shatters all of our myths about what love and hate, attraction and revulsion, kindness and cruelty, really mean. We think they are opposites, but not so fast now.

PUA/Game: Women Are a Wild Ride

Rep: Nowadays I love doing the psychologist. I have a lot of knowledge about this. When I do, inevitably some subconscious stuff in the  women’s psyche projects onto me, so it’s a dangerous and wild fluctuating game for sure. But it can give you crazy sex at the peaks.

If the male mind is Logos, then the female mind is something like Magic or Aleister Crowley’s Chaos Magic. Order and logic and forward progress may be the rule of logic-minded Logos, but the world of the female mind is ruled by entropy, which after all is one the principles of the universe, and one that has a lot more scientific basis than Logos, which is still quite theoretical despite being created by Hegel and affirmed by Marx, two great minds.

“Woman” is a wild ride. Always has been, always will be. Ever been on a rollercoaster? Get a rush? Then maybe you can handle women without getting  broken for good.

Yes, the female psyche is a dark and dangerous place, wild like the wilderness or jungle and brutal and glorious like both, like a wild thunderstorm with lightning and thunder, a jungle cruise, a mountain climbing expedition, a jungle trek, a rollercoaster ride, a deep-sea fishing trip.

She will fling you to the highest of peaks where your mind swims with the stars and then hurl you down to the bottom of the Marianas Trench, where she will crush you like a bug when you are down there, turning her heels contemptuously and stomping away. You lie there at the bottom of the fucking ocean, literally lower than whale shit, wondering if it was all worth it.

The world of women is a wild emotional ride of what I call “emotional peak experiences.”  If women live for anything at all, it is this. They even crave the lows if they are wild and crazy lows. With women, everything is straight from the gut, every time. I am woman, hear me roar! Woman, intensity is thy middle name.

Men, do you like to live dangerously? If you do, you may have fun with that wild ride called the human female. For the more sedate and sensitive types though, her wild energy straight from the bowels of Earth and the tangles and tussles of Nature may prove to be simply too much.

There are an awful lot of broken men out there. And the culprit was womanhood.*

+And to be fair to women, vice versa too.

PUA/Game: Former Stud with a Jinx or Hex on Him

Rep: I used to be a player in my 20s and was very successful, especially online. 100+ easily. I made them laugh, was confident, became their psychologist, etc. But then I had a relationship at age 29-32. It destroyed me on an emotional level, and she left me. Now I’m 33, it’s been like a year and a half that she left.

And it appears I have like a bad spell on me. Even my photos online don’t seem to work. The different is HUGE. I even tried using my old photos, which worked back then, and same result. It’s as if I have an aura that they don’t want, and it even telepathically gets to them or something behind their mobile screen!

Has this ever happened to you? Any tips to flush that bad spell away? It makes me crazy, like I feel like telling them: “No! No! This is mistaken identity! In actuality, I *am* a stud!”. And I was. I didn’t gain weight or anything.

First of all, I would like to say that there is no such thing as a “former stud” if you’re player skills were real and due to Looks + Game or some combination thereof. Men who get women via Fame, Power, Money, or Status – sometimes I think they are “synthetic Alphas.” I mean take any of those four things that are getting him the women away from him. Ok, now how does he do? He can’t get laid with God’s help. Ok, synthetic Alpha.

If you were getting all those women by pure Looks and skill (Game), this optimally should be a part of your personality for the rest of your life. You should always be able to plug back into that former stud self of yours. Just transport yourself back 10 years and become the guy you used to be. Float your soul out of this present mortal coil and move into that synthetic body suit of memory a decade ago. It should fit well.

As I said, this will always be a part of you, unless you screw up really bad. One thing you should do now is to make a vow that for the rest of your life, this Stud Self will always be a part of your personality.

Now as far as your problem. You may indeed have a jinx or a spell on you. And sometimes I think I have one on me and women can sense it even through the damned computer or cellphone. I know it doesn’t make sense. If this is true, then your old photos of the self that did so well back then are not working now because they are “contaminated” by some “negative force”, which would be the black energy that is jinxing or hoaxing you.

Now I have no idea if jinxes or hoaxes exist. Perhaps they work off of some known or unknown psychological mechanism. And if they exist at all, as I mentioned in the last post, they should be able to be explained by the laws of physics.

Anyone have any theories or explanations about what’s going on with our brother here? If so, what advice can we give him. Come on boys, put on those thinking caps.

PUA/Game: Casting Spells on Women

Rep: But then I had a relationship at age 29-32. It destroyed me on an emotional level, and she left me. Now I’m 33. It’s been a year and a half since she left.

And it appears I have like a bad spell on me. Even my photos online don’t seem to work. The different is HUGE. I even tried using my old photos which worked back then and got the same result. It’s as if I have an aura that they don’t want, and it even telepathically gets to them or something behind their mobile screen!

Has this ever happened to you? Any tips to flush that bad spell away? It makes me crazy, like I feel like telling them: “No! No! This is mistaken identity! In actuality, I *am* a stud!” And I was. I didn’t gain weight or anything.

Sometimes I feel like I have that bad spell on me too, and they can read some sort of bad vibes even through the damned cellphone without ever seeing me or hearing my voice one time. I don’t know what to do about it, honestly.

On the other side of the wall, I’ve also been able to actually cast love spells on them somehow. No idea how I do it, but over and over again, women say it seems like a cast a spell on them.

What are you, a warlock?…What have you done to me?…I feel like I am under your spell.

They often say that they are horny all the time, from morning until night, and that they want to masturbate all the time. And they often say they have never felt this way before.

I laughed at one, an 18 year old girl. She was getting frustrated: “Take it off. Take off the spell.” She told me she was horny and wet from the time she got up in the morning til the time she went to bed at night, and she had never felt that way before.

I laughed and told her that that’s how it’s supposed to work. Then I laughed again and refused to take the spell off. She pouted. I laughed at her again, this time right in her face. She looked at me like she was going to slap me, but then her expression changed. It was as if she was thinking, “This guy’s so arrogant I want to slap his face. But then I think again, and I realize, ‘But I like that.'”

I haven’t the faintest idea if I am really casting spells on them. I do it in my mind like a magician. I concentrate all my mental energy into an intense spell, which feels like a pure wave of silver-bright energy. I have no idea if it is real or not.

For all I know this may be working off of  some known psychological mechanism. Or maybe magic itself works off of some psychological mechanism, known or unknown.

After all, the universe is ruled by the laws of physics. Everything that happens in the world, even magic, spells, ghosts, poltergeists, levitation, any of that stuff, whether it’s true or happens or not, I will tell you one thing for sure, if there is anything to any of those insane  “pseudoscience” phenomena, I assure you that they are working via the known laws of physics.

The universe operates on a couple of basic principles:

  • Inside the laws of physics, every actually existing thing in the universe.
  • Outside the laws of physics, nothing at all, anywhere, at any time, ever.

Lousy Women Part 3: Black Women and Thieving Quasi-whores

RL: Basically they all stole money from me. Yeah, they were all Black but I’m not sure if the non-Black quasi-whores don’t steal just as much as the Black whores. In Thailand they say never even marry an EX-bar girl.

Those women who stole from me were quasi-whores. And it was more of a dating or pickup thing.

Two Black woman thieving quasi-whores: I had a date with two of them and one picked me up on the street with her friends after a party. Those two were coke whores and they ripped me off.

High class Black woman thieving quasi-whore: Then I had the high class Black girlfriend who was basically an expensive whore, one that didn’t even put out most of the time.

$8 bottle Black woman thieving quasi-whore: And a Black woman came up to me at the local store and asked me to buy her a bottle of booze and then we can go to her place. I buy her an $8 bottle and she gets in the car for a ride.

She turns completely cold. Since she promised me sex I reach under her top and start feeling her huge tits. She fights me off but then I keep on doing it. This is actually a crime called sexual assault but so what.

This is a #metoo moment but I don’t care. If any of these cunts promise us sex and get us to spend money on them and then weasel out the dick, hell yeah I’m to sexually assault them.

We get to her house and I forget what happens but she runs inside and shuts the door. So I paid $8 for a titty feel. Actually it might have been worth it. She had really huge tits.

Tinder Black woman thieving quasi-whore: I met a Black woman on Tinder who said she lived in my city and she wanted to fuck right away. Sorry, red flag.

I had an address and was about ready to go over there when all of a sudden she’s a single Mom who needs to get a sitter for her kid so we can fuck at her place.

But the kid will be bored at the sitter’s. She needs $40 from me to buy the kid a game to keep him occupied. So one more Black woman tried to steal money with this promise sex, get money, run scam.

So what I am experiencing over and over is Black women basically stealing money or trying to steal from me by getting me to spend money on them, promising sex, and then bailing on the sex. Even the high class Black woman did much the same thing.

I have to apologize to Alpha for saying this but as far as I am concerned, Black women are basically thieves and whores or better yet, thieving whores.

I know they’re not all like that but way way too many of them are. I mean that has been my experience with them, right? I keep having bad experiences and I don’t think I am unique. I always wondered why Black men seemed to hate Black women but now I get it. I get it, Black guys!

I know lots of Black women are not like this. Alpha’s not at all. But there sure are a lot of Black women who act awful. The problems in the Black community are not just the men being criminals. A lot of the women are acting horrendous too.

I mean a lot of the men act terrible too and a lot of Black women hate Black men and say they act bad. She basically Black men and Black women both act terrible and then they hate the other gender for that sex’s terrible behavior.

Lousy Women Part 1: Worst Date Ever

Onto my worst date ever. Only maybe six weeks ago. The latest one was just a thieving quasi-whore. I matched her on Tinder and she wanted to date immediately and I am sorry but that really is a huge red flag right there.

I have had a couple of dates off Tinder and neither one jumped me right away. It took four days conversation with one and a month or so with the other until I got a date.

The only women who want to fuck you immediately are whores, thieves, scammers, these quasi-whore thieving bitches. The ones who wanted to fuck either stole money from me or tried to steal money from me. If they want to fuck right away, they are probably thieving scammers.

So I go down there, pick her up and it’s automatically scammy. She’s from Texas and out here all alone. She’s not living at a regular pad but instead she is saying at some Home for Wayward Women Drug Addicts.

She was on meth really bad and got put into this drug program somehow. She was telling me about how her father and grandmother both hated her guts and I was sympathetic. Now I see why they hated her. She’s an evil psychopathic thieving cunt from Hell.

Female readers: I am not calling all women bitches and cunts, but clearly quite a few women are bitches and some are even out and out cunts. But many women are neither. I am talking about a certain species of shitty women. I am not talking about women in general.

This is already getting weird. Finally I see her and she’s dragging a suitcase. Can she stay at my place for a few days as she is completely homeless? This completely takes me aback and once again this is very suspicious and scammy.

She is all alone, broke and homeless in a strange city and she tells me she is thinking about whoring to get the money she needs to get by. Red flag!

Not only are whores and all of the other camgirl whores, amateur porn star whores, picture seller whores, porn star whores, and stripper whores mostly all horrible women, but wannabe whores and ex-whores are also terrible.

The real whores you can use for sex, you can watch the strippers or the camgirls perform, you can buy amateur porn videos or the nude photos, but do not get involved in a dating relationship with any of these types of women.

They are basically thieves who live their whole lives to steal from us men by promising or giving out sex. To her you are a human credit card or a walking ATM.

We go into a store and I buy her some smokes. She doesn’t want to be seen with me because “people will talk.” This is a huge scammy red flag as these thieving cunt types often don’t want to be seen in public with you.

Later we go to a Starbucks but she won’t come in with me. We go to a drug store to buy her a bottle and she ditches me in the store.

Men if you are ever involved in any dating situation where the woman acts like she does not want to be seen in public with you, it is a huge red flag and she’s possibly trying to scam you.

We agree to my place and have sex. Earlier I had bought her a sex toy at an adult video store because she wanted one to masturbate with.

I also bought her some female horny pills. Well the pills start working and she’s getting really horny. If I don’t want to fuck her, she is going in my room, lying down on my bed and using the toy to get herself off. That’s how horny she is. I get a tit feel for a minute or two, which is nice.

Transactional dating. If you want to go out with them, you have to spend money on them. I paid a bill for her, bought her a sex toy and some sex stimulant pills and a bottle of booze. Basically the deal was you buy me this stuff and then I will fuck you.

Actually she was technically homeless and she said she wanted to move in with me for a while. She brought a suitcase to my house. She refused to come into my house with me, once again not wanting to be seen with me. Huge red flag again. She wants to stay in the car awhile.

I go in and later she comes in. She talks for an hour or so a bunch of weird babble and recites some great poem she wrote that is going to be a hit song except it is truly an awful poem.

My brother is over there and we chat for an hour or so. Her suitcase is in my room. All of a sudden things get really weird and she has to leave for no intelligible reason.

I told her she stole $70 from me and I called her a thieving whore. I said you ripped me off. She gave me her ID as collateral and said she would pay me back.

She shows up the next day and wants her ID back. I say give me the $70. She tries to pay me $25 of it, then we fight over the card for a while and things get weird because I won’t give the cunt her ID until she gives me some money.

Somehow she got the card out of me without paying any money. Somehow I followed her outside the house but then she took off running to a waiting Uber driver. She’s just a thieving cunt. She’s not even a proper whore.

So $70 for a titty feel. Something tells me that’s not worth it.

Unbelievably she calls me back a few days later and has her own place and invites me over. But she needs $70. Heard that song before. Blocked her.

Cunts like that have as their sole purpose on this Earth to steal as much money as they can from us men. This one was a certified psychopath. These bitches are the enemies of all of the men.

Sometimes I dream of a world where we men would get together and just kill cunts like this. In a truly patriarchal society like Arab society, she would have been killed a while back. That’s one good thing about patriarchy. It keeps the women in line.

Alt Left: I Guess Gay Marriage Wasn’t Enough

All right, this is just stupid.

You knew the Cultural Left would never stop with just gay marriage, right? Of course you did. Well, here ya go. This woman wants to marry two guys at once because these three adults all live together and all fuck each other. The two men both fuck the women and both of the guys fuck each other too.

Both of those guys look pretty damn faggy even though they are apparently bisexual. I got some news for you: I’ve known quite a few bisexual men. Bisexual men are often pretty faggy. They’re a lot more effeminate than straight men but in general not as effeminate as gay men.  And some are just straight up full-on masculine.

Most of them are basically just straight guys with a mild interest in men that they indulge in on a lark or as a perversion or kink. A lot of others definitely lean gay. And there are quite a few young gay men, even in the Current Year, who continue to hide under a false “bisexual” label. I’ve worked with a couple of them as a counselor.

In addition, there do appear to be some men who are “pure bisexuals” with a strong interest in both men and women. They’re usually not all that faggy but they can be a bit “soft.” A lot of them are studs who rack up scores of female lays. Some have three figure lay counts. Sometimes I wonder if their bisexuality is just a byproduct of their general hypersexuality.

Anyway guys, you don’t want to hang around with bisexual men. Like gay men, they never leave you alone, never stop trying to fuck you, and never take no for an answer. They’re like the guys the #metoo women complain about who don’t understand the meaning of no.

What sort of a woman is actually turned on by faggy gay and bisexual men? I will never understand this.

The Alt Left is for liberals and Leftists who think the perverse situation above in addition to being nonsense is something that should never be legally (or I would argue socially) sanctioned.

We probably do not have a lot to worry about because long term menage a trois’ – either two men and one woman, or more commonly two women and one man – are notoriously unstable and tend to last only a short while before blowing up, often with a lot of drama. Our culture hasn’t perfected the Mormon or Arab polygamy style yet.

“Gold-digger/whore” and “Pimp” as “Types” of Black Ghetto Culture

Maybe it’s not politically correct but I wouldn’t trust the black whores generally. They seem a little extra greedy.

An actual Black whore will not generally speaking not steal your money. But you need to be careful. A common scam is inviting you to a hotel room where her pimp waits and robs you.

I always wondered why Black men from ghetto culture seemed so disdainful of women in general, particularly their own women from that culture. Now after I have dealt with too many Black women, I finally get it. No wonder they call them bitches and whores. I don’t blame em.

On the other hand, a lot of Black men aren’t exactly angels, and I don’t blame Black women at all for having a low opinion of their men or even for seeking men outside their race as a consequence.

Basically in that ghetto culture, the men and the women both act terrible, and they both hate each other for the terrible behavior of the other. Vicious circle.

Way too many Black women have this “whore” personality if they are not out and out whores themselves. Way too many Black women are out and out greedy gold-diggers of the worst type. Sure, White, Hispanic, and Asian women can be like this too, but the % of Black women like this is higher, and they seem worse about it.

One thing is that a lot of them are absolutely open and shameless about their gold-digging or semi-whoredom.

A very high percentage of the decent looking Black women on Tinder are more or less gold-digging whores. It says right there on their profile that basically all they want from us men is money. What do they like? Always the finer things or the finest things. A lot of them are basically saying they want a rich guy, and he should spend all his money on her overpriced ass.

Almost all of them are coming out of that ghetto culture in which most women are some species of man-hating “whore/gold-digger” types and most men are some species of woman-hating “pimp” types.

That culture is seriously messed up in many ways, but the relationships between men and women in that culture are particularly toxic. In ghetto culture, basically everything in life, especially sex, is a Goddamned transaction, and similarly, life is all and only about getting all the money all the time. Considering that these are poor people, their insane level of greed is particularly ridiculous, offensive, grotesque, and appalling.

I hate to say it but every Black woman I ever dated or got involved with was some species of “thieving whore,.” with the exception of one and I only dated her one time. She was an aide at a school I worked at. I didn’t know her long but she seemed like she was definitely a good person.

Most of them just stole my money and then refused to fuck me. None of them were actual whores, but they all saw me as a walking ATM.

I dated a very high class Black woman who was a schoolteacher with a husband who was a physician. She acted like a librarian. I brought her over to my parents house and people remarked on how uptight she was.

She fucked me but she also charged me. Every time I saw her it had to be a date at some restaurant. I always had to shill out 100% of the money. She wouldn’t even leave a tip.

And towards the end of the relationship I would pay for the meal at whatever time of day and then she would bail on the sex. I couldn’t come over just to sit and talk or hang out or – shockers! – actually have sex! You know, what normal boyfriends and girlfriends do? Go over to each other’s homes for the primary purpose of having sex? It’s not abnormal, people.

I studied this woman at length when I was with her. We were actually supposed to get married, believe it or not.

I know, I am such an evil racist scum. I am such an evil, Black-hating, racist White man that I almost married a Black woman! Most extremely racist White men almost or do marry Black women! Happens all the time! sarcasm/>

Anyway I concluded that the most important people in her life were a group of loosely related women – mother, sisters, aunts, female cousins, nieces, etc. This loose “family” of women was  all-female and heterosexual.

Most were of approximately the same class  she was, which was at least middle class and maybe upper middle class. On the surface, their behavior was probably excellent and civilized like hers. In no way were these women part of that ghetto-type culture. There are other Black cultures, you know, and this was one of them.

But I got the definite vibe from her that this family of women had a strong hatred for men, mostly Black men, possibly based on negative experiences with them. It seemed to carry over to all men.

The philosophy was that all men were no-good, cheating, low-life dogs who were good for only one thing – sex – and maybe not even that – in addition to wringing every nickel you could out of them. Use em for sex and take every dime they own, that was the thinking.

My great co-blogger Alpha has told me that male-female relationships are screwed up in the Black community, and she even stated that this attitude above is common. She said it all goes back to slavery. For all I know she may be right, and if so, I feel very sad about that.

But none of the people involved in this gendered dysfunction nowadays were slaves, and that was long ago. If Black people want to move beyond this Gender Cold War, it’s up to them to repair that damage and move beyond into better gender relations.

I still don’t understand why but the more I see of Black people, the more I think that something is horribly wrong with gender relations in that community. My White community is not doing great in that regard either, but the dysfunction is nowhere near Black levels.

It’s really more sad than anything else.

Portrait of a Sex Fetish – Black Women Who Are “White Men Only”

Jason: Apolitical people are a lot cooler but there is so much pressure to be political or you get regarded as a sort of “Uncle Tom of your group”.

Well, I’d like to be friends with more people on social media, but there’s just too much Identity Politics on their timelines (White Redneck, Black, Gay – whatever).

Sure. I’m not against gay rights. I am a strong supporter of gay rights. I’m against Gay IP, a toxic monstrosity. I am not against Black rights. I am against Black IP! Incidentally, Blacks who are deep into Black IP, which is a vast % of them, strike me as being not very happy. They always seem miserable and pissed off.

On the contrary I have encountered a number of Blacks, mostly Black women, who are “White lovers.” A lot of these Black women are into a sex fetish called “White Men Only” or “White Cock Only.” It is an actual fetish or movement with a lot of memes of Black women saying they only want White men and telling Black guys to get lost. I don’t imagine Black men like that very much, but I am not a Black guy.

And all of these women who absolutely love Whites, especially White men, seem to be very happy people. And their behavior is pretty good.

They do not act bad in that typical Black Underclass or Ghetto Culture way. I assume they don’t because most Whites simply will not put up with the constant bullshit you have to deal with in people from that culture.

Some of the women into this White Men Only fetish are still more or less ghetto in a lot of ways. I saw the porn blogs of two young Black women into this fetish who were pretty ghetto. They were both in their early 20’s, and each had a kid already with no man in sight, which is a typical outcome for young women in this culture.

Nevertheless, I thought they acted pretty good for ghetto type women. They didn’t seem dangerous. They didn’t even seem thieving. I felt that if these women had not been into White Men Only, they would have been acting a lot worse. In other words, going White Men Only dramatically improved the behavior of these women.

After I encountered a lot of these White Men Only women, I happened across some Tumblr non-porn blogs of Blacks who were deep into Black IP, which is pretty much the majority of them nowadays.

They didn’t seem very happy. They were all about racism against Blacks, and some were very involved in Black local politics. You can be angry and happy, but these people did not seem like that. Instead they seemed somewhat miserable and pissed off. They were not having a good one.

Now in contrast the White Men Only Black women never say one word about White racism or racism against Blacks at all. No doubt they are effected by it, but they are simply not concerned about such things.

Now according to Black IP most of us Whites are pretty much flat evil and are behind this mysterious nebulous systemic or structural racism against Blacks, and that’s when we are not out and out nigger haters of varying intensities.

Well, if that were true wouldn’t these White Men Only Black women be experiencing a lot of racism, certainly systemic racism, from the White men they are dating? I mean those White men probably treat them bad right, since most Whites really hate Blacks?

Instead they are very happy and say that White people treat them great. In fact many of these women actually look up to Whites as role models for themselves and their race. The fact that these White Men Only Black women experience mostly nothing but pleasantness and kindness from Whites and deal with little racism makes one wonder just how racist White people really are.

Which lets us in on a dirty little secret of Black-White relations. Guess what, Black people? If you like us we treat you a whole lot better! Amazing, isn’t it?  You know, just like for most human contacts? If you act like you don’t like us Whites, we are not very nice to you.

A recent survey showed that 31% of Whites could be described as anti-Black racists. That figure does not surprise me. It’s probably out of three of us. But look at the opposite figure. 70% of us Whites are not particularly racist against Blacks at all. That’s most of us. Some would describe that as “the vast majority of Whites are not all that racist towards Blacks.”

My conclusion is that Black IP is from the very start based on a false premise about White people that most Whites hate Blacks and we are out to do them wrong.

They also blame all of the sadly considerable failures and discrepancies of the Black race on this all-present racism. Well that’s a convenient excuse for Blacks, isn’t it?

How many times have you ever seen someone screwing up and then insisting it wasn’t their fault, they did nothing wrong and instead it was someone else’s fault and they are just a victim of this other person?

It’s a convenient out and this is probably why humans seem to love being victims. Being a victim gives you an out. You no longer have responsibility for your behavior, and in fact you lack agency altogether due to your victimhood. You are simply at the mercy of the evil oppressors who will do with you what they will.

 

Game/PUA: When She Says, “I’m a Strong Woman,” Run for the Door

SHI: There are many more examples of Alpha women. But, it’s just that men will never be attracted to them…Personally I can’t handle an Alpha girl, but I don’t mind a strong-willed and opinionated woman.

The only thing I have to say about Alpha Women is that when a women tells you she’s a “strong woman” or she admires “strong women,” run for the door. 100% of the time you will have a real bitch on your hands at least some of the time.

It’s not a woman’s place to be “strong” in that sense anyway. Women are weak and they are supposed to be weak. That’s their nature.

Men are way too strong. Could you imagine if all the women acted as strong as the men? You don’t want to live in a world like that. It’s bad enough that half the planet consists of male borderline psychos. Women’s weakness balances out the excessive and extreme, often aggressive or even violent, strength of men.

Alt Left: The Truth Is That Even Women Would Rather Be Ruled by Men

Everywhere on Earth you allow women to take power, they will always, without fail, impose Female Rule or Feminist Rule.

I don’t just blame women for this. This is simply the way that women and naturally and normally are. But that doesn’t mean it’s a good idea.

Just as women will always impose Female Rule without fail, likewise, everywhere on Earth, it will be the same catastrophic clusterfuck of chaos and drama, which are the handmaidens of the Feminine Spirit.

So women think like women and that happens to be messed up in some ways, but under Patriarchy, men maintained enough control over women to keep women out of power. There was a recognition that women in power would impose female mores and that this would royally screw up everything, which is exactly what it does.

So patriarchy saved men from women’s nonsense and it saved women from themselves because…get this…even women, deep down inside, do not want to live under the constant drama, turmoil, chaos and irrationality of a culture of rules and laws that are based on people’s feelings (Female Rule) instead of logic, reason, and sense (Male Rule).

Even women hate Female Rule or Feminist Rule, but they are too dense to do anything about it.

I think most women just assume we men will at some point say we’ve had enough of the idiocy of Female Rule and simply take back power. Women will scream and yell and carry on like the grown up children they are, but deep down inside, I think most of them will welcome the an order and reason based society instead of one based on the violent mood swings of women.

Yes.

Women secretly want us men to save them from themselves because they know deep down inside that there are a lot of things that are simply better done by a man.

The problem is that under Female Rule you start to get all these rules, laws and mores that have pretty much no definition whatsoever. Or no reasonable definition. Often the definition, if interpreted rationally, makes no sense at all and is simply an insane rule, law, or more.

More and more of society starts being taken over by, “How does it make women feel?” Under Female Rule, if a man makes a woman feel bad, he is arrested or punished outside of the penal system, for instance by firing.

The definitions of Sexual Harassment, Sexual Assault and Rape if read by the pure intent of their words themselves would outlaw all flirting, dating and probably most sex.

Most flirting would be considered harassment (and it currently is), most dating would be considered sexual assault (this is the current status of dating) and quite a bit of regular sex would go over to rape.

Flirting would be harassment if it made a women feel bad.

Touching would be sexual assault if it made a woman feel bad.

And of course any sex that made a woman feel bad would obviously be rape. Katharine McKinnon, of the most vicious manhaters of the 20th Century, has actually stated that any time a woman has sex when she doesn’t want to, it’s rape. And she and her lunatic ilk have actually tried to put codes and even laws along more or these lines in effect.

Well, if it’s rape every time she does it but she doesn’t want to, you just made about half of marital sex rape.

Game/PUA: Do Handsome Men Like to Hang Around with Other Handsome Men?

SHI: Nowadays, there are some dudes who like to be surrounded by other handsome dudes. This is SUPER GAY in my opinion.)

When I was young I was said to be very handsome. At age 24 I had two offers to be a male model. And yes, very handsome men can absolutely clean up with women if they are neurotypical, have their shit together, have good self-esteem, have excellent Game and especially if they are not shy. If they are shy they are as good as dead but after a while, some woman will just throw them down and rape them if they not too autistic.

At the time I was supposedly very handsome, indeed many of my male friends were also handsome to extremely handsome. I mean like male model quality.

I never even thought about it, but if you think about it, very handsome men perhaps select other handsome men as friends for some reason. They both often have huge egos and get very good at getting women, so they often bond on that basis.

I will tell you one thing. Two handsome to very handsome men out together, in addition to getting called gay (I got called that a lot out with my very handsome friends), if they have enough of those qualities above, can absolutely kill it with women.

In particular, you can attract two women at once where they want to pair off with both of you and fuck both of you that very night. That gets a bit weird as you get scenes where there are four people, two men and two women, cycling in and out of the bedrooms upstairs, in beds next to each other, or both in the same bed but each fucking a different woman. I have done all three. I suppose it could also lead to group sex, but I have never really done that.

Also regular straight guys actually like handsome men better than other men, which is a bit odd, but good looks are attractive.

I used to meet other straight guys who wanted me as a wingman. They would say, “Damn, I need to bring you with me when I go out to meet women. You’re goodlooking! You should attract lots of women!” So guys want to hang around handsome men due to the women they are likely to attract, and the wingman can swim into the school of fish and maybe get some of the by-catch.

I even find myself attracted to some drop dead handsome men, but I don’t have sexual fantasies about them, and I don’t want to do anything sexual with them, not even touch them or kiss them. But when I get around them I feel a wave of attraction sort of sucking me into their orbit. I hate it because it feels gay.

This is a new thing as previously I spent a lot of time around the handsomest men on Earth, even wearing bathing trunks at the beach or naked with each other in the gym changing room, and I never felt the slightest stirring of attraction. Maybe this new thing is not even real. I mean it’s obviously not sexual.

Thing is though that very handsome men are often pretty boys with delicate feminine features. Men who are attracted to women can also be attracted men with very pretty features. Face it, pretty boys look like women to some extent. I have had people insist I am gay due to my face. Supposedly I have gay face, and I “look like a fag,” whatever that means.

But I have gotten gay vibes of vibes of attraction from many straight men though my life so I suppose very handsome men are even attractive to straight men or bring out low-level gay feelings, which are quite common, as 36% of straight men have some level of gay attraction. It is typically a very low attraction though, and most gay men have similar low levels of attraction to women.

Game/PUA: Never Call Yourself Handsome or Good-looking, Even If You Are

I refuse to call myself goodlooking because I think that is bragging and I think we cannot be subjective about such things. But if you want to ask me, of course I have thought I was goodlooking for a long time, especially when young. I used to envy that handsome devil in the mirror.

I don’t think any of us can properly judge our looks. A homely person could think they are a 10. A beautiful woman could think they are a 1. How do you know you are goodlooking? Trust me when you get to a certain level of handsomeness, people will be remarking on it all the time. If you are not enough, they will do son in awestruck terms, often shaking their heads or acting like their jaw fell out like they can’t believe how goodlooking you are.

That’s how people used to act around me. So if people are telling you that you are handsome or goodlooking, you are. I have no idea what average to homely men get told. I seriously doubt if homely men get told they are the handsomest men on Earth and I doubt if average looking men do either.

But face it, ~60% of men are average to homely. That’s most men. That means average to homely looks are normal. It’s normal to look that way. There’s nothing wrong with average. Most people are average. Face it. There’s nothing wrong with being told you are average looking! It means are you are as handsome or more handsome than most men!

If you are goodlooking, always refer to it as “other people say I am goodlooking.” Put it down to other people. That’s not bragging. It’s bragging if you say it yourself and I wouldn’t say that too much if at all. I don’t.

Go ahead and put it on your dating profile though. So what! It’s an advertisement for yourself. You are competing with all the other men. Throw it all out there.

Dave Loggins, “Please Come to Boston”

Please come to Boston for the springtime
I’m stayin’ here with some friends
And they’ve got lots of room
You can sell your paintings on the sidewalk
And by a cafe where I hope to be workin’ soon

Please come to Boston
She said, “No, would you come home to me”
And she said, “Hey ramblin’ boy why don’t you settle down?
Boston ain’t your kind of town
There ain’t no gold, and there ain’t nobody like me
I’m the number one fan of the man from Tennessee”

Please come to Denver with the snowfall
Move up into the mountains so far that we can’t be found
And throw I love you echoes down the canyons
And then lie awake at night ’til they come back around

Please come to Denver
She said, “No, boy would you come home to me”
And she said, “Hey ramblin’ boy why don’t you settle down?
Denver ain’t your kind of town
There ain’t no gold and there ain’t nobody like me
I’m the number one fan of the man from Tennessee”

Now this drifter’s world goes round and round
And I doubt if it’s ever gonna stop
And of all the dreams I’ve lost and found
And all that I ain’t got
I need someone to cling to
Somebody I can sing to

Please come to L.A. to live forever
A California life alone is just too hard to fill
I live in a house that looks out over the ocean
And there’s some stars that fell from the sky
Livin’ up on the hill

Please come to L.A.
She said, “Boy you come home to me”
She said, “Hey ramblin’ boy why don’t you settle down?
L.A. can’t be your kind of town
There ain’t no gold and there ain’t nobody like me
Oh no, I’m the number one fan of the man from Tennessee
I’m the number one fan of the man from Tennessee”

This song was at the top of the charts in 1974, but I didn’t think I remembered it until I read the lyrics, and yes, I do remember this awesome tune now. At the time I simply didn’t know what it was called or who sang it. I have been listening to this great song on the radio off and on for 45  years now (it is still played, believe it or not), but I never knew what it was called or who did it.

I had actually never even heard of Dave Loggins until today. I was confusing him with Kenny Loggins of Loggins and Messina, another huge band in the 1970’s which recorded similar music. This is the only song he wrote that I have ever heard of. It’s also been covered by many others, but I am not familiar with any of those covers either.

This is also considered to be country music, but it is also something called soft rock that was very big back then. A lot of that soft rock was actually quite good and of course, women and girls always loved that music, so that was another reason to listen to it, if you know what I mean. Females love it when you love the music that they love, so even if you hate their music, it helps to at least fake it and pretend you love it because it’s such a great seduction technique.

Unfortunately I’m too honest to do that even though I’m a degenerate. Fortunately I do like a lot of the softer music that females like to listen to. Music like laughter loosens females up and gets them in romantic mood and they are always ecstatic if you like that softer music they like. Also music makes women horny, especially softer, romantic type music.

One of the great all-time tearjerkers. How could anyone not like this song? It’s  like not like butterflies or sunny days. I don’t get it.