I’m not sure if this is a good thing or not, but I am extremely intelligent (by tests, not bragging), and this is said to be a feature of very intelligent people. It’s simply the way that we are. We don’t suffer fools gladly. I’ve known people who have met some pretty famous people. They often told me that the person was extremely smart, but they also often said that they didn’t suffer fools gladly. I don’t see why I should sit here and listen to your crap if you are completely wrong, and I’ll figure out if you are wrong or not before you even get that first sentence out of your mouth!
If this is a personality flaw, fine. It’s a typical one for people at my intelligence level. This simply the way folks like us think and act. And in that sense, I doubt if it’s pathological. It’s simply normative for that particular group of people.
Solution? Don’t be full of shit! Don’t be shooting off your mouth with your bullshit theories and fake facts if you don’t know what you are talking about!
Anyway, even if I disagree, it’s no big deal. I’m pretty nice about it. If you are wrong, you will start launching into your nonsense, you won’t get a few sentences into it before I start shaking my head and saying, “Ahhhhhh…nahhhhhh..Tshhhhhh…Ughhhhh.” I don’t say it in a mean way. I just disagree. And I’m right too, almost all the time!
Quit saying stupid shit!
If you don’t know the facts, don’t make up fake ones!
If you don’t have a good theory, simply shrug your shoulders and say, “I don’t know!” Also do this if you don’t know some fact or other!
I’ve noticed that insecure people never admit to not knowing any fact and flip out any time you suggest that they are wrong. You can tell me I’m wrong all day long if I am and you can prove it. It doesn’t bother me one bit to be wrong! Hey, I don’t know everything. If I’m wrong about something I’m saying, by all means, shoot me down! But please be nice about it.
I don’t want to know anything that’s not true. I don’t want to believe any falsehoods. I don’t want to believe any lies or crap. 95% of the population is perfectly happy if half the things they believe are complete lies because most people have little to no interest in facts. People simply have an interest in having their world views affirmed. If they want something to be true, that means it’s true. If they want something to be false, that means it’s false. This also means that you are a complete moron, but welcome to the club. Almost all of humanity is with you!
You also should not be an irritable asshole if someone tells you you are wrong as long as they are not being contrary pricks. People tell me I’m wrong all the time, in person, on the phone, here on the Net, everywhere. You think I care? Of course not! I’m not an insecure little pussy faggot. Which brings me to another point. If you can’t handle being told you are wrong, you’re not a man. You’re a pussy little faggot girlyman.
You’re insecure. That’s what a woman is – insecure. You’re acting like a woman. A man is supposed to be secure. And if you are blowing up, getting angry, exploding, screaming and yelling, pounding the table and carrying on like a little faggot, you are not a man in any way, shape, or form. A man is supposed to control himself. Of course he can be set off, but he’s only supposed to get set off by pretty extreme things.
My father was like this, and in this sense, he was a big fat pussy. Really, he was just horribly insecure. You simply could never tell him he was wrong. He would thrown a big sissy shit-fit.
My sister is like this. She’s just a typical crazy woman with a mood disorder to boot, so you have to walk on eggshells around her all the time because you never know what’s going to set her off into some raging tirade. And you can’t tell her she’s wrong.
Of course my brother is like that. He has a terrible mood disorder called Bipolar Disorder, and he’s basically ill all the time because he’s too fucktarded to admit that he has an illness that needs to be treated. So he goes untreated and has episode after episode, the result being that he has completely ruined his entire life with this nonsense. He has also badly damaged his brain with this disorder and the damage gets worse all the time. But to him, brain damage is better than a blow to his petty little ego!
All this nonsense has been done for the sake of his petty little pride. He destroyed his life for his insignificant and meaningless pride. What an idiotic way to ruin your life!
You know what’s bad for your pride? Being a total failure! That’s what’s bad for your pride! If keeping your pride is causing you to destroy your life, you’re the dumbest person around. I can think of few things stupider than that.
If some decent person tells you’re wrong about something that’s more or less provably true or false, listen to them. If they tell you your facts are wrong, they may well be right. What’s better? Throwing a shit-fit to defend your idiotic falsehoods that you moronically believe in because you’re too pussy to change your mind or swallowing a tiny bit of pride, admitting you are wrong, and getting your facts rearranged? That shouldn’t even be a question.
Curiously, being told I’m wrong doesn’t even hurt my pride if you do it in a nice way. I’m not insecure about my brains or my knowledge or my worldview. I don’t worry that you telling me I’m wrong means I’m stupid because I know I’m not stupid. I don’t worry that I appear ignorant because I know I’m not ignorant, and even if I am, that’s great because it means there are so many new things for me to learn about this subject!
If my theory is wrong, challenge me. Theories are hard to prove right or wrong, but I want the most correct theory about just about everything in life. I don’t like crappy theories because they are falsehoods. They are not properly explaining events. They are saying events are being caused by something they are not being caused by.
I don’t care if I don’t know the meaning of a word. If you say a word I don’t understand, I will ask you what it means.
If you refer to a concept I don’t understand, I will ask you to explain it.
Instead of getting my pussy little pride hurt, you’ve peaked my curiosity! What’s interesting is that the smarter someone is, the more likely they are to admit that there are a lot of things that they don’t know. The dumber someone is, the more they think they’ve got everything all figured out.
On the other hand, if you don’t know someone very well or if you think they are sensitive and insecure, it’s often better to let their bullshit fly if it seems like you are not going to change their minds. I have people in my sleuthing group who seem to believe things that strike me as incredibly false, but I simply don’t respond to them when they say these things. Or I say I’m not sure if they are right. You can always say, “I’m not sure if that’s correct.”