Try to be a good guy to women, assuming you can get them. Act cool and slick on dates. Women aren’t from outer space. They’re just regular humans like us, a bit different but not too much. Try to figure them out as confounded and undecipherable as they are. The rare man who truly understands women has a huge advantage over the crowd of guys who find women mysterious, convoluted, nutty, flaky, unpredictable, emotionally labile and simply confounding.
Most things women do, even the most nutty-seeming stuff, they’re doing it for a reason. Maybe it’s a crazy reason but it’s still a reason. Try to figure out why the women around you are acting like they do. It’s a true challenge if you like challenges and brain smashers because they’re so hard to make sense of, and you can feel a real sense of accomplishment when start deciphering the actual reasons for their wack behavior.
Try to like women, if not love them. Hating women doesn’t get you anywhere. Trust me. Been through a phase like that, and the whole Female Race was at war with me all day every day. It doesn’t get you laid. Open and obvious misogyny is like spraying Chick Repellent on you.
Women like men who like women. Women really like men who love women. They say they hate them, call them ladies men, players, bastards, cheaters, playboys, and sleazeballs, but don’t be fooled by that. See that guy getting all the women?
Women look at him and ask, “Hmmm. What’s he got? What’s he got that all these women like him so much? Maybe I should go stand in line myself to find out.”
If women figure out that you truly love women, even if you’re a womanizer, most women actually are fond of that. They really appreciate the fact that you’re a ladies’ man who would rather spend time around women than men. People want to be liked. Women want to be liked. The ladies man likes and loves women. That feels good and women want to be around him in order to feel good.
Women are impressed by men who understand women becuase even women don’t understand women and women themselves are typically baffled or even unaware, in denial, or lost in a mirror house of contradictions about their own behavior. In other words, women don’t even know why they do and feel most of the things they do and feel.
Women say they understand women but they don’t because they refuse to see the bad side of women, which is 50% of their essence. To women, the Female Race is pure good. Evil is for that Male Race over there. Anyone pointing the 50% bad in women gets their back up and they call them misogynist.
Try to become a master social actor. Communicate in code. Talk in riddles. Figure out nonverbal behavior and messages because if you don’t, you seem like a clueless dork. People appreciate the masterful social actor who talks in enigmas, engages in mysterious nonverbal behavior and seems like they can read minds because they’re in on the nonverbal/mystery man game that most people are trying to play.