Even bad boys don’t act that bad. They’re just rebels. There’s a difference between a bad boy and a bad man! A bad boy is just screwing with you. He’s cosplaying this touch guy or societal rebel and probably the only reason he’s doing it is for the pussy. He’s trying to get laid and he knows woman like bad boys. And most bad boys don’t even act that bad.
They’re just putting on a show for the most part. Stop sometime and talk to one of those guys and watch them drop the whole routine and get friendly. A lot of them are some of the friendliest men around! The bad boy thing is just a game, a scam if you will, a routine you’re running for the primary purpose of getting pussy and getting laid, getting a girlfriend or wife, or whatever you want in terms of female companionship.
On the contrary, a bad man is usually a very bad person. He’s a piece of crap. Most of them could drop dead tomorrow and most of us would get and sing and dance. They’re frankly terrible human beings. Monsters. You can think of a lot of other nice epithets for these MF’s.
You want to run Bad Boy Game as a scam to seduce women. Go for it, but don’t get carried away with the badass thing. For God’s sake, try to stay out of jail. Bad boys don’t need to get arrested. Many bad boys live their whole lives and never serve a day in jail. If you’re a true bad boy, you will probably get arrested one, two, maybe three times, mostly for petty chickenshit weak stuff that shouldn’t even be against the law.
Weasel your way out of the judicial system and get smart or smarter. Figure out what you did to get cuffed. Figure out how it’s not going to happen again. Frame the arrest as your worst nightmare to make you truly fear it. Fear makes many a man act pretty damn good. Take that fear away and a lot of guys get real stupid real fast.
Don’t act too bad. Be a cool dude. Hell, you can even basically a nice guy underneath the sham bad boy costume.
Suck up to superiors. Kiss ass. Act civilized. It’s all part of some bullshit game that doesn’t matter. Get a job and try to hold it. Tell yourself that getting fired is as bad as death and live in utter terror of getting your ass canned. It tends to make you a pretty damn good employee. Develop a work ethic and take pride in. Show up 15 minutes early every day. So you’re early? So what? Get a cup of coffee or open up a newspaper. What would you be doing during that racy 15 minutes before work anyway? Not much.
If your work demands that you act like a big pussy (most desk jobs do) just put on a Big Pussy costume and play the role. That’s how a model employee acts. Your work you isn’t the real you. It’s just some BS game you play at work.
Act good to your male friends. Don’t be a dick. Tell yourself that being a dick is shameful. When people tell you you’re being a dick or an ass, listen up. You’re making other guys mad. Some of them like you a whole lot and you’re hurting their feelings. It’s not cool. Be a nice guy to your male friends. Act like a best friend to all of them. Cool guys act like your best friend whether you are or not. That’s what makes them cool.
Try to get along with your difficult to insane family. If it’s hard, try to figure out devious, dishonest, and scammy ways to make it work. Get ready to lie a lot – white lies and lies of omission and lies to protect yourself. So what. Nobody’s honest much anyway. But don’t lie to your guy friends. And be careful lying too much. Just lie sometimes, strategically.
If you start lying too much like I’ve done, although it’s a blast because you’re putting one over on the universe and it makes you seem devious and brilliant, you will start to trip up in your own lies. Your friends will start catching you in your lies.
“You said you didn’t and now you say you did. Hmmm.”
“You said it happened but then you said it never happened. Hmm.”
People don’t like pathological liars because they’re sort of creepy, and they’re often dicks. It sends a shiver up your spine to deal with a pathological liar because you never know what’s true and what’s not, and he’s unpredictable.
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As a rule of thumb, good guys need to play “hard to get” often – so the woman will respect them.
Yeah, I come across as too needy. And I am not one of those characters whose neediness is literally pathetic. I just like to have a relationship, that’s all. Even from the start. Regular talking, texting, whatever. This call me once a week shit is weird, but you have idea how many women are like that these days.
Let her make the moves of doing things, and if she don’t then move on. Well, you don’t want to totally “not talk to her”, but make her earn it.