She Might Just Be Wanting Oral Sex

It could be as simple as that. Well, that would be at the least – and then more types of sex.  Anyway, I’m thinking oral can be enough in and of itself.

So the whining over other men or whatever she’s saying could a lot be caused by not satisfying her sexually.

However, what men know how to do oral sex correctly?

I don’t think oral sex can cover totally for lying/cheating or whatever else, but it’s a huge step forward.

How to Deal with a Strong Competitor

Some have advised to just smack the woman. However, you can’t force feelings on someone.

The bottom line is that the best advice to ignore the competition no matter how much the woman casually mentions them or rubs it in your face and just focus on being super-awesome. Go work out, get sexy with the woman – because at some core level, she still wants you, get better clothes, get a good haircut, and especially do what the woman wants in bed as much as you can.

Anyway, this might not work in the heat of a post-breakup or something similar. Experts advise leaving because the heat is too hot.

Nice Guys Need to Toughen Up

Sure, there are some guys who wouldn’t make women single mothers, and they can protect well enough to attract a woman to begin with. However, I’m thinking they are in short supply. I suspect a big problem is that so many men are softened by computers, video games etc.. They simply aren’t real men but are boys. Anyway, some of these guys, despite the immaturity, might have in their heart to truly not leave a woman. Nonetheless, the impression women get of them is “soft”.

 

What Are We to Think of This?

Well, it just boils down to the fact women want protectors over nice guys, no matter how nice they are. However, it could be possible to be somewhat nice as long as your also a protector.

Anyway, it all boils down to biology. Women want some guy who they think subconsciously will protect their offspring.

But what about pity?

Well, as we see here, they sometimes have a heart for kind people who are nice, who cry/whine, who beg, but biology overrules it.

The Big Irony

The guys who can protect them really can’t. Yet the biology of the women always falls for them. Can’t you see they never lasted long enough and the women became single mothers?

People Commonly Love Their Opposite Sex Parent but Hate Their Same Sex Parent

Mothers love their sons no matter what. Every prison inmate has Mom tattooed on his shoulder, and you better not say shit about her or else. And when they get out, they get $200 and a bus ticket. Guess where they go, even the worst inmates of all? Yep, right back to Mom’s house.

But not if Dad’s there, because all prison inmates, no matter their love for their mothers, still want to murder their fathers. A recent survey found that 3

Fathers and sons often don’t get along. Mothers and daughters often fight a lot.

But men are supposed to love their mothers and vice versa. Stupid women, especially in this Clown Land, think every man who is close to his mother is a Momma’s boy. That’s bullshit. Sure there are some men who are too tied to their mothers, and this is not a good thing. If you are like this you need to cut the apron strings and quit being such a huge pussy.

Similarly, fathers and daughters are supposed to get along. Women who didn’t get along with their fathers as girls tend to grow up with “Daddy issues.” Some Daddy issues are fairly harmless such as a fetish for older men as substitute father figures to give her the love she never got from Daddy.

Others are out and out worse, where women with abusive fathers deliberately seek out abusive men who remind them of their fathers. This strikes me as particularly idiotic unless you are a masochist. And frankly, this is masochistic behavior. Every woman who is doing this is acting like a masochist. The reason given is “this is all she knows.” Well, fine, but it’s still a very self-destructive and stupid way to walk through life.

In parallel, a man’s most important relationship is with his mother, not with his father. If a man doesn’t get along with his mother, he may have problems with women in adulthood unless he works this stuff out.

As you can see, the parent and child of the same sex commonly commonly fight each other, and if they have a bad relationship, it’s usually no big deal. Most men don’t get screwed up because of their fathers. Most women don’t get screwed up by their mothers. If you’re a man and you have Daddy issues, I must say that’s pretty damn pussy, and you need to knock it off.

Very bad abusive fathers tend to leave a lot of bodies in their wake in terms of both sons and daughters. A lot of the kids come out of it with something that looks like PTSD.

Very bad mothers have been known to damage girls, and the damage can extend into adulthood. A common sequel of a seriously abusive mother is low self-esteem. Her mother told her all through childhood that she was no good, and in adulthood she remains damaged, hates herself, and thinks she’s worthless.

Let’s go back to the prison we left behind.

A few inmates hate their mothers most of all, and those can be the worst inmates of all. These are your woman-beaters, rapists, assaulters, torturers, and killers of women.

This is because the mind is primitive. Quite a few men who hate their mothers come to hate all women because every woman they get involved with turns into their mother. These serial killers running around killing women are often simply killing Mom over and over.

You would think the human brain could figure out that all the other women in the world are not your Mom, and no matter how bad she was, every other women is usually not as bad as your Mom, and there are plenty of woman who on balance are quite warm, kind, friendly, loving, and even devoted. I’ve run into quite of few of them in my life, which is why I will never hate women no matter how bad they treat me from now forward. And they’re really treating me pretty bad these days.

Face It: People with Bipolar Disorder Are Monsters

The person I am living with is mentally ill. Fortunately, he’s being medicated now for the first time in his life. He has Bipolar Disorder. He finally takes meds but sometimes the meds don’t clear out the whole illness.

In his mid-50’s he finally admitted that he had this illness. He’d been in denial for a good 40 years, during which time he ruined his life and to be fair, the lives of everyone else in his family too, who bore the full brunt of his wrath during these diabolical episodes. He went untreated for 40 years, and every time you go full blown manic, you damage your brain somewhat.

He’s gone full manic maybe 10-15 times, each time completely destroying his life, which he then has to be up the pieces of and put back together when he comes out of it – 8-9 months later. So he has significant brain damage from this illness. How exactly that brain damage manifests is not known, but I can tell that one part of the brain damage is worsening illness.

His episodes keep getting worse. This time he went to jail for seven weeks for threatening to kill someone. But when he comes down he’s often still hypomanic. Hypomania is a lesser form of mania in which they are not seriously nuts. Instead they are just somewhat manic of half manic. Generally mild enough to where they can still function, work, go to school, etc.

His hypomania manifests as being a horrific asshole. His mother finally threw him out of the house he had been living in for 15 years because he turned into a monster and morphed her life into a hellscape. He’d been doing this diabolical behavior towards her for 15 years now off and on, but she would never throw him out because he would go homeless.

Well, this time she had enough. Going to jail threw him out of the house, and he was not invited back. Like never, ever. In fact, she has a restraining order against him. She will talk to him over the phone, but she refuses to meet him in person. Tell you what, if you are a man, and you made your own mother hate you, you are pretty bad.

Anyway, when he’s symptomatic, this guy is an irritable monster from the time he gets up in the morning until far into the evening. He only calms down late at night after he’s had a few drinks. There’s no way to get along with him. Everything you say to him starts some sort of a fight. He disagrees with everything you say.

The person who lives with me has no power over me. I hold all the cards. I threaten to play them now and again. I have threatened to throw him out easily 50-100 times.

He’s never wrong. He’s always right. He went 15 years without apologizing for anything or even admitting he was wrong about something, including intellectual discussions. He’s spent his whole life blaming other people. Lately he has been apologizing and even admitting he screwed up sometimes, which is shocking because he went 15-20 years without doing that once.

Anyway, I get angry at him in all sorts of ways, verbally and nonverbally.

Shun him, ignore him, treat him like he’s not there.

Refuse to answer his questions or respond to his remarks (silent treatment).

Visibly angry with him. Well, that is one that never works because if you get visibly angry at an irritable person, it just makes them angrier, so you just made a bad problem worse. Congratulations!

 

On Irritable People, Bullies and How They Are Exactly the Same

His attitude, like that of all irritable people, is that I am the problem, but I assure you that I am one of the easiest people to get along with you will ever meet. There’s hardly a less irritable person than me. Irritable people say it’s all about you and make you question yourself. They say you’re a bad person and that’s why they are in such a foul mood. Obviously they are projecting. They’re also seriously gaslighting. Gaslighting and projecting are in fact essential features of any irritable person.

I’ve thought about this my whole life, and with people who are generally irritable – it’s not about you, trust me. You’re not doing anything to set them off in most cases because most of the time they pick on soft, nice, innocent people because they think they won’t fight back. It doesn’t matter what you say or do when they are around. There’s no way to do and say things that won’t make them irritable. Just about everything you say and do will make them irritable.

All irritable people are bullies, face it. All humans are irritable now and then, but for the chronically irritable, they can all drop dead today, and I won’t bat an eyelash. In fact I will probably throw a party. These people have been beating me up my whole life, and I never did a damn thing to any of them. I’m sure there is a special place in Hell for them too. If not, I will talk to the Devil and make arrangements for some nasty lodging for these human monsters.

You can’t do anything about an irritable person. I had a girlfriend who was a monster half the day and then turned very nice for the later half of the day. It wasn’t anything I did. She just beat up on me. She was also insanely in love with me but flashed hot and cold, love and hate, like the worst of them. This crazy bitch just came to the website, believe it or not. Five or six years later, and the bitch still can’t leave me alone. In other words, she’s still stuck to me in some sort of a way.

For those first half of the days, which I endured two Hellish weeks of, I tried everything I could think of.

Silent treatment? No effect. In fact, it made her more mad.

Saying stupid stuff like Yep, Nope, or Ok to everything they said? Nope. Same thing, made her more mad.

Ignoring them? Nope. Once again, made her more mad.

Getting angry back at them (I did this a lot)? Nope. That made her much worse and then she would either shoot nuclear weapons at my Achilles Heels (I call that “trying to get murdered”) or play the cards she was holding me, as she had a lot of power over me as a visitor 3,000 miles from home.

She threatened to throw me out probably at least 50 times, if not more. After a while, I was absolutely terrified of her. She was totally clueless as to why, and once she said, “You’re not happy at all here…” No shit, bitch! Gee, I wonder why that is!

Also, every time she attacked me for no reason, which was 500-1,000 times a day, and I called her on it, she said she “fighting back.” But I hadn’t done the slightest thing to her. Irritable people will do this. They’re never the aggressor. You are. Every bullying act is a retaliation for something you did, except you didn’t do anything.

The bully’s always on the defense. He’s always fighting back against his poor, nice victim, who actually has never done a damn thing to the bully except fight back now and then. I was stunned at how someone could attack me for no reason 1,000 times a day for no reason at all and call all of these unprovoked attacks “fighting back,” when in most cases, I hadn’t done one thing. Of course she was clueless about her irritability. All irritable people are always clueless about their nature.

The nature of irritability and frankly anger itself is that it blinds itself to the user. Ever met an angry person who admitted that they were angry? It’s not that common. Actually if you confront an angry person and tell them how angry and hostile they are acting, that makes them really bad because for some reason they want to hide this anger from themselves, and you just blew the cover off the charade.

Ever known someone who hates you? First of all, it’s hard to figure out because they often don’t come out and say anything. Often you have to analyze their behavior over a period of time to see an “Aha!” pattern when you finally figure out the masked, encoded, and somewhat hidden behavior. I don’t recommend confronting any hater with the fact that they hate you. They never, ever, ever admit it, even when they know that they hate you.

I’m not sure why that is. Perhaps you are pointing out their assholery, and that is shameful to them. Also anger, hatred and of course defenses work best when they are somewhat subconscious, and when you bring deliberately hidden subconscious material to the surface, most people get angry because now their anger, hatred, or defenses don’t work so well anymore. You blew their cover. People don’t like that.

That’s the thing. With all irritable people, if you fight back against them, they just get more angry and will often try to punish you. If they have any power over you, they will threaten to wield it as all bullies do. So don’t let irritable people have power over you is the motto. Good luck with that! Right now it’s my landlord.

Why does the irritable person react with outrage and extreme aggression when the victim dares to fight back? What does a bully hate more than anything else? A victim who fights back. It’s a complete outrage and now they have to escalate to punish  you for daring to fight back instead of sitting there and taking it like a good victim.

I’m not sure why this is. First of all, irritable people are always bullies, 10

Now the victim’s fighting back. And the bullying is so longer such fun because you can’t be sadistic anymore. Instead you have to go to war. And that makes the bully very angry. Also you have upset the master-slave dynamic that is always behind all bullying. Dominance and submission, thy name is bullying. He’s always the slavemaster cracking the whip, and you are always the slave bending in the sun, taking the blows.

When you fight back, you have now destroyed the dominance-submission, master-slave dynamic that the sadistic bully loves so much.  You just overturned his apple cart. You blew up his whole game. He has a slave rebellion on his hands. Nothing makes a bully as angry as a slave rebellion. Also now he is going to have to fight, and he might get injured. It’s war now and war isn’t much fun. Most people would rather beat up people who don’t fight back than fight a war.  The former is so much more fun.

Anyway the slave rebellion is so outrageous that the bully has to reach into his bag of tricks to figure out how he has power over you and threaten you by applying this power, which will cause massive trouble for you.

If you don’t shut, he’s going to leave you. Throw you out of his house. Fire his ingrate ass. Reveal your dirtiest secrets to the people who will be most outraged by them. The bully is now shooting nuclear weapons at your worst Achilles Heels. As I said earlier, that’s called “trying to get murdered.” I never do this to any man. First of all it is a completey gay and pussy, dirty and girlish way to fight. A man fights man to man, mano a mano. A man is honorable, even in war. He fights honorable and respects the outcome of a fair fight.

Second of all, I don’t want to get killed! I never accuse any man of being gay. I never attack any man’s masculinity. I know full well that many men will hit you over this, and a number of them will even murder you. So for me to do  this, I would be trying to get murdered. So the bully, when faced with a slave rebellion, counterattacks with such force that he’s for all intents and purposes trying to get murdered.

Now I have no particular sympathy for fucktards, male or female, who try to get murdered and then get beat up or even killed. They were trying to get murdered and got what they wanted, right? What’s there to be sad about?

I’m also sometimes quite happy when bullies die. I regularly dance on their graves. Why is this a sad occasion? It’s time to throw a party. A worthless piece of shit person died and now the lousy world is a slightly better place. Hell more of them should die. The more of them that die, the more pleasant the planet will be.

Alt Left: My Identity(s)

A lot of people are confused about my identity(s). They think I’m just some allsexual alloromantic straight White male. Oh, but it’s so much more common than that. With the help of a lot of Twitter blogs, I’ve been figuring out who I really am. It’s been a tough journey with a lot of microaggressions launched against me, a lot of prejudice against me just for my indentities, I’m often simply erased, people accuse me of being part of a fad or a phase, say I’m broken or weird, on and on. Sometimes I wonder how I keep carrying.

One thing that’s for sure about me is I’m a transnigger. I know, I know, I look White, and people have been telling me I’m White my whole life, but I finally figured out that’s a fraud all along. Because really all this time I’ve been nothing but a Goddamned nigger! Not a Black person, mind you. Don’t even try to erase me like that.

Niggers like me are way different from regular Black folks. Plus we get a lot of prejudice. How many times have you heard people say “niggers do this, niggers do that, niggers are like this, niggers are like that, niggers are a pestilence, a plague, an infestation. How would you like to be compared to a Goddamn termite. Come on! I don’t even like the taste of wood. I’ve tried it many times and I’m just not into it.

So here are my identities, and I would really appreciate it if you would not make fun of them or erase me! I especially hate being erased. Ever seen all those people walking around with huge erasers as big as briefcases? Well, those are the erasers. Just for kicks and to be mean, they go around erasing people’s identities. They’re sadists, out and out. They can’t be described any other way. What’s their problem? Don’t they have anything better to do. If I want to identify as a fawn and put spots on my face, that’s my right! Come on, just let people be themselves, ok?

Have you ever been erased? I might be sitting here in a chair typing something on the Net, and some bigot comes along with an eraser as big as a briefcase and starts rubbing at me! And after a while I’m not even there anymore! Do you know hard it is to reconstitute yourself after some mean person wiped you right out of existence just to mean? It takes a while. Usually a couple of hours:

Bob, 62 years old transnigger, nontransabled, pansexual achromatic, transethnic rights enthusiast, soft grunge music, pastel goth appearance, genderqueer digital rights activist, checked privilege, robotic arm transspecies cyborg rights believer, multiple personality sympathizer, asexual psychic medium otherkin male feminist lifestyle, quasi-queer back-to-school looks, raw foods demivegan, justice for queer animal rights supporter, spiritual, skinny runt acceptance.

Now, I would appreciate it if you wouldn’t make fun of me! If any of the rest of you have had any experiences with discrimination, bigotry, or maltreatment based on your perfectly valid identities, speak now or forever hold your tongue!

Alt Left: Homosexual Behavior In Straight Men: How Common Is it and What Are the Reactions of Others to It?

Fact is that most straight women are wild, raging, fanatical homophobes when it comes to this sort of thing. Sure they love their gay male pets, but like Hell they want any man they date, live with or marry to be even .0000

Which is lame because it’s an absolute fact that 3

Now thoughts and actions are two different things. But by age 18, 2

True bisexual men are much less common and gay men are unlikely to be dating a woman. But the number of straight men who have had sex with men one or two or a limited number of times on an experimental basis is very large. Most try it and see it’s not for them and give it up, but some continue on. Quite a few straight men have sex with guys for all sorts of reasons.

Alt Left: The China Is at Fault for the Coronavirus Lie

I will here prove that the “China created the coronavirus by ignoring it and delaying a response when it first came out is a lie. Hence, not the coronavirus, instead the China Virus.

This entire post was taken from a Chinese or pro-Chinese poster on the Net.

On December 30, Li Wenliang sent some messages to a private Wechat group with a few of his friends, claiming that he saw patient scans and that “There has been 7 confirmed cases of SARS”

Li Wenliang was an ophthalmologist (a doctor specialized in eye disorders), who claimed that the virus outbreak was confirmed to be SARS. This was objectively false information spread by a doctor in an unrelated field, obviously he would get censured for spreading rumors. Also, contrary to popular belief, he was not arrested at all, only told by the police to stop spreading rumors and sign a notice. He was reportedly at the police station for only an hour, hardly as serious as Western media have made it sound.

Another important point that counters the “coverup” theory. He was called down to the police on 3 January, four days after China had already informed the WHO.

This post goes into further detail debunking the New York Times claim that Li Wenliang was a whistleblower and shows how they twisted the story to suit their narrative:

2019-12-01 – a viral pneumonia patient with an unknown cause was hospitalized at Jinyintan Hospital. This patient was the earliest known case of 2019-nCoV infections. The patient did not have any exposure to Huanan Seafood Market.

2019-12-27 – Dr. Zhang Jixian, ICU doctor at Hubei Hospital of Integrated Traditional Chinese and Western Medicine, files report to Wuhan Municipal Health Commission on pneumonia patients with an unknown cause. Investigation opens shortly later.

2019-12-28 – Three more patients arrived to the hospital, all of whom were related to Huanan Seafood Market.

2019-12-30 – Li Wenliang, an eye doctor, sent messages to private Wechat group about 7 cases of unknown virus, (wrongly) claiming it was SARS. He was not a whistleblower but instead one who had very early information on the little known virus.

2019-12-30 – Notice issued and public health announcement made by Wuhan Municipal Health Committee of an unknown viral illness.

2019-12-31 – China receives genome results from commercial lab.

2019-12-31 – WHO is informed of mysterious pneumonia cases in Wuhan China with unknown cause. Wuhan City authorities put out public notice and is reported by CCTV and CGTN.

2020-01-01 – Seafood market shut down as potential cause of outbreak. Chinese researchers at the CCDC publish an article on suspected outbreak.

2020-01-03 – China reports a total of 44 suspected patients with the mystery disease.

2020-01-03 – Li Wenliang called into police department and warned to stop spreading rumor and is made to sign a letter to that effect. Note that WHO was already informed about the virus four days earlier.

2020-01-03 – National Health Commission classified the virus as a highly pathogenic virus, orders all labs to either destroy samples or transfer them to higher level labs (cited as evidence of coverup such as by NY Post).

2020-01-09 – For the first time, Chinese labs confirm the existence of the new virus. Genetic sequencing work starts.

2020-01-09 – China reports first death linked to Covid-19. A 61-year-old male in Wuhan with several underlying medical conditions.

2020-01-11- China shares the genetic sequence of the novel coronavirus to international database.

2020-01-14 – WHO reports there is “limited human-to-human transmission between close contacts. WHO assesses that there was no clear evidence of sustained human-to-human transmission.

2020-01-20 – Zhong Nanshan confirms human-to-human transmission after medical staff were infected.

2020-01-21 – WHO confirms human-to-human transmission of the virus.

2020-01-23 – China declares complete quarantine of Wuhan.

An article quoting the New England Medical Journal is frequently used as evidence that China covered up information about its transmissibility. The journal states that “there is evidence that human-to-human transmission has occurred among close contacts since the middle of December 2019.”

This Vox article quoting Lancet presents two cases of human-to-human transmission before January 20. One is the wife of the first person who died. The other is a family in Shenzhen.

Yes, both China and WHO knew about these cases and did not declare the virus was human-to-human transmissible at the time.

That is because “limited human-to-human transmission between close contacts” is not the same as declaring it “human-to-human transmissible”. For it to be officially declared “human-to-human transmissible” there had to be evidence of sustained human-to-human transmission.

PUA/Game: Women Necessarily Don’t Fall in Love with a Man as a Whole Person: They Often Just Fall in Love with a Pretty Face

I have a very pretty, “pretty boy”, feminine, even girly face. I don’t work out but it’s not necessary.

I used to get me called gay or assumed to be gay a lot. Perhaps it’s down to that pretty boy face. I’ve even had people say, “You look like a fag.” A  SE Asian women once insisted that I was gay because “I looked gay.” I guess I have Gay Face.

I had a gay reader who talked about Gay Face a lot. He said I didn’t have Gay Face but he did think I was Jewish. Ok maybe I have Jew Face too. Who knows? Fine, I have a Jew face. I don’t care about that. Just give me the money, that’s all I want. It does seem like a lot of gay men have Gay Face. They are pretty feminized as far as men go, even down to hip ratio, and a man with a feminized body may well have a feminized face. But a lot of us straight men are “pretty boys” too. I still get called “pretty boy,” even as recently as two years ago. I was 60 years old and this woman was calling me a pretty boy!

Frankly, I never understood why people ever thought I was gay. Never made any sense to me.

Some people said it’s because of the way I walk, talk, sit, stand, hold a coffee cup, etc. So they are describing an effeminate man. But I see effeminate men and I think that behavior is horrible. I try very hard to not act that way because I think it’s horrible. It makes me pretty angry that people think I act like those guys.

I have been told though that I’m not effeminate at all. Instead it’s just that I’m “not macho.” I’ve had a lot of pretty boy friends who were not effeminate at all, but they were definitely “not macho,” and people assumed they were gay all the time. It was very annoying as when we were out together, people would assume that we were gay lovers. And they weren’t very nice about it either. It was either ridicule or outraged contempt. This was 40 years ago. This is how people reacted to male homosexuality 40 years ago, and  these people were hipsters and scenesters.

I attracted whole armies of gay men. I’m the biggest queerbait that ever lived.

But women and girls have been going crazy for me since age 18, and it’s mostly about my Looks.

I have always thought that it was my great Game skills that got me all those women, but one day I talked to a “Looks Theorist.” He was pushing a theory that Looks was the most important factor in attracting women. He told me that he’s read me and he knows that I think it’s my personality and Game that got women, but he thinks it was all just down to Looks.

At first I thought, “Oh, this is nonsense. Everyone knows women don’t care anything about Looks.” Idiotically, I have spent most of my life believing that silly lie. I think if I would have incorporated that “women place Looks first” mindset when young, I would have done better. I still did great but you know, no matter how well you did anything, you always think you could have done better. Or at least a competitive bastard who wants it all like me thinks that.

I was also insulted as this implied that it was luck of the genes and not my skill at creating killer personality and Game that got women. So I didn’t deserve the success. I just lucked out in the genetic lottery. But the more I thought about it, the more I thought that he may well just be right. Now I subscribe to the Black Pill, which says Looks > Everything Else when it comes to getting women.

Game does help in getting women, but Game alone ain’t worth a hill of beans. I know think most of the women who fucked me in the past fucked a pretty face, and even most of the ones who fell in love with me fell in love with a pretty face. That’s bit hard to swallow as once again, it implies there was no skill on my part, just the luck of the genes.

As long as you are not a complete autist, the pretty boy look – assuming you are in the top 10-2

On the other hand, many very goodlooking men do not do particularly well, mostly down to shyness, anxiety disorders, etc. Shyness is a killer for any man, even Chad. I’ve known total Chads who were literally 40 year old virgins. Psychologically, they were wrecked. So nervous that it was painfully obvious and they were essentially nonfunctional.

Alt Left: A Men’s Rights View of Pedo Hysteria: It Was Created by Feminists To Demonize Normal Male Sexuality

This is so perfect. I found this on a men’s rights site. It’s brilliant and I think it explains this latest moral panic about pedophilia and child molesting (and more importantly, the sexuality of teenage girls, which is what it is really all about).

The “popular usage” of the term pedophilia is basically the pedo-scare created by feminists to criminalize healthy and normal male sexuality as many boys who are either in jail or on sex offender lists have now discovered. How many? We don’t know since there are no federal stats on who is actually on those lists, but some local studies point to a very significant percentage of “sex offenders” being kids just fooling around.

Just like the definitions of “rape,” “assault,” “domestic violence” that have been redefined to include pretty much anything a female finds convenient, “pedophile” now effectively means “any guy who is attracted to a woman younger than me.”

Then why have we suddenly felt the need to protect young females from sex more now that feminists are in charge?

Why has there been a sudden ramping up of the legislation ‘protecting’ teenage girls from “abuse” since feminists started gaining real power at governmental level, particularly since 2000? Isn’t a simple EP explanation that it is in feminists selfish gene reproductive interests to limit sexual competition from younger girls by raising the age of consent and creating pedohysteria memes?

And it was 19th century feminists who largely determined that 14 year olds are children – something that would have been considered ridiculous in most of human history and even in much of Europe before 2000.

Pedophilia got hijacked by feminists, expanded well beyond its clinical definition or even basic common sense (like jailing consenting kids or guys who had no reasonable way of suspecting the age of their partners), criminalized to the point of absurdity (sex offender lists for consenting kids having sex with each other? Really?) and used as a “scarlet letter” that needs no proof (RL: And hence is not falsifiable and is also tautological).

It’s the same strategy that led to do the absurdly broad definitions, lack of due process, and blatantly sexist criminalization of “domestic violence,” “sexual assaults,” or “sexual harassment.” They not only smear an entire gender but also keep individual men in a permanent state of subjugation to women. Note that most men would think twice before arguing against an abusive female because they can easily get expelled from school, or lose their job, or get evicted from their home.

The root is deeper in my opinion: the “men only want one thing” is just a special case of “male sexuality is bad” which itself is coming from “men are evil”.

The decades-old smear campaign of lies spearheaded by feminists has basically left the general public with an appalling opinion of men:

Men are considered as pedophiles. Never mind that being attracted to a healthy fertile female is a perfectly normal behavior, and Romeo and Juliet were 14 yrs old or so.

Men are considered as perverts guilty of sexual harassment for looking at a girl with her tits and ass hanging out, but having your tits and ass hanging out in the workplace is somehow not considered perverted or sexual harassment.

Men are considered dangerous to children. Never mind that biological fathers are protectors of their children and have an absolutely incredibly positive influence on them.

If you redefine male sexuality as evil and perverted, then it becomes a rhetorical question. (RL: Absolutely perfect and immaculate.)

What Is Love? Love Is Whatever You Think It Is (Within Some Sensible Limits)

Jason: If it were your “true love”, surely it would be for life – with, of course, maybe some emotional affairs from time to time – because we’re only human!

I disagree that true love is for life. Love obviously has no scientific definition. Love is whatever you believe or experience it to be, pretty much. It has no essential scientific or biological reality, and hence all definitions of it are inherently subjective, unscientific, and non-falsifiable. So it’s very hard to prove that love is this or that or especially that true love is this, that, or whatever.

The concept of love is like religion. It is whatever you think and say it is, within some sensible boundaries. But there no provable truths about love.

It’s a perfect postmodern subject because it not only is undefinable, but everyone’s truth about love is something close to equally valid – within some sensible limits of course – and there’s no arguing about it because we can’t prove any actual truths one way or other about its nature.

Love is whatever you think it is. “You don’t what love is, but you know it when you see or feel it.” Love is a Gestalt intuition – its definition is greater than the sum of its parts, and we define it based more or feelings or gut logic or even psi power instead of logic, reason, and rationality.

Alt Left: One Can Believe in Social Justice While Still Believing in the Role of Human Nature, Biology, and Genetics in Social Issues

Jason: As the Alt-Left states is possible to support social justice somewhat and still understand true male/female nature.

That is so perfect. I love that so much. That’s exactly what it is. I also like Tulio’s “The Alt Left are just red-pilled socialists.” That’s so perfect. That’s exactly what it is. The Alt Left are red-pilled liberals and Leftists. Some type of social conservative on social issues, and liberal to left on economics and most everything else. And the social conservatism is between SJW nuttiness and old-fashioned priggish, prudish Republican Party social conservatism. We rather like the idea of social justice but we think things have gone too far.

One of our mottoes refers to the cultural revolutions of the 1960’s in which the Alt Left is frankly rooted: “I signed up for liberation, not insanity.” And we do support social justice, the social justice of 1970, 1980, 1990, and, Hell, even 1995. I suppose you can go beyond that. That’s where I got off the social justice train because it became obvious that this normal train was turning into a crazy train that was going off the rails and it was getting not only dangerous but increasingly stupid to keep riding on a train to either nowhere or more importantly madness.

And more importantly, that is your Alt Left. That is your personal interpretation or definition of Alt Left. It’s your particular Alt Left philosophy. I said when I created this thing, “Everyone form your own wing.”

That means that within some fairly large boundaries, everyone gets to mix and match and bake their own cake out the ingredients of the Alt Left. You’re free to reject some and support others. On a number of issues, various positions are acceptable and you are urged to choose one. Then others will similar views might get together with you and you all form your own wing or tendency. All of the wings or tendencies will compete with each other and may the best wing win!

What is the Alt Left? Inside of some pretty big hard lines, it is whatever the Alt Left masses decide it is. It’s not my view. I’m some guy who created an idea and I laid out some basic views and drew some boundaries around them. On a few things were dealbreakers. A lot of the rest was up for grabs.

And now that there are Alt Left masses, nobody has to listen to me outside of a free hard lines that I have drawn. Beyond that, you can agree or disagree with me or get into all sorts of grey gradations of that. The Alt Left movement is owned by the Alt Left masses. I just built an engine. The masses are the gasoline and then will put the fuel in, drive the movement vehicle and even decide in which of all sorts of directions the movement car goes.

PUA/Game: Welcome to Hell: Sex and Love in Your 60’s

Jason: Well, honestly @Robert Lindsay, women are not going to touch men “they don’t like”. In other to get them to like you, you have to show confidence. What these romantic misfits think – is that women “owe them something”. Well, nothing is going to change for these men.

RL: Ok, I am 62 years old. At this point, it seems like when I go out into the world,

I’m banned from flirting with any woman. Any woman I flirt with, I assure you I will get called creep, and I might even get in trouble and get banned from the establishment.

I’m not allowed to touch any women ever anywhere for any reason. If I do, same thing. She will act like she’s going to call the cops.

I’m a goddamned incel for all intents and purposes at this point.

Now you tell me, if I just show some confidence, this is all going to go away, and some women are going to get interested in me?

Jason: Being too negative. Also, a lot of older women are highly sexy. We shouldn’t be so closed-minded. Anyway, they would be attracted by confidence, of course.

Anyway, this gets me to thinking about those older East Asian women that are so hot.

Women my age and up look like shit! Yeah, they look at me but most look like grandmas who belong in a nursing home! Most of them don’t even look human. They look like goddamn wild animals. I look at them and I see hippos, rhinos, water buffaloes, Sasquatches, bison, and wildebeests. I see them and I wonder, “What happened? Was there a zoo breakout? Did the animals break out of the zoo somehow? Why are these wild animals running around in the streets? Isn’t that hazardous? Why don’t the zookeepers come catch them?”

Sorry, I only fuck humans. I don’t do bestiality.

Women my age are on a 1-10 scale just like us men. 8-10 women my age seem to still look fairly good. But they are increasingly rare.

And this is how many of them want to fuck: 0.0000000000

Most act like they have no interest in any men and are perfectly happy to be alone. Further, most have horrendous, angry, griping, mean, cold, bitter, cynical personalities. They’re nasty and insulting bitches. What’s crazy is most of them look like complete shit. Everyone knows that the ugly girl has to act really nice if she wants to get a chance of a date. If an ugly girl has an ugly personality, she’s doomed. She has zero positive features. She’s useless for any sort of companionship. So these women are not only ugly but they also have horrible personalities! They literally have nothing whatsoever to offer!

But trust me, even after menopause when 9

On dating sites, older women act like princesses. “All you older men have to fall all over yourselves fighting for my pretty pussy (which you won’t even get to use) because I am just that good. I might respond to you. Maybe. Once I get through this barrage of likes and messages. Fight over me boys! I’m special! I’m a prize! I’m entitled X10!”

And the sad fact is that the best looking ones my age are getting bombarded by men. I was talking to a smoking hot 62 year old. We would message when we got up in the morning and when we went to sleep at night. It was that good. We were almost with each other all day in that sense.

And she acted like she was starting to fall in love of course, which is nearly always the case when you are greeting each other on waking and saying goodnight on nodding. That’s what a married or cohabiting couple does, right? So you’re like a cohabiting or married couple in a sense. And once it gets like that, 9

She told me I was one of 30 men fighting for her, and I was in close to first place. Then a couple of weeks later she met some other guy, and he was going to move in in three weeks,and it got cold on my end. Yeah, men my age actually do this. All the time. They meet some woman and in two or three weeks, they want to move in or they are moving in. It almost seems pathetic to me. It certainly seems desperate.

But notice. A 62 year old woman had such a diamond-studded, gold-plated pussy that literally 30 older men with nothing to offer were fighting like little boys over her for her affection. Being pussybeggars. Pretty pathetic ones at that.

So you see, it never ends. Dating sites are 3-1 women to men, and that’s on the best sites. On Adultfriendfinder, it’s 20 women to every man. Good luck ever getting laid on there.

Anyway, yeah. Women my age. Fuck them. I’m a goodlooking man. I am an 8-10 Chad for a man my age. I’ll take an 8-10 woman my age. But none of them want me. And women 18-50 don’t want to touch me. Even a lot of 50’s women don’t want me because I’m too old.

I’m not even allowed to have a sex drive. If I act like I have a sex drive, I’m evil. I’m an evil creep scumbag who needs the cops called on him for even looking at them! That’s how pissed a lot them are that I even dare to look at them.

I’m not allowed to say I’m dating someone. That’s gross, sickening, and repulsive I guess because the idea of me fucking another human at my age is gross, sickening, and repulsive.

Some young women at a store asked what I had been doing, and I laughed and told them the truth. “I’ve been chasing women.” It was true. I wasn’t doing much else. They both immediately said I was coming onto them, that was sexual harassment, and they could report me!

Can you believe that? Telling them that I have a sex drive, date, and have romantic and sexual interests means is sexual harassment! If I do those things, that means I’m human. But at my age pointing out that I am human is sexual harassment.

If I even mention that I might have a date sometime in the future, that’s gross and disgusting, and the conversation is shut down. If I say I recently met a woman who liked me, I get a negative reaction and a conversation shutdown, even from older women. I’m trying to think if there is even one woman out there who would smile and be happy if someone told her I got laid or I had a date or a girlfriend. Most would probably act physically disgusted. Which is weird.

I go out into the world every day looking to get laid, and the whole universe of women rejects me all day long. The best I get is this cold businesslike attitude, but if I try to probe deeper, I get  “That’s personal, I can’t tell you that”. So no women is interested in even having a personal friendship with me. They want an acquaintanceship only and even then only with a cold, businesslike where a Wall whenever the relation starts threatening to get a little bit warmer.

What I don’t get about this is that older women tell me I’m goodlooking, “very handsome,” etc. A 40 year old woman recently said, “You’re fucking hot!” A lot of young women I meet online keep telling me I’m handsome, cute, etc. Mostly they say I’m handsome. They range in age from 18-30.

A few underage girls even say it. A 17 year old girl recently told me I was handsome. We were in a chatroom and she said, “Well, I went into the Members to see who was in that room, and I saw you, and I said, ‘Damn! He’s handsome! I think I want to go talk to him!'” But those are in specialized “Younger Women for Older Men” chatrooms. And those are pretty much the only place I can meet women who want me.

On Tinder I was getting young women coming to me all day long, opening with “Hi handsome!”, “You’re cute!”, “Hi cutie!”, etc. At one point, I was getting 4-5 hot young women a day who came to me and quickly told me I was hot and they wanted to go out with me. But then it came down that they would only go out with me if I paid them. Sugar babies. Looking for a sugar daddy.

So at my age, even if I’m hot, nobody really wants to fuck me, and the only people who want to fuck me say I have to pay them to do it. That’s insulting! But it felt good to at least get all those strokes.

So I am at the age where good looks are absolutely useless. Looks are at their sell-by, expiration date. Even if you look great, still nobody wants you. It feels weird as Hell. I’m “totally hot” but you don’t want to fuck, date, or make friends with me? WTF. I think even the best looking man in my age bracket would be ignored by almost all women.

I can’t put into words how painful this is to me. To matters  worse, I am an extremely sexual person, a total sex maniac, and a sex addict. I regularly go for 1-2 week periods where it feels like I am masturbating in some way and looking at porn every waking minute. Yeah, I practically jerk off 12-16 hours a day. At 62 fucking years old! Can you believe it? All for nothing.

I am also a friendly person who needs people, but no one wants to be my friend. I am very romantic and almost need to be in love to get up in the morning, but no one wants to fall in love with me. I am a very touchy, tactile person who almost needs touch as much as water to live, and I’m not really allowed to touch anyone, especially any woman, and if I do, it’s #metoo and time to call the cops.

It is true that if I go to those special older man fetish I can definitely meet women in there, women who want to talk dirty, have cybersex,, trade nudes and videos, fall in love, date me, have sex, have a relationship, or come live with them as a partner to her and a stepfather to her kids. So let’s face it. That’s pretty nice. I’m much better off than the typical poor incel. But the whole rest of the world is nothing but a bunch of cold fish.

But outside of those specific fetish rooms, it’s zero.

I have to admit that women are not giving me very good reasons to like them very much. I have a question for you women: Why should I like you all these days? Give me one reason why I should keep on liking you. Give me on reason why I shouldn’t start hating you. Gimme a reason.

Of course they’ve loved me and vice versa for most of my life, so that right there makes me want to like them for the rest of my life anyway no matter how shitty they treat me now.

On the other hand, the world of men is friendly and warm. Especially older men but a lot of younger men are quite friendly too.

So the world of men still likes me (though not as much as before), but the whole world of women either hates, dislikes, ignores, acts merely businesslike and doesn’t want to be friends or even acquaintances, and of course doesn’t want to date or have sex with me. And if I try to so much as talk to them, they act like they’re going to call the police. There’s anything wrong with me. If there were, the whole world of men would be rejecting me too just like the women.

I guess most women really hate us men who are this age.

And @Jason says I’m too negative.

He just won’t swallow the Black Pill. He’s cope, cope, cope, cope, cope. Any lie to keep him from believing the ugly, wicked, and brutal truth.

I don’t blame him, but he’s not talking about reality. He’s talking about a dreamworld that doesn’t even exist and claiming that’s reality. If you disagree it’s gaslighting.

An Interesting Mostly Southern Chinese Phenotype

A good friend of mine who resides in Singapore. He is very interested in his background and gave me his photo to analyze.

Looking at it, I believe he is definitely Southern Chinese fore the most part. His father is Hainanese and has a rather distinctive genotype that looks something like his son’s. His mother is a certain type of Malay that dates back to the 1400’s and is significantly mixed with European blood, mostly British and Dutch, as Europeans have a presence in the area dating back centuries. I believe that they are called Pernakans. He also has some female relatives that look very Malay. I do not know who the older man to the right is, but he looks quite Malay to me.

I think my friend ended up looking more Chinese than Malay. The Hainanese are definitely a Chinese type people. Whether they also have a Vietic type SE Asian component is not known as I do not know the history of Hainan.

Although my friend definitely has a strong Southern Chinese look, he also has another component that makes him look, well, different. I’m not going to attempt to describe this element, but it does make him look somewhat “odd,” “interesting,” or “unusual, ” from a Southern Chinese POV. A typical Southern Chinese would say that he looks like a Southern Chinese, but he’s not like us. A Southern Chinese has more of a Modern Mongoloid look. My friend is mostly modern Mongoloid, with some elements of transitional Mongoloid or archaic Mongoloid – this is what the Malays are after all – added in.

The evolution from Negritos to moderns occurred much later in Malaysia, much taking place in only the last 5,000 years. The Senoi are an example of an archaic group that is definitely Australoid yet nevertheless more progressive than the Negritos. These are the “dream people” of psychological and anthropological literature, though modern research has shown that they do not incorporate dreams as much into their waking lives as we previously thought and that the extent to which they do this was much exaggerated.

There are also Negritos (or original Asians) in Malaysia. In fact, there is a group in Malaysia that genes that date back to 72,000 YBP. This is actually before the main Out of Africa event, yet is has now been shown that other small groups went out of Africa before then.

Most of these groups were devastated by the vast Toba volcanic explosion in India 72,000 YBP that exterminated almost all humans in South and Southeast Asia. It is thought that only 1,500 of this group survived the explosion. This means that humans went through a severe genetic bottleneck no doubt accompanied by massive selection pressure and huge genetic effects. Whether this explosion’s effects extended to Central Asia (probably), the Middle East (maybe), or East Africa (unknown) is not known. At any rate, this original group departed from East Africa near Somalia and Djibouti.

The main OOA group left out of here too. No one quite knows what these people looked like but they have appeared somewhat Khoisan. The Khoisan are the most ancient group in Africa with genes dating back 52,000 YBP. Further, their click language to me seems like a good candidate for the original human language. It does seem to be quite primitive. Before that, we clearly used sign language. Neandertals could not speak due to their hyoid bones. The great apes also have this problem. So when Neantertals vocalized, they may have sounded like great apes.

The Sasquatch, which I believe is an archaic hominid related to Heidebergensis which somehow survived, has a very odd speech pattern (it speaks on the inhale, bizarrely enough – try it sometime) and a friend of mine who shot and killed two of them told me that the juveniles were using extensive sign language. They ran half the time on all four and half the time on two legs, which is very odd. Sasquatches can run up to 30 mph on all fours. That must be quite frightening to watch but it can be seen in the Port Edward Island Sasquatch footage. Anyway, enough about Bigfoot for today!

It’s not known how far modern human language dates back. Sergei Starostin feels it cannot date back more than 50,000 because so many cognates remain that we can actually construct a bit of Proto-World. One Proto-World term is “tik” meaning one, to point, index finger, etc. From this comes our word to teach. Imagine a teacher pointing at a blackboard with his index finger. I worked on an Indian language a while back and they had a very archaic word found only in the earliest vocabularies – tik, meaning “the point of a spearhead. I cannot prove it but I believe deep down inside that this is from the same root. I

It’s more of a gut feeling or intuitive thing, and intuitions are often wrong because they overgeneralize, throw out logic altogether, and rely exclusively on notoriously unreliable and subjective (the very word subjective implies emotional response) feelings, especially deep or gut feelings that can be described as “Gestalt.” I’m a birdwatcher and we use something called Gestalt to identify fleeing glimpses of a bird.

All we can see is what philosophers like Heidegger might call “the essence” or essential nature of the bird rather than it’s surface characteristics which are too fleeting to identify. Heidegger discusses surface versus essence interpretations of objects a lot. It seems hard to figure out but it’s easier than you think.

Logic relies on surface or appearance, including the human definition we have given to the object.

Intuition on the other hand pretty much throws out the surface stuff and looks for the “essence of the thing” or the “deep meaning” or “true meaning” of the object. We are getting into Plato here with the concept of “pure objects” that actually do not exist in reality.

An example of Platonic pure objects would be what I call the Masculine and Feminine spirit (see the brilliant and wrongly derided Otto Weininger’s “Sex and Character” for more. And Weininger comes from Nietzsche in my opinion and leads to Heidigger, also in my opinion. He seems to be a sort of a bridge between the two. Note that all were Germans, Weininger an Austrian, but oh well.

The Masculine Spirit and the Feminine Spirit is one way of dividing the universe or world in a binary manner. Not that there are not other binary methods of chopping the world into opposite halves, but this is just one of them.

I would argue that the world is half Masculine principle and half Feminine principle and that neither is better than the other and the marriage of the two opposites creates a whole that is bigger than the sum of its parts, hence the human pair bond where each pair of the male-female couple fills in the missing blanks or parts of the other one, each creating a whole person in the other where only a “half person” had existed before.

We are also getting into Taoism here, but the ancient Chinese were awful damn smart, so you ignore them at your peril in my opinion. Furthermore, the Taoist maxim of how to live your life – “moderation in all things” is an excellent aphorism, not that many of us ever do it. It’s clearly the route to a long lifespan.

To do the opposite is to burn candles at both ends, life fast, die young, and leave a pretty corpse, which sounds very romantic and appealing when young (it did to me) but which sounds increasing idiotic and even suicidal for no good reason with each advancing year past 30. I now find it laughable, pathetic, and openly suicidal and delight in mocking the concept. But I survived another 30 years past the expire date on that concept, so perhaps my new attitude is simply the inevitable product of living out that maxim twice and hence nullifying it.

There are a number of Southern Chinese groups with more of an indigenous look, sometimes prognathous. These date back to the original indigenous elements in Southern China and SE Asia, who all date back to the Negritos. The Montagnards of Vietnam are definitely one of these indigenous types. The indigenous went from

Indigenous (Negrito) -> Proto SE Asian (with Melanesian component) -> modern SE Asian (Modern Mongoloid with archaic components. This effect is quite pronounced in the Vietnamese, who were completely overrun by a Chinese invasion 2,300 years ago after which there was much interbreeding and a huge infusion of Cantonese words, which now make up 7

However, the core vocabulary of of Vietnamese remains Austroasiatic (a language family nevertheless with Southern Chinese roots derived from the archaic Mongoloid peoples of the region 5-7,000 YBP, who later moved into SE Asia. This core vocabulary is shared by the Munda branch of Astroasiatic, completely isolated India, particularly Eastern (Mongoloid) India. The fact that Vietic shares a common core vocabulary with the geographically separated Munda proves the existence of Austrasiatic.

In fact, it is the final convincing argument. Anyone who says that Austroasiatic does not exist is a fool.

Further, the evidence for Austroasiatic, a proven family, is no greater than the existence for Altaic, and in fact Altaic may be better proven. The “numerals” argument against Altaic is belied by the 13,000 year old Afroasiatic language, the numerals of which are a complete disaster.

Numerals are more often innovated and replaced than people think. Often the old cognates survive in archaic words or words used for related concepts, but it’s not unusual at all for the main term to be an out and out innovation. Most Altaic numerals are innovated, but there are a few cognates. Further most of the numerals have cognates in related or archaic words.

This is the most archaic layer of Austroasiatic. Some of these peoples are archaic Mongoloids with a strong Australoid component. A branch of these Australoids called Carpenterians went from India to Australia 11,000 YBP and become part of the Aborigines. Another group of archaic Australoids were called Murrayans. They came from Thailand 17,000 YBP and went to Australia. It is not known what Australians looked like before that but no doubt they were quite primitive. It’s long been thought that they have more Erectus component than the rest of us, but I’m not sure that is proven. Certainly their appearance resembles that.

The Murrayans are the core element of the Ainu, who went to the Philippines 16,000 YBP in an unusual, Caucasian appearing type, and then moved to the Southern Japanese islands north into Japan 13,000 YBP, quite possibly replacing an ancient Negrito type already there. This Negrito type definitely existed in Southern China and may well have existed in Korea. Some Australoids or especially Australoid-Mongoloid mixes can have a superficial “Caucasian” appearance, but that’s just parallel development, coincidence or more probably the fact that the possible human phenotypes is only a small subset of the possible ones.

It is this coincidentally “Caucasoid” appearance that led many observers to believe that the Ainu were somehow ancient Caucasians (Norwegians, joked one anthropologist was) that got stranded from the rest of Europoid flock way over on the other side of Asia. In fact, the Ainu are Australoid by skull and Mongoloid by genes. Their language, like the Japanese language, has an ancient Austronesian layer that has led many to falsely conclude that the Altaic Japanese language is actually an Austronesian one. The argument is even better with Ainu, the deeper group of which has not been shown to my satisfaction.

How to Show Love/Compassion to a Woman without Sounding Weak/Desperate

This could even include money. Even if you gave out a lot of money to a woman – especially an ex – wouldn’t it seem fake and desperate? It would be a tool for you to get used.

Just remember, you have to negotiate from a position of strength, but the woman might be feeding you crap like, “I love you” when you’re really not in that position yet. Maybe that could be counterproductive to what you want because you don’t want to answer, and then she’s trapped you into a situation where you seem desperate.

Regarding other things with an ex, women might test you saying cruel things that don’t really mean deep down, assuming you haven’t gone for some advised separation time. In that case, any crying/whining in response to the bullying will further push her away. She will see you’re getting payback for anything done to her, being appropriately whipped, but at the same time, she will see a weak man that can’t handle real challenges.

One way to deal with that, assuming you can’t avoid it altogether as advised, would be to simply laugh off the cruelty, no matter how bad it is.

Calling the Cops?

Perhaps it’s advised but a better idea is to stay away from the woman. If you can’t, calling cops might be seen as a sign you can’t take it, or maybe alternatively, you’ve stood up to her saying you’re not going to be henpecked.

My own view, assuming there’s no separation time, is that cops should be avoided. Once she’s cooled down after a couple of weeks, assuming you can take the brutality, begin to explain to her straightforwardly that you won’t accept being p-whipped, plain and simple. That’s what the woman really wants to hear, assuming she in some remote way wants to keep you on. Once she really believes that, you can open up all lovely and compassionate.

How Long to Get the Woman Back?

Well, however long it takes to show her your a strong, confident replacement – while at the same time, softly showing her you’re really sorry and have changed.  Anyway, experts advice a 30 to 45 day no-contact-rule.   However, though, I don’t think everyone can do that, though, it’s advisable.  Perhaps other sneaky tricks can do the job.  Well, one way is by exploiting people your wife/girlfriend hates – in order to make yourself seem more confident.   Well, this might only work after she’s already beat you up quite a bit – got her most fierce anger over with.

Myself, I wanted to do a 30/45 day no-contact thing -but she wouldn’t have it.  Well, I am being a wuss in that I’m chicken to walk out – because I don’t believe she would come back.   However, dating coaches strongly advise against it.

Are the “New Women” Unreasonable?

I’m going to take an unpopular view on these sorts of sites and say “no”.  In fact, women have not changed since caveman times – and be rest assured, if women find you creepy, ugly whatever – it’s cause you’re a low-confidence man or a high-confidence man who goes too far.

Women just simply aren’t going to change the rules for you – cause you feel they are unfair.

What about feminism, though?  Well, I don’t think that matters – cause even these feminist women aren’t any different from other women.  Well, that’s my theory.  In other words, they are spouting out stuff – they don’t really even believe in or practice.   Well, I think @Robert Lindsay was saying this also.

Dating for the Handicapped

I sort of feel sorry for these guys/gals – cause probably they can only get people similar to them.   In other words, they’re simply not going to non-exploitative relationships from non-handicapped people.  For instance, I am on the forum, and there is this rather attractive Asian woman with autism.  She constantly complains about a man stalking her – and obviously he is a predator of the disabled, children etc..

Anyway, before we dismiss her as being some feminist nut-case etc.., we could do well to see that’s probably all she can get.  I would think guys who aren’t handicapped cannot handle her – and if she was a guy trying to get a woman, it would be even way worse.  I mean,  men aren’t so particular about behavior and focus more on looks, possibly even willing to ignore crazy women.

When They Hate Your Free Spirit

Henpecked people will hate the freedom of others.  That’s why it’s tough to say if “the advice” – which probably is largely justified (you’re a slob, you need to get a job), is totally the real deal.

I mean, envy is real.  People don’t like the happiness of those not in henpecked family relations where they do everything right, the American Dream – LOL.

However, this isn’t saying you should be a slob, be hooked on dope/porn, avoid a real job, spend much of your life avoiding women – while pretending it isn’t cowardice.    It’s just saying even if you reversed those things, if you were p-whipped, so to speak, what good would it be?

Touching and the Like

Women are not going to touch men with no confidence.  In fact, if guys are wanting that some other way, they’re only going to get it from gay predators, family members etc..  In other words, they’re not going to get heterosexual touching.

Anyway, it seems cruel, but probably it’s just hardwired into female nature.  In other words, despite the fact men need touch, they simply won’t get it by being wimpy.

When Family Members are Obviously Henpecked

I really think this goes on – and you can tell cause they just aren’t happy.  In fact, you go to family get-together – and if they’re massively quiet and un-humorous – while the women are laughing and having a good ole time – that might be the case.

Well, I know at least one guy who used to be a jokester, the life of the party – but now come across as a total geek – something I wouldn’t never see in the future – in a million years!

Anyway, women could drive men into this enslaving position – by simply using the “whole family thing” to guilt-trip them into serving their wive’s every whim.  Now I don’t know why women do this – cause the effect of it – drives the men away from the wives – toward other men.   

Well, one theory is they really don’t want to do this – but will keep pecking at the men, until they man up and don’t allow it.

Anyhow, there’s nothing wrong with being a family man.  For instance, my dad and other non-henpecked people were very happy, raised families very well.   Now, of course, this did lead to some negative things.  For instance, these kind of guys are more likely to be too insensitive.  However, it seems to go hand-and-hand with the whole “being strong” thing.

Sadistic Torture

Well, the way I see it, if a woman henpecks a man for years, she must have something massively wrong with her.  In that case, she won’t let the man go in favor of someone else, but rather has affairs either real or emotional.   That’s just terrible!

 

Why My Comments Seemed Anti-Masculine in the Past

My comments did so – because I was with one girl who really loved me – and before that I was just into a lot of porn.  In other words, I hadn’t really been strongly rejected.  Now it seems like these sites are hangouts for guys who have tried to get girls – and they were strongly rejected, so they’re very angry at women – and probably other races etc…   That’s why they’re so obsessed with “not looking like a cuck” etc..

Anyway, why are they angry at women and feel a need to embrace super-reactionary views to get even? It isn’t really doing much anyhow.    Well, the dating advice people advise being “masculine” – but that’s not the same as being a jerk.  In other words, wearing your penis on your sleeve isn’t the same as just projecting confidence.

Well, the best advice with women with getting one, keeping one, or getting one back – is simply just don’t ever look weak.  Well, you can show some vulnerability briefly – but only after you got her really strongly.

I mean, women have feelings for downtrodden guys – but not ones who can’t take the punches.  For instance, some guy loses his wife, so a woman is interested in seeing him “because she cares”.

Using People She Doesn’t Like to Win Her Back

If mom doesn’t like her, possibly this could be manipulated into her seeing you as strong, confident – qualities that after a “falling out” you probably don’t have.

It would be a form of reverse psychology, rather sneaky.   Anyway, it seems to work at times – but it might not stop the negative emotions toward you all the time.

O.K., so the mom doesn’t like your mates race, politics, weight, whatever – and initially it seems to make things bad, but could be a major help in disguise.

 

The US and the West May Have Some of the Lowest Rates of Verbal, Psychological, Physical, and Sexual Abuse of Children

Fine, so why are we making such a big stink about it then?

The rest of the world does not care about child abuse.

You mean child sexual abuse or the rest of it, physical abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse?

I do have a feeling that child molestation may be quite common in the rest of the world.

I have heard Indian women say that on reservations, “All Indian girls get molested.” A friend told me the same thing about Indians in Canada.

He also implied that all French Canadian girls get molested.

The notion that pedophilia and child molestation is a White man thing is a big lie made up by White-hating Blacks and anti-White racist woke types. You simply don’t hear of molestation in the ghetto because it’s ubiquitous. Black and Hispanic girls are twice as likely to be molested as White girls are. So much for the “White male molester” meme. I read a few articles on this, and the women were quite honest.  A common refrain was “All girls get molested in the ghetto.”

So we see once again very high levels of child molestation in impoverished non-White communities in the West such as ghetto Blacks and reservation Indians.

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We had an actual pedophile on here, and he had relocated to Mexico where he could get away with his behavior better. He posted on the comments about how he was molesting little girls. Probably some of the most shocking comments that ever showed up on this blog. The other commenters all jumped on him and beat him up badly, which was probably appropriate. I didn’t turn him in. He’s in Mexico. That’s not my country. Anyway, I’m not a cop. If police want to go investigate this guy, I’ll help them but I’m not into turning people in to the police. Fuck that.

Anyway this guy did have some interesting things to say. He is the first predatory child molester that I’ve ever conversed with, so his conversation was interesting because you never meet someone like that, and it’s hard to figure out what they are thinking.

In Mexico, he molested a 5 year old girl next door in the bathroom a couple of times. Her mother told her to quit hanging around with him and looked at him suspiciously.

Then he molested a six year old girl next door a couple of times. If you must know, he got these girls to jerk him off in the bathroom, which is probably fairly low on the damage scale. Same thing. Mother said quit hanging around with him and looked at him suspiciously.

He implied that it was basically normal for poor and lower middle class Mexican girls to get molested at some point. It’s just something that happens to girls there and women in those classes just figure it’s something all women go through as girls. Apparently most of them just get over it or accommodate it.

I don’t like the idea of this happening (I’d rather it did not happen at all), but where it’s rife, a lot of women probably just adjust. He said it is so common among these classes that if you go to the police, they just shrug their shoulders and say, “Keep the girl away from him.” Prosecutions are rare, apparently because it’s so common. So most women don’t even bother going to the cops if their girls get molested.

He went to another city where he met some runaway prostitutes who were living in a house together. He told them he was a pedophile, and they said, “No problem,” totally nonchalantly and brought an 8 year old girl out of the house for him. They acted like they did this as a special request pretty regularly. They went under a bridge. She got him off. I don’t want to go into details here but it was fairly similar to what happened to the girls in the bathroom.

The 8 year old girl appeared to be into it, perhaps because she’s come to enjoy it for some odd reason. Perhaps it was fun for her. Girls that age have no sex drive, but perhaps they can learn to enjoy sex like playing on a playground, chasing around with other kids, or swinging on a swing, on that level. I still don’t approve even if they enjoy it. I’m just trying to theorize why they enjoy these activities with no sex drive.

But this got me to thinking. How common is this in the 3rd World? Mexico is heading out of the 3rd world into the 1st. If it’s that bad there, think of how bad it might be in the real 3rd World?

I’m wondering how common this is elsewhere. I’m told that in poor Filipino households, molestation of girls is rampant, possibly even taking the form of rape. Nothing much happens because these slums are such hellholes of crime and despair anyway.

I assume that verbal and psychological abuse is simply normal and legal in most of the world. God knows physical abuse of children may well be too. A lot of tribal people beat their kids pretty bad for no good reason. The kids seem to grow up fine anyway. Thing is in those societies, it’s normal to get beaten as a kid. No one thinks anything of it. So if you say you got beaten as a kid and it fucked you up, everyone looks at you like you’re nuts.

The commenter may be correct that in the rest of the world, psychological and verbal abuse of kids is probably almost normal, and even physical abuse is probably quite common. Remember back to our parents generation? How many men in that generation told you that their Dad used to beat their ass up regularly? Lots of men in that generation got their asses beat by their fathers. I don’t approve of it, but the WW2 generation seemed to come out ok.

I’ve dealt with sexual abuse above. I have a feeling that in the 3rd World, this is perhaps way more common than we want to think.

I think what you are getting at here is that levels of psychological, verbal, certainly physical and definitely sexual abuse are more proscribed here than anywhere else on Earth. We’ve declared war on all of these things. Who else has? No one.

So the levels of such things in the US may well be very low by world standards. Still the scolds won’t shut up about it and go on and on about the “child abuse catastrophe” now somehow morphing normal late adolescent consensual sex into 18 year old “grown men” “molesting” and “raping” 17 year old “little girls” (equivalent to toddlers I guess) who “cannot consent and are therefore always raped every time they have sex (!!),” all teenage girls who get fucked by adult men (the # must be very high) have been “molested” like little girls, and all of them are now somehow damaged for the rest of their lives!!

 

Most Human Behavior, Including Our Own Personalities, Is “Socially Constructed”

I do not believe that most human behavior has, how to put it, “functional” (?) effects. Functional would mean if X happens to you, then Y is always the traumatic result of X.

It simply doesn’t add up.

What’s abuse in one society is normal in another society. If your society tells you having X behavior happen to you is nothing, few if any get harmed.

If your society tells you that having X behavior happen to you fucks you up for life, you need decades of therapy, and you’re never right again, guess what happens? Lots of people get fucked up for a long time, some for life, many go into therapy forever, and many have lasting damage into adulthood and claim they will never be the same after what happened. For the same Goddamned behavior that caused zero harm in the other society.

If you keep telling a kid he’s a thief even though he’s never stolen a thing, he might just start stealing. In an important sense, sadly, we are what other people have told us we are. We all want to think we are masters of our own ships, but as long as we reside in this socially embedded world, it’s probably not true. We may well be doomed to be affected by other people’s treatment of us.

We live in society with other humans in a culture. Most human behavior is culturally embedded.

I hate to sound like an SJW, but most human behavior and reactions to it, traumatic or otherwise, are “socially constructed.”

In a way, the person either chooses to not be effected by it (in a society that says it’s harmless) or chooses to be traumatized by it (in a society that says it’s very harmful). Hell, our own personalities are socially constructed.

Not only that but new research says that your personality in part depends on the humans you are around, and in that sense your personality can change throughout your life. I keep telling my clients, “There is no real you. There’s no such thing. Quit trying to find the real you. It’s bullshit.” I tell them, “You create the real you every morning when you get up.” Indeed. Who am I? I am whoever the Hell I created myself to be on this particular day. Tomorrow may be different. Perhaps I may construct myself differently tomorrow.

I’m pretty dubious on the biology of psychological stuff. Sure, some psyche stuff is biological, but a lot is just not. The vast majority of it seems to be socially constructed or created and embedded deeply in the culture and social milieu that the person lives in.

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