Of course it is – because you don’t know what a woman really wants. You don’t know how to be that hero in her life. All you see is a hot piece of meat, a pretty face.
Well, in this case, of course dating is tough – and especially it’s tough for incels.
Anyway, shallow dating might get some results. However, a truly long lasting relationship needs something strong to be grounded in. I mean, why are some couples together for years and others divorce/break-up?