Men are actually very easy, much easier than women say we are. Most men don’t want to fight other men. Most men want to relax, take it easy, and live life on the fun, kick back, slow, no worries-no problems. Men are not actually out trying to pick fights with other men like women say we are.
Women actually act aggressive far more than men do in terms of incidents and duration. Thing is that women’s aggression is psychological and spiritual and not physical, so it’s not that big t of a deal when they get aggressive. Sure, it’s annoying, obnoxious, and even infuriating, but is it going to get you killed or even seriously hurt? Doubtful. It’s low level aggression that doesn’t cause much harm, so no one cares about it.
But when men get aggressive? Get outa here. Somebody clear the room.
Someone’s going to get hurt.
All sane men know implicitly how dangerous male aggression is. That’s why when you get a lot of men together ,the dominant emotion is, “Let’s all act nice so we don’t all murder each other, ok?” Because murdering each other is actually a serious risk any time you get a bunch of men together. If there’s a fight or even an argument in a group of men, have you ever seen how all the other men dive in to try to break it up real fast, “It’s cool, it’s cool, it’s cool? You guys calm down!”
The other men are alarmed. Another problem with male aggression is how quickly it escalates. Two guys are yelling at each other and starting to push each other a bit. It hardly takes any more energy for things to turn into a full-blown fistfight. In that sense, male aggression is a dangerous thing. It’s like a car that overheats way too fast. If it overheated slowly, you could pull over until it cooled down, but when it heats up too soon, you might blow up an engine.
I’ve been in quite a few physical fights with other men in my life, and I’ve been shocked at how quickly things get overtly physically violent. I’m talking even this year, ok? It doesn’t take much for me to get in your face fake-swinging on you. Or I’ll grab a chair and head over to you and start fake-swinging it at you. They usually back down. If they start swinging all bets are off.
Once a guy poured a beer down my shirt and called me a faggot. I’d known him for a long time. He was my old bully from junior high and high school. Now here he was, 21 years old and a sloppy drunk, basically an alcoholic already. As soon as that beer started going down my shirt, I started swinging. The fight moved inside. Of course the silly women started yelling, “You’re both going to jail!” like they always do.The other guys at the party didn’t care. They said, “Don’t worry. Bob will kick his ass.”
I didn’t care. The fight wound its way into the kitchen and dining room. I saw a table. I got so angry that I picked up this small wooden table and smashed it over the guy’s head. The table shattered into many pieces.
People pointed out that I had just broken the host’s table. People said, “Don’t worry about it, Bob. We’ll just replace the table.”
This is what’s going to happen to you if you start swinging on me. I’m going to pick up a fucking table and break it over your Goddamned head! And I don’t care how many of my commenters have a similar attitude. In fact, I would be proud of them if they did. Most people don’t start swinging on me, possibly because I look like I could do just that without a lot of provocation.
The guy was on the ground, dazed . He slowly picked himself up and staggered over to me and shook my hand. I took it. The fight was over. As bad as he was, at core he was still an honorable man.
When a fight between men comes to a conclusion, assuming there is an obvious winner and loser, you are supposed to be friends afterwards. It’s pussy to hold a grudge and seethe at the other guy with other men around. Man World is based on an honor code. And part of that honor code is “the fair fight” or “the honorable fight.” Part of the honorable fight is, win or lose, you both shake hands afterwards and it’s done. Of course women never fight like this and can’t even comprehend the concept of honor as it isn’t even a word in the female vocabulary.
There are a lot of great things about women, don’t get me wrong, but a sense of honor is not one of them. Women fight dirty. Because they are weak and that’s how the weak fight. Which is fine, really. What do you expect?