They want men who are strong, providers, and trustworthy. Also, they can’t stand boring men. It’s as simple as that!
They don’t like crybabies because they come across as being mental, child-like, or feminine.
It’s not too hard to achieve these goals for a man. Strong doesn’t have to be a power-lifter, and no man has to be totally trustworthy, etc.. There’s room for error but not major error.