This article may have been written without really thinking. I think this torture woke me up to the fact I was a bad man. However, to continue in this phase projects weakness to the woman. But I think if I hadn’t been humiliated like this, I wouldn’t have turned around.
Anyway, as noted in other posts, the next step is not contacting the unloving wife (for 30 days) thereby creating fertile ground for winning her respect back. In my case, the relationship isn’t going to mentioned or any negativity associated with it and if it is, I will go to another room and after that, go to my parent’s home for a day.