I might seem interesting on the net, but around real-life girls, I’ve simply always been nerdy and shy. There was exceptions like during high school and college where I was a party animal, but in that case, I actually became too wild, so I came across as crazy or mentally challenged.
Anyhow, a big problem is now that I’ve let go of my self-absorption which worked well on my girl for a long time – but eventually caused a near-break-up and month of masochistic torture – there’s the possibility of being too nice which really means too boring or too predictable.
How to Change That?
I really don’t know. That will be a challenge with my new wife. Anyway, as far as women besides my wife, being too nice has always been a major problem and why they aren’t chasing me.
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