PUA/Game: Don’t Be a Pussy Beggar – Instead Act Like You Could Care Less Whether You Have Sex with Her or Not

Claudius: I’ll tell you who, conservatives who have always viewed thinking and intellectualism with suspicion and beta males begging women for sex.

Otherwise known as “pussy beggars.” I really need to write about this. I don’t act like this at all. I act like I could care less if I fuck this woman or not! This is the mindset:

I don’t even care if you fuck me or not! I don’t care if I get laid!

A lot of times I leave it up to them. I just say:

You’re the woman. You’re in charge here. You’re running the show. We do what you want.

And I shrug my shoulders. I think they are intrigued by that. Women are probably tired of fending off desperate pussy-begging horny guys all day and night. They’re probably thinking:

Here’s this goodlooking guy, and he literally doesn’t even care if he fucks me or not! What a relief to be free of aggressive, desperate, creepy guys over-escalating on me all the time. I’m in charge of the sex? Wow. I think I like that. Gives me a feeling of agency. I feel powerful!

It’s probably true that women appreciate some agency in the sexual realm. Mostly they are fighting off aggressors or caving in to them. Whether they have sex or not seems more due to the man’s beliefs than the woman’s. Women are way hornier than anybody thinks. But maybe that is my perspective from a gifted  point of view (see below). Women don’t feel in charge much of their lives. I think women like to feel like they are in charge and like the idea of them deciding whether or not to have sex. The weird thing is you would be surprised at how many times when you leave it up to them, women decide they want to have sex!

What’s weird is how many times they agree to have sex with me when I act like IDGAF. It’s amazing. Perhaps it is an abundance mentality. I will tell you what women really hate is a guy overeager to get laid. Otherwise known as acting desperate. And escalating too fast is part of this.

The weird thing I just sit back and don’t say much of anything except throw out some “lures” or “baits” that are not even all that sexual. Tell her how beautiful she looks. Tell her what a great body she has. Very light low level flirtation. I call it “opening the door” and “leaving the door open.”Also don’t slut-shame at all. It doesn’t work. You want to encourage her to be horny, not discourage it.

If the door is open she is free to get sexual with little guilt. You are not slut-shaming her, you are accepting of her sexuality no matter how slutty it is, and she feels a sense of relief that she can be her ravenously horny self without feeling guilty about it.

What I find endlessly is that women get annoyed and impatient with me, and it’s usually them who starts escalating, typically by talking about sex. I’ve literally had some say to me:

Are you going to kiss me or what!?

and

Are you going to fuck me or what!?

I don’t start the sex talk. I sit back and let them start it! And it works! Then once she gets going I get dirty, but I often start off a bit slow. But I quickly up the pace and soon I am talking to them very aggressively using degrading language:

You like that you horny fucking bitch?

I say it very aggressive in what could be seen as a scary tone with an tone that is escalating in aggressiveness towards the end of the  sentence. The weird thing is they usually respond to this degrading talk by getting insanely horny.

When I have women over, I act like I could care less whether I have sex or not. I say,

Well, there’s a bed in a bedroom and a pull-out couch in the living room. You can sleep wherever you want. Your decision. It’s up to you.

What I don’t tell them is that the bed in the bedroom is my bed! LOL. And they usually end up saying that they want to sleep with me, but sometimes they say it in “shy” terms.

Well, I will take the pullout couch, but I think I might want you to come visit me in the night.

That’s an anti-slut defense but no matter, I’m still getting laid! If they say they are sleeping on the couch and don’t say anything else, I laugh in their faces and tell them:

They all say that. I bet you’re going to come knocking on my door at night. They usually do and you won’t be any different.

Then I go off to sleep in my room and say good night. Guess what happens? A majority of the time, a knock comes at my door, and the woman, often shyly, invites herself in. It works!

Incidentally, I laugh in women’s faces all the time. I don’t know why but I am an arrogant shit, so maybe that has something to do with it. Plus I am sort of an asshole. The weird thing is that when I laugh right in their faces and basically make fun of them (I’m humiliating them, by the way), it seems like they often like it! They like it when I act like a bit of arrogant dick and a bit of an asshole.

No idea why that is but PUA’s have been saying from time immemorial that women like assholes, so maybe it has something to do with that. But why like assholes? Why hate nice guys? Does it go back to caveman days? I’ve got some theories on that, but I’m not sure.

On the other hand, I was said to get very handsome when younger, and supposedly I still look great now, so maybe this is a luxury for goodlooking men. Perhaps when men who are less attractive sit back and wait for the woman to go first, she never does.

See, my PUA is all based on my experiences. And that’s of a purportedly handsome man. But just because it worked for some goodlooking guy, is it really going to work for guys with average looks (which is perfectly normal; handsome men being outliers) or unattractive men (possibly outliers too as the norm may be average looks)? I have no idea! I haven’t the faintest idea whether this stuff works well for handsome and average men, or for handsome, average, and unattractive men, or just for goodlooking guys.

I can’t see what other people’s lives are like. Might be nice to get some feedback on that.

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3 thoughts on “PUA/Game: Don’t Be a Pussy Beggar – Instead Act Like You Could Care Less Whether You Have Sex with Her or Not”

  1. I learned this lesson the hard way. Saying or even slightly acting desperate will get you cock-blocked. However I too am handsome, so maybe that’s why when I play chill, it works. I’ve learned that if I, the man, THINK and set up the logistics of the hunt, I get laid. If I choose a date spot that’s fun and has booze, the weather is good, and is convenient located near a place where we can comfortably fuck, all I have to do is bring her to that place.

    If I let her, the woman, FEEL things out, I get laid. 50/50 shot.

    Now, if she does fuck you, and you later ignore her, she gets offended, hurt, and then pulls away for good. A non-slut or a trying-to-reform slut fucks you and you leave her, she wants to validate her thinking and be sure she hasn’t been duped by a player. Hence the annoying calls and clinginess. Now, the smarter the girl, the less annoying she’ll be because she’s aware men don’t like this.

    This has happened to me all the time. I screw girl once or twice. Then don’t talk to her for over a month because I really don’t give a fuck, and then crickets. There’s some maintenance work that has to be done, even if all you want is a fuck buddy. Why? Because non-hooker women don’t have fuck buddies, only men do.

    If a woman fucks you more than once, she’s trying to marry you even if he’s not consciously aware of it. Hookers and one-night-stand girls have high sex drives. Don’t go looking for a wife there. But the average chick goes through a long self-brainwashing process to be willing to jump in the sack with a man.

    Like Robert said in an earlier post, even if they want to fuck you, it doesn’t mean they will. They have to submit a 300 page long document to their Internal Statue Bureaucracy in their minds and get a dozen stamps of approval before those panties come off. Hence the need for men to ignore all soft “NO”s from a woman. That’s just a low-level bureaucrat in her mind trying to disqualify you.

  2. As noted so much on the net, being desperate is boring. You have to create a mystery, something for the woman to chase. Also, this probably often works with women also. I mean, once my woman came close to dumping me – was when I fell madly in love with her.

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