I get shut down pretty much all the time nowadays, especially by young women. I just got shut down a couple of times in the supermarket this evening. They don’t say no. Instead it’s nonverbal. I call it The Wall. It seems like I get the Wall all day every day sometimes. It’s really discouraging. The Wall is completely nonverbal and it says, “I am not interested in you that way, ok?” You can get a lot of different walls but they all mean the same thing.
There are places I go every day where some of the women are such cunts that they won’t even respond if I say hello and say their name. On the other hand, there are others who are pretty friendly, sometimes real friendly. But they’re all really young and I am 40 years older than they are, so I need a big green light to move on an age gap like that.
One acts flirtatious. She starts acting a lot more feminine when I start talking to her. That means either that she likes you or more probably that she’s attracted to you or turned on by you. But she is giving me The Wall as far as getting to know her in “that way.” And as I just learned the other day, at age 20, she already lives with her boyfriend.
I am sure that I turn on a fair number of women who nevertheless still don’t want to get involved with me, in this case due to age.
There was a woman in the bank who always gave me blank stares, the obvious blank stares you get from women who are turned on by you. I would come up to her window, and she would get pretty cold. I couldn’t make sense of it for the longest time. I finally decided she was fantasizing. I was 55 and she was 20 after all. She thought I looked good and she liked to look at me, but that’s as far as she wanted to take it.
It took me a while to figure out that she was just looking. I got that look in a few different ways from other young women too. Some of them actually thrust their bodies forward when they first interacted with me, obviously an involuntary purely physical turn-on. But then they would catch themselves a second or two later and correct it.
Think about it. A woman sees, what? Tens of thousands of hot men in her life. She’s going to fuck all of them? Women would fuck 100,000 men in a lifetime.
I met a 39 year old woman the other night. Literally picked her up in a corner market. I have no idea how the Hell I even did that. Got her in my car and drove to my place. Halfway there, she looks at me and says, “You know what? You’re fuckin HOT!” Well, that felt nice. I think I might have said, “Ok, let’s fuck then.” Then I got a Wall.
I got her to my place. A lot more flirtation.
I got her partly naked at different times because I’m often able to get women naked if I can at least get them in the door. I often use the “Don’t you think you need a shower?” ruse. I can’t believe how many women fall for that one or maybe they want to fall for it,if you catch my drift because it gives them an excuse: “I’m not getting naked in this guy’s house because I’m a slut. I’m getting naked in this man’s house because I need a shower!” But even then, they don’t necessarily want to fuck.
I even jump in the shower with them sometimes. I’m not sure how I do that either. They often protest in a meek way, but I just bulldoze in. They have to get visibly angry to shut me down, otherwise “no means maybe” as far as I’m concerned.
I grabbed at her when she got part naked and she batted me away. “That’s going to cost you.” She was basically charging. Money or dope. So she was a whore.
But that’s not that unusual. An incredible number of women engage in “transactional sex.” It’s ubiquitous.
I had a naked woman wandering around my place for two hours a while back. I kept grabbing her. I figured if you don’t want me grabbing you, put some clothes on, baby! She batted me away for a couple of hours. So you can even have naked women wandering around your apartment for hours and refusing to fuck. Which is her right. But I’m also going to keep grabbing at her.
She can tell you flat to your face that you’re the hottest man alive, and she still might not want to fuck. See above. Just because you turn a woman on, doesn’t necessarily means she wants to have sex with you!
I finally figured out that sex is a pretty big deal for women, especially casual sex. So many things could go wrong and it is dangerous. Women only have a few sex partners in life. The GSS reports that the average American woman has three partners in her life. Sex is a heavy-duty decision for a woman, and it’s not taken lightly.
Unfortunately, I have to respect that. I’m no rapist.
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“Women only have a few sex partners in life.”
uhhh…not the bitches I used to bang back in the day. Many of them were in the low double-digits at least.
According to the GSS, your average woman has three partners in her life, and your average man has six in his life.
Is the GSS based on self-report data?
Ha. I remember years back. A girl came back to my hotel room, but she basically told me that “We’re only going to cuddle. I’m telling you right now that we’re not going to do anything but cuddle.” So we got on the bed and snuggled next to each other. Well, being a guy, a stiff breeze can make us erect, so I don’t think that a guy can avoid that while cuddling.
Now, after a little bit, the girl I cuddled with turned a certain way and her vag was pressed up against my thigh and I got an idea of how much she liked cuddling. I mean she REALLY liked cuddling if you get what I’m saying. I decided not to push it and I didn’t mention anything the first time, but the second time I did. She was embarrassed but I told her it was nice to know I had that effect on her. I figured you might get a kick out of that story.
It can be pretty sad when the girl your dating is mean and mentions your so ugly – LOL. Well, it’s kind of picking at something people have no control over. Anyway, they do have cremes to rid of those bags under the eyes etc..
Good God, I’ve never had a woman say that to me. If she did, I might knock her across the room. She would deserve it, too.
Women can have a child’s honesty. I don’t go for that degrading crap. If she’s fucking ugly, she’s no better than him, and it needn’t be said.
Some women think they are like highlanders and try to get a man’s power by taking his head. “There may be only one” man in the relationship. Interestingly the name MacLeod means “son of ugly.” Leod derived from Old Norse word for ugly.