Why is sex important to men? Because I don’t think there is any experience in a man’s life that gives him a high like that does.
I now believe that 90% of the importance men place on sex is psychological.
Physically? Who needs it? We can sit home and masturbate just as easily, and my hand never charged me to do it or even argued with me along the way or afterwards.
Sex is important to men because of what it says about us when we have it. And a lot of it is how the world views us. We need to have sex with women because this is how we get respect in the world of men. And in the world of women too.
Sex for men is about:
1. The ego and the sense of ultimate validation that nothing else can begin to approach.
2. The public image, once again via a sense of validation that seems almost superior to all the others.
Why do players chalk up the lays? Egotism. They’re just feeding their egos. That’s literally all they are doing. Those women are nothing but ego food for a man’s starving sense of self.
This is the problem with these poor incels. They never get that sense of ultimate validation.
And it’s the way my life seems to be headed, too. Maybe this is all perfectly natural. Maybe this is how it’s supposed to be. Maybe I should quit complaining and fighting Mother Nature. But I have to tell you that this just doesn’t feel good.
At my age, it seems like 0.00000000% of women in Earth are sexually attracted to me even though I am still reportedly very handsome. And yes, that does feel like an insult. It’s like the whole world is insulting me every single day. I wake up every morning and I think, “The world is going to insult me all day today.”
And it used to be the opposite when I was younger. I have all these memories of countless women and girls hitting on me, flirting with me, and generally acting like they thought I was hot. There was nothing like it and I long to experience that even once again before I die.
Now I am wondering if that was all a giant hallucination or delusion. Did it even happen? Because right now I can’t imagine one woman on Earth finding me attractive like that. How could they have found me attractive back then? Did they really find me attractive? How could they have? If they don’t now, how could they then?
I had girlfriends my age raving about how hot I was six years ago. Did they really feel that way? How could they have? No one wants me now, so how did anyone want me then? Will this ever happen again? Will any woman ever find me hot ever again?
These are my thoughts. I haven’t been this insecure since adolescence. I’m a whirling dervish of insecurity.
It’s not an insult if some woman turns you down. That’s just normal. Never bothered me. As long as there are a few or even better a lot who want us, it’s all good. What we don’t like is being found unattractive by all of female humanity. I can’t put into words how soul-crushing and confidence-wrecking that is. At that point your life is like an incel’s life.
I wonder how many women could handle a world where not one man on Earth found them attractive enough to have sex with. Most of them would blow their brains out. No way could women handle that.