Game/PUA: One Sex Has to Dominate the Other

…we either have male dominance and violence, or gentle female dominance.

First of all,  you’re going to have male violence (and female violence too for that matter) in either one. Actually the men might be more violent if they were being dominated by women because being dominated by women is one thing that pisses real men off more than anything else.

First of all, female dominance of men will never be gentle. Women are never gentle with the men that they dominate, in relationships or otherwise. It just doesn’t work that way. I think it is not possible for a woman to dominate a man in a gentle way. Women will always be cruel, vicious, and even evil with the men they are dominating.

On the other hand, I think we men can dominate women in a civilized manner. First of all, we men evolved to be dominant, to dominate women and children, and to fight for dominance with other men. The fact that dominance was bred right into us means that we can choose to implement our inborn trait either nicely or cruelly. It is certainly possible for men to dominate women in a non-harmful way. I’ve done it in most of my relationships.

Sadly, one gender has to dominate the other. The reality for most men is that most women expect the man to dominate. Women come into the relationship specifically expecting to be dominated by the man. Now, in their minds this is not a bad thing, as they like being submissive, and their view of male dominance often does not involve harm.

Men realize that if we don’t dominate our woman, she is going to take those pants right off of us and dominate you! It’s like someone has to dominate – it’s either him or her, take your pick.

I used to believe that full equality between the sexes was possible, but after 45 years of experience with women, I no longer believe this. Complete equality between men and women is simply not possible – it’s folly, a fool’s errand, an unwinnable war.

Gay male relationships are full of dominance and submission, tops and bottoms, bears and twinks, in full imitation of heterosexuality.

Lesbians like to think they are beyond this, but how many times you have seen a lesbian couple where one was butch (the man) and the other was more femme (obviously the woman)? So they’re imitating heterosexuality too. And you can’t tell me there’s no dominance-submission stuff going on in that butch-femme relationship either.

From the lesbians I read on the web, I have learned that there is quite a bit of dom-sub type sex going on with them as a matter of course, especially with the young ones, 18-30. I hate BD/SM but I know a lot about it. The number of female subs who have dom “mistresses” is very high, and the setup is about the same as with male dom-female sub relationships.

If you look at mammals, it is quite typical for male mammals to not only be much more aggressive but also to keep harems, fight over females, etc. And in mammalian sex the male often acts quite dominant, and the female acts…you guessed it – submissive.

I am reading a book about grizzly bears, and the author witnesses a rare mating. Yes, the male bear is acting very aggressive and dominant, and believe it or not, the female grizzly bear of all things is acting…yep – submissive!

Ape sex is often about rape. In chimps and baboons, a male will literally terrorize a female ape for some time, chasing her, hitting her, scaring the living crap out of her. He acts extremely mean towards her. And guess which male she picks to mate with come mating time? Yep, the rapey, female-beating, stalking, creepy, abusive male ape, the same one who terrorized her her before.

I think the best we could hope for would be one sex dominating the other, but in the mildest and kindest way possible that does the least harm to the more submissive partner. And we should hope for submissive partners who don’t like to be hurt or abused.

4 thoughts on “Game/PUA: One Sex Has to Dominate the Other”

  1. Men realize that if we don’t dominate our woman, she is going to take those pants right off of us and dominate us! It’s like someone has to dominate – it’s either us or them, take your pick.

    LOL it’s like watching the reruns of Planet of the Apes in one single stretch. We’re all like just a breath away from TPB (Typical primate behavior).

    Ape sex is often about rape. In chimps and baboons, a male will literally terrorize a female ape for some time – chasing her, hitting her, scaring the living crap out of her. He acts extremely mean towards her. And guess which male she picks to mate with come mating time? Yep, the rapey, female-beating, stalking, creepy, abusive male ape, the same one who terrorized her her before.

    You said it! LOL

    Sadly, one gender has to dominate the other. The reality for most men is that most women expect the man to dominate. Women come into the relationship specifically expecting to be dominated by the man. Now, in their minds this is not a bad thing, as they like being submissive, and their view of male dominance often does not involve harm.

    Here’s the problem. Some women are very difficult to dominate. Of course, they still crave being a submissive but they really entered the relationship so that they can walk their man on a leash.

    Such women like to be dominated by OTHER men while they let their cuck husbands watch.

    Around 23, I was fascinated with a girl. She was attractive and I was looking at her as a long-term relationship prospect or even marriage. We dated for a while before I found out she already had a boyfriend. It was a guy she had later married, and they’re still living together. Basically, she had it going steady with him for a long while before she met me. Five years to be precise.

    I immediately started avoiding her. She noticed it and asked me the reason for not answering her phone calls anymore. I told her that I didn’t know she had a boyfriend because I wanted her for a wife in future (although I promised marriage to many other women – I was kinda serious about her at that time).

    That’s when she told me she liked me as much as I did her. But she couldn’t ditch her boyfriend because they’ve been in a relationship for … FIVE YEARS.

    I said, “So, what do you want from me?” She said, “Can’t we be just friends?”

    I thought: Why not? I did not realize it but this girl was attracted to my masculinity. She would chastise her boyfriend in my presence. I started enjoying that stuff a little bit, and very soon, I’d kiss and make out with this woman in movie theatres and all sorts of places with her husband right there. Her future husband never objected to that, and it weirded me out completely, but what the heck!

    Only as I got older did I realize this bitch was training her future husband to serve as a cuckold. She would tell her boyfriend to wait on her for hours. But with me, we were in a healthy, normal relationship. If I felt awkward in her boyfriend’s presence, she’d quietly tell him to go away somewhere else. It was a classic menage a trois .

    We often went out to the movies together. I’d make out with her in the cinema seats, and the boyfriend would go and fetch the popcorn. After all these years, I can’t believe it LOL, but it was surely weird as hell. That cuck never complained even once!

    However, this sweet thing didn’t last very long – maybe two months – because I was seeing other girls as well. I felt that this bitch was using me in some way, so I had zero expectations from her.

    At times I did confront her: “This shit can’t go on forever. You have to choose between one of us.” She promised me that she would eventually marry me if I wanted, but she could not ditch her boyfriend in good faith as that would hurt him a lot.

    Surely that boyfriend was simply inadequate. He had a girly voice, was shy, timid. But it didn’t take me long to realize this shit had no future. There were other girls in my life, and I couldn’t see myself wasting any more time. I told her bluntly “It’s over now! We can be friends but I’m not hanging out with your weird boyfriend watching us closely.”

    Right now I have absolutely no qualms about being with a married woman though. I even think it’s kinky and sexy. But extremely perverted. I wouldn’t mind being in another such menage a trois again.

    However if someone suggests something similar to that, no way I’m returning to that fetishist woman and her cuck husband. From what I saw on Facebook, she isn’t half the looker she once used to be.

    1. Dangerous, SHI – the guy could kill you. The biggest cuck in the world could snap. I’ve heard pimps say a bitch should fear death at your hands. With women dominating their men like this, I wonder if they are right.

  2. No, I absolutely don’t think this! As I said before, you can either generate respect from subordinates, women, children, teens etc. or you can’t. If you have to resort to chauvinism, beatings etc., it shows you’re a lousy person, generally.

    Now, as I mentioned, it’s tougher wall to climb for misfits, but even they can generate respect assuming they’ve got the “game plan”.

    Quote by SHI

    Surely that boyfriend was simply inadequate. He had a girly voice, was shy, timid. But it didn’t take me long to realize this shit had no future. There were other girls in my life, and I couldn’t see myself wasting any more time. I told her bluntly “It’s over now! We can be friends but I’m not hanging out with your weird boyfriend watching us closely.”

    Lots of shy guys have women. It’s not as big a problem to be shy after grade school assuming you’ve got money and connections. I mean, some shy guy who goes to church regularly and some shy guy working at a bank will surely get a wife. Who are we kidding here?

    Anyway, I’ve always wondered why some of these Normie bores have women. I didn’t really get it!

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