Nothing makes men more furious that being dominated in a cruel way by women or having their masculinity attacked by them. It actually literally makes us want to kill them. I had several girlfriends in the past who more or less attacked my masculinity, even gleefully.
Others had other men at the time we were together (although we were in an open relationship), but they deliberately did so in an open and outrageous way as if they were actually trying to provoke me. Yes, they were actually trying to make me murder them. But women do this all the time. Many women delight in provoking men to such an extent that as far as I am concerned, they are trying to get murdered because they do things to men that in Man World would immediately get you hit, if not out and out murdered.
Women try to push us men to our limits or even beyond them. It is very stupid (and dangerous) of women to do this, but they keep doing it.
Feminism has made this female behavior dramatically more common. In my mother’s generation, women were terrified to attack their husband’s masculinity. My mother even told me that she didn’t want to do that. I asked her why she didn’t do something one time, and she said, “Oh, he will see that as attacking his masculinity. I don’t want to attack his masculinity.”
Her attitude was more that doing such things was gross, unladylike, and undignified. My mother would see that sort of behavior as common with working class women and Black and Hispanic women. That’s what low class women do – provoke their husbands, bitch at them for no reason, and pick fights with them.
My mother’s coterie of White middle to upper class women simply didn’t act that way – you would be acting like those low class and non-White women they looked down on.
I knew a Colombian woman once. The worst insult you could say to a woman in her society was that she was “a woman of the streets.” To her, there was nothing lower than that. She was from an upper middle class background in the north of Bogota.
I remembered those damned girlfriends who attacked me that way. In some cases, I forgot all the fun we had, and when I reminisced, all I would think of was those times when they deliberately tried to cut my balls off with words, sometimes in public, sometimes in front of other men and women. Public humiliation. I remembered those incidents for decades.
And for decades, I literally wanted to kill every one of those women who attacked my masculinity like that.
I’ve gotten over it now and I feel better with this off my shoulders. But nevertheless, my first and immediate instinct to a woman wantonly and even gleefully attacking my masculinity was, “You’re going to die for that, bitch. No forgiveness. Ever.”
I’ve been attacked as “stabby” by feminists for writing this, but please keep in mind that I never killed any of those women. Hell, I never even tried to. I never even threatened to. I never even hit them. I never even threatened to hit them. I had some thoughts. Yes, they were bad thoughts, but they were just thoughts.
My point is that my reaction must be common. And consider that I am a pacifist, a passive man who is basically a coward. Hundreds of millions of men are a lot more aggressive and brave than I am. Obviously they react the same way I do and have the same thoughts I do. If even a pacifist thinks like this, think how an aggressive man thinks. Think what an aggressive man does.
Women are playing with fire. Don’t mess with this aspect of men. Most men or at least me know not to mess with men’s masculinity. We know that men will attack or even kill to preserve that. I don’t do it for fear of being hit or killed. Women, I suppose, never got the memo. Or did and filed it in the bin.
I am almost ashamed to say I never even hit or did anything violent to any of those women. Even worse than that, I rarely even fought back against these attacks. I just sat there and took it like a big, fat pussy. And got hurt. Real hurt.
Why? Because my Mom taught me that you never fight a woman.
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My mother was ladylike, classy and a very attractive woman. But she picked fights with my dad all the time…mostly for trivial reasons. As a teen, I ran away from home many times because the environment was unlivable. I dreaded coming back home after a party because I knew that’s when the yelling match would start.
However I don’t remember her disgracing him in front of other people. She wouldn’t allow dad to lose face in front of relatives or coworkers. Our finances were never good so she always chastised him for never making enough money. That’s one of the reasons I’m scared of a marriage, I don’t want to live through what my dad did, LOL.
However if we had to attend a family gathering such as a wedding, she’d quietly sell a piece of her own jewellery so that we could offer a good gift. She was extremely status-conscious. My mother probably whined about marrying my father; she deserved someone much better.
Also, we were well-provided for. She made sure I always went to the best school and had beautiful uniforms. Always got the classiest hair cuts.
I once rode a limousine as a nine year old because my mother insisted on it for an important event. I haven’t ridden a limousine ever since because I think it’s stupid and wasteful, but hey, we all have our good moments! I am proud of her because a good upbringing does a lot of good to you in later life.
However, sometimes it was a living hell because the way dad and mom fought. But there was an unspoken agreement – no washing dirty linen in public.
Sometimes I really wonder how my dad withstood nearly 40 years of such a tumultuous relationship. He was an old-fashioned type – marriages are for life etc. That’s why I say I’ll never be half the man my dad has been.
I learned this from being a teacher. Either you can generate respect or you can’t. If you have to dominate a woman (or school-kids) via beating, that means you can’t generate respect without it, which is pathetic. I’ve seen too many teachers who can generate respect by just being themselves (no beating, no chauvinism), to think otherwise.
Now, it is a rough road though for some people to generate respect because maybe they’re midgets or got something wrong with them. However, I think with a good enough program going on like, say at a school, then they can overcome that.
Now, where I was a teacher, the program was horrible, so of course, it failed, and me being a thin Abe Lincoln-looking freak didn’t help. In fact, I even got into bodybuilding quite a bit and even got noticeably stronger, but they (the students) were still bitches to the end.
I think women who behave this way usually have the backing of another man/other men. Some man has put it in her head that you’re a a pussy and you won’t do shit if she insults you. If you try to fight back, she will run to that man/group of men complaining about you.
It’s a man/men who gives such women the audacity to disrespect another man. They know very well that you could kill them, but they do it regardless because they know they’ve got protection from other men who are usually more Alpha than you in case you act out.
What do you think of my opinion Robert? I had a woman get on my nerves for months at a time too because I rejected her and refused to talk to her because she was repulsive to me. This bitch left no stone unturned to humiliate me, from talking behind my back to laughing at me to my face.
Just like you, I didn’t do much either in response except maybe occasionally talk behind her back. Honestly, not sure what we men can do in the current climate, especially if you’re in an office environment. I was in sales at the time, and in my experience, women in sales are psychopathic (masculine/ball busters?), without exception!!
I have hated her for half a decade…dunno how long i will continue to hate her, lol. I AM NEVER GOING BACK TO SALES AGAIN!!!!
White women these days don’t really know what Alpha is. They rely on men, often toxic. Shitty inferior men can turn a woman against a superior man.
Women aren’t logical.
A car salesman lights up when they step on the lot. Selling yourself to them is like selling a car. Car salesmen I know easily tower over White women. It’s sad for me to admit because White women are so beautiful. They typically idolize actors – professional fakers. They are mostly brainwashed by the media. So we could reprogram them if we owned the media.
Asian women and Jew broads have much more good taste and common sense. Though many feminist Jews are cursed to be cat ladies.
Thanks in large part to Cosby, even Black women have surpassed White women. Bill Cosby was crucial to Black acting, comedy, and education. Even D. L. Hughley admits without the Cos there’d be no President Obama.
This is a nice comment. I really appreciate it. Especially this:
Men, if you only learn one thing about women in your whole life, learn this. It will save you a lot of hair-pulling and impotent rage. Eventually you will just accept it and calm down and realize that they probably can’t help it and this is just the way they are. It’s like a barking dog. Sure, it can be annoying, but that’s just the way dogs are. Dogs bark. It’s what they do. Women act illogical. It’s what they do.