“Gold-digger/whore” and “Pimp” as “Types” of Black Ghetto Culture

Maybe it’s not politically correct but I wouldn’t trust the black whores generally. They seem a little extra greedy.

An actual Black whore will not generally speaking not steal your money. But you need to be careful. A common scam is inviting you to a hotel room where her pimp waits and robs you.

I always wondered why Black men from ghetto culture seemed so disdainful of women in general, particularly their own women from that culture. Now after I have dealt with too many Black women, I finally get it. No wonder they call them bitches and whores. I don’t blame em.

On the other hand, a lot of Black men aren’t exactly angels, and I don’t blame Black women at all for having a low opinion of their men or even for seeking men outside their race as a consequence.

Basically in that ghetto culture, the men and the women both act terrible, and they both hate each other for the terrible behavior of the other. Vicious circle.

Way too many Black women have this “whore” personality if they are not out and out whores themselves. Way too many Black women are out and out greedy gold-diggers of the worst type. Sure, White, Hispanic, and Asian women can be like this too, but the % of Black women like this is higher, and they seem worse about it.

One thing is that a lot of them are absolutely open and shameless about their gold-digging or semi-whoredom.

A very high percentage of the decent looking Black women on Tinder are more or less gold-digging whores. It says right there on their profile that basically all they want from us men is money. What do they like? Always the finer things or the finest things. A lot of them are basically saying they want a rich guy, and he should spend all his money on her overpriced ass.

Almost all of them are coming out of that ghetto culture in which most women are some species of man-hating “whore/gold-digger” types and most men are some species of woman-hating “pimp” types.

That culture is seriously messed up in many ways, but the relationships between men and women in that culture are particularly toxic. In ghetto culture, basically everything in life, especially sex, is a Goddamned transaction, and similarly, life is all and only about getting all the money all the time. Considering that these are poor people, their insane level of greed is particularly ridiculous, offensive, grotesque, and appalling.

I hate to say it but every Black woman I ever dated or got involved with was some species of “thieving whore,.” with the exception of one and I only dated her one time. She was an aide at a school I worked at. I didn’t know her long but she seemed like she was definitely a good person.

Most of them just stole my money and then refused to fuck me. None of them were actual whores, but they all saw me as a walking ATM.

I dated a very high class Black woman who was a schoolteacher with a husband who was a physician. She acted like a librarian. I brought her over to my parents house and people remarked on how uptight she was.

She fucked me but she also charged me. Every time I saw her it had to be a date at some restaurant. I always had to shill out 100% of the money. She wouldn’t even leave a tip.

And towards the end of the relationship I would pay for the meal at whatever time of day and then she would bail on the sex. I couldn’t come over just to sit and talk or hang out or – shockers! – actually have sex! You know, what normal boyfriends and girlfriends do? Go over to each other’s homes for the primary purpose of having sex? It’s not abnormal, people.

I studied this woman at length when I was with her. We were actually supposed to get married, believe it or not.

I know, I am such an evil racist scum. I am such an evil, Black-hating, racist White man that I almost married a Black woman! Most extremely racist White men almost or do marry Black women! Happens all the time! sarcasm/>

Anyway I concluded that the most important people in her life were a group of loosely related women – mother, sisters, aunts, female cousins, nieces, etc. This loose “family” of women was  all-female and heterosexual.

Most were of approximately the same class  she was, which was at least middle class and maybe upper middle class. On the surface, their behavior was probably excellent and civilized like hers. In no way were these women part of that ghetto-type culture. There are other Black cultures, you know, and this was one of them.

But I got the definite vibe from her that this family of women had a strong hatred for men, mostly Black men, possibly based on negative experiences with them. It seemed to carry over to all men.

The philosophy was that all men were no-good, cheating, low-life dogs who were good for only one thing – sex – and maybe not even that – in addition to wringing every nickel you could out of them. Use em for sex and take every dime they own, that was the thinking.

My great co-blogger Alpha has told me that male-female relationships are screwed up in the Black community, and she even stated that this attitude above is common. She said it all goes back to slavery. For all I know she may be right, and if so, I feel very sad about that.

But none of the people involved in this gendered dysfunction nowadays were slaves, and that was long ago. If Black people want to move beyond this Gender Cold War, it’s up to them to repair that damage and move beyond into better gender relations.

I still don’t understand why but the more I see of Black people, the more I think that something is horribly wrong with gender relations in that community. My White community is not doing great in that regard either, but the dysfunction is nowhere near Black levels.

It’s really more sad than anything else.

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8 thoughts on ““Gold-digger/whore” and “Pimp” as “Types” of Black Ghetto Culture”

  1. Yes, relations between Black men and Black women in America today are screwed up, generally, and the relationship was first screwed up during slavery. But I don’t blame slavery for anybody’s bad behavior in 2019. I want to be clear about that.

    I grew up in a fairly peaceful, pleasant Black environment with people of different social classes and I’m happy to say that none of the women closest to me had any hatred for Black men in general. There may have been individual Black men they didn’t like, but none of the women around me ever expressed the idea that men were to be used and discarded or treated like walking ATMs.

    And those women didn’t hesitate to judge other women for what they considered scandalous behavior.

    1. I would like to clarify just one thing here: I wasn’t generalizing about all black women.

      What I meant by it (for a lack of a better expression) was a certain category of black hookers that overcharge you. Most of them are from African countries and have a habit of scamming their customers.

      It’s just that as a male client, your chances of being ripped off by a black prostitute are much higher compared to a white hooker from Russia or even a Thai hooker from Bangkok.

      I did not mean regular family-oriented African-American women. For example, Michelle Obama has been a very good wife. She brought out the best in her husband.

      The previous discussion was mostly in regards to hookers and women of questionable morals.

      1. Yep there’s that lousy group of Blacks again. It’s not ghetto culture. It’s more African Black culture and in my opinion, a lot of African Black culture is seriously messed up.

        Yeah, this is what I thought. Even the hookers are worse. Black whores are lousy. However, I have some friends who have fucked Black whores. They’ve even fucked them right off the streets! Some of those women didn’t act real great, but none of them actually stole from my friends. However, two of my friends got gonorrhea from Black street hookers. They both caught it from blowjobs! Those hookers had gonorrhea of the throat! Yes, it grows in there.

        Black street whores are pretty lowly even in terms of prostitutes, and I guess they simply don’t mind their health or go to the doctor enough.

    2. That’s great to hear! You are right, there is a diversity of Black communities in America. And some of those small towns in the South where Alpha grew up have a very interesting and quite functional Black culture that resembles nothing that folks out West have ever seen. Religion is a big part of it and it keeps people acting pretty good. I am just now learning about this culture but I did see some of it for the first time when I was in Atlanta a while back.

      This problem I discussed is a serious matter in a particular or some certain types of Black cultures. We all know what some of those cultures look like. This behavior effects a lot of people, so we should discuss it. Besides, do Black people really want to have these fucked up subcultures rampant in their communities? I mean even if you are not a part of it…I dunno.

      I’m not here to fix Black people or certain Black cultures. I don’t think it’s even the responsibility of other Blacks like Alpha to try to fix these cultures. They can if they want to, but there’s no obligation. Alpha and the other Blacks on this site are not part of these lousy Black cultures. They are part of other Black subculture(s) that may be dramatically more healthy.

      For instance, there are certain White cultures now that have some extremely pathological elements in them. I am thinking of small towns and small cities in the Rust Belt. Something has gone horribly wrong there. I looks to me like cultural collapse.

      Nonetheless, there are still many high-functioning people in these cultures. The problem again is that there are too many people acting bad and they are acting pretty damn bad. Even if it’s a minority, it’s still a thing and an issue.

  2. However, two of my friends got gonorrhea from Black street hookers

    That’s awful. Should be going for non-penetrative sex if you’re gonna go for a disease-ridden hooker.

    Some of them especially the Asian girls appreciate NP. You can touch and kiss them as much you want (I even avoid mouth to mouth). They’ll give you a nice and sensitive hand job. No condoms need be used.

    However, the Arab and Persian type hookers will be really pissed at you if you don’t penetrate them. They’re getting paid but still expect penetration as part of the deal. If you can’t do it, she’ll insult your manhood and curse your family.

    I had hired a hooker from Azerbaijan. She was really miffed at me for avoiding penetration. She perceived it as an insult “you dog, you think I have AIDS. Fuck you.” I was like: “Quiet, I paid for your company. And I’m not going to penetrate you. You have no choice on this.”

    She bitch slapped me out of frustration and kept pleading me to fuck her properly. I was having none of it. God knows her cunt was far too stretched for a relatively young age.

    The Romanian. Bulgarian, Czech and Russian whores are far gentle beings. But still whores with possible diseases. NP all the way.

    I break my NP rule with whores from time to time.

  3. A common scam is inviting you to a hotel room where her pimp waits and robs you.

    As with Indian whores in India. It’s a very common scam here but at least the pimp will let you fuck her. They’re after your wallet and valuables but you’re entitled to at least one round of shitty sex before they reveal their true intentions.

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