I refuse to call myself goodlooking because I think that is bragging and I think we cannot be subjective about such things. But if you want to ask me, of course I have thought I was goodlooking for a long time, especially when young. I used to envy that handsome devil in the mirror.
I don’t think any of us can properly judge our looks. A homely person could think they are a 10. A beautiful woman could think they are a 1. How do you know you are goodlooking? Trust me when you get to a certain level of handsomeness, people will be remarking on it all the time. If you are not enough, they will do son in awestruck terms, often shaking their heads or acting like their jaw fell out like they can’t believe how goodlooking you are.
That’s how people used to act around me. So if people are telling you that you are handsome or goodlooking, you are. I have no idea what average to homely men get told. I seriously doubt if homely men get told they are the handsomest men on Earth and I doubt if average looking men do either.
But face it, ~60% of men are average to homely. That’s most men. That means average to homely looks are normal. It’s normal to look that way. There’s nothing wrong with average. Most people are average. Face it. There’s nothing wrong with being told you are average looking! It means are you are as handsome or more handsome than most men!
If you are goodlooking, always refer to it as “other people say I am goodlooking.” Put it down to other people. That’s not bragging. It’s bragging if you say it yourself and I wouldn’t say that too much if at all. I don’t.
Go ahead and put it on your dating profile though. So what! It’s an advertisement for yourself. You are competing with all the other men. Throw it all out there.