Success literally breeds success with women. I have never married and this brings up inevitable questions. Single men are widely regarded as losers or possible losers in our society, so be careful how you answer this question. Carefully craft your answer, try it out a few times to see how it goes over, and modify it in the future after you see which parts work and which don’t
The only reasons are you were married to your job, you had long common law marriages, you are a pathetic incel who can’t get laid, you are such a loser that no woman keeps you around even if they can get you, or you are a player or playboy.
I am fortunate enough to play the latter role, and actually it is permissible to be unmarried at any age if you are a playboy. Some women will hate it, but a lot of others won’t. They usually want to know some sexual history.
I say, “Well I’ve never married, but I have had girlfriends off and on my whole life, so I lived like a married man most of my life. I’ve dated maybe 200 women and girls in my life. I just never married any of them is all. Women and girls love and won’t leave me alone.”
All of these are true except the last one nowadays, but it’s true historically, so so what. Most women think “playboy” is a valid reason to never marry or be single at any age. That is the one exception they make for single men.
If you have a high lay count, especially in the three figures, don’t reveal it or do so only very casually and obliquely. If she asks, just tell her. She might leave because you’re a male whore, but more often, it will make really horny and she will want to jump you on the spot.
Don’t brag; act like it’s nothing or even like you are slightly ashamed of it (humble brag). Or give your lay count like you are describing drinking a glass of water. As long as you are not saying it in a bragging way, this will just peak people’s interest.
Also it’s rather funny. Playboys are hilarious for some reason. Females 8 to 80 think they are the funniest thing around. Most males 8 to 80 think they are even more hilarious. This new feminist attitude that players are evil scum is new, and all down through history these men have been treated like hilarious heroes.
Females love studs. They love men who get women. My mother said, “Well they see him with other women and they think, ‘Hmmm what’s he got? He must be special if these other women like him.” My mother also said, “Women like men who like women but they also love men who other women like.” They see you with different women and they think, “Wow women really love this guy! He must be something hot.”
They don’t have much of a chance with playboys, but it turns them on anyway. And the more women you get, the more news ones will come knocking at your door.
On the other hand, remember that with each new woman you have reformed your evil playboy ways and now you are on the straight and narrow and dedicated to monogamy. Or something. Or something close to that. Never say you are incapable of monogamy even if it’s true. If you have had any long lasting relationships (over 6 months), talk about them and play them up, especially if they lasted 1-2 years. 3 years is even better. 5 or 6 years is fantastic.
This will show her that you actually do stick around for a while with some women because this is probably what she wants. If you believe in love and have been in love before, tell her and tell her how much you love to be in love, how sex is better with love, etc. Describe some of your past love affairs as if you were talking about a Hollywood movie or Romeo and Juliet – the ultimate love affair of the century.
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