Women say they dislike nice guys because “they are not really nice.” They claim that nice guys are only pretending to be nice so they can have sex with the women they are cozying up to. This laughable. Feminists are surprised by this? That men would befriend women in the hopes of somehow bedding them? No kidding, feminists! Of course that’s why we befriend women! Why else would we make friends with women, you fools?
You think bad boys are any nicer about it? Many of them are out an out harassers, assaulters and more or less rapists. But it’s those fake nice guys we need to hate on!
Let’s say the idiot feminists are right and women really do reject nice guys because “they’re not really all that nice” – in other words, because they are secretly mean, abusive bastards.
If women did reject nice guys for being secretly mean, why then do women flock to men who are far more vicious, violent and abusive like criminals, thugs, gangbangers, sociopaths, murderers, convicts, and even serial killers? I mean how bad could nice guys be? However bad they are deep down inside (dubious), they could not possibly be as bad as the sociopaths above.
So women reject nice guys for being secretly mean, but they flock to out and out evil men who are 10X meaner than nice guys even on a good day. That makes no sense at all. As usual, the feminist analysis is flat out wrong.
As a former nice guy, I can tell you straight up what women dislike about nice guys. In a word, they think they are pussies, sissies, girls, wimps, etc. They’re not men. They’re not masculine enough. “He’s too nice” means he’s a great big fat wimp. She rejects the nice guy who treats her well because he’s wimpy, and she goes for the bad boy who treats her terribly because he’s masculine.
As you can see, women are punishing the men who treat them well and rewarding the men who treat them the worst. Feminism is absolutely blind to this frankly insane characteristic of women. Instead of discussing it, it’s all handwaved away as a big fat misogynistic lie. But any man who has dated women knows differently.
I think part of the problem is that nice guys won’t fight back and often won’t take the initiative.
To be successful with women, you need to take the initiative.
And you definitely need to fight back against your woman when she attacks you, which she is doomed to do fairly regularly no matter what.
Nice guys sit there and take it because they are pussy-whipped. They are afraid that if they stand up to her, she will pull the sex. He needs the sex, so he doesn’t fight back in order to keep the sex around.
Yet the fact that he won’t fight back makes her furious because she sees him as a wimp. Women hate wimps and this is another thing that feminism refuses to discuss and handwaves away as a misogynist lie. Most straight women are also wildly homophobic, at least about the men they date. Feminism lies about this too and insists it is a misogynist lie. If you want to know why men are so homophobic, it’s because their girlfriends demand it.
Treat her well but stand up to her and fight back, even viciously but preferably verbally and not physically. This seems to be the best combination where you are not too much of a a nice guy and yet just enough of a bad boy to be alluring but not evil or abusive.
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Yeah, don’t take crap off of women – but that doesn’t equal becoming over-masculine.