PUA/Game: The Enigma of the Womanizer

This is another old one that fits in well with the current theme of the site. It was quite popular.

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I am convinced that in most females of all ages, even in the coldest and hardest of broken of hardened female hearts, there is a tiny section set aside for The Man with the Golden Sperm.

Yes! Well, of course. You can’t hate these guys too much. There’s no compromising success. I haven’t noticed in my life that these types are hated very much. Most people think they’re hilarious. When we were growing up, even grandmas and grandpas used to laugh their asses off at the Olympian antics of the local womanizers. Even little girls, 10 and 11 years old, thought there was something amazing about them. And they’re more popular with women than you think.

Supposedly all women hate these guys as users or predators, but in my life, all I ever noticed is that they have females around them all the time, and that they seem to be much loved by women.These are the men that the women love. Women don’t seem to be bothered by their antics either. If you bring up their womanizing, most women just bust out laughing and almost fall on the floor from laughing so hard. What is there about the Champion Womanizer that makes him so hilarious?

The womanizer, or, as I call him in his most notorious formation, The Man with the Golden Sperm, is a strange fellow. Much of what you hear about him are lies, and he is poorly understood. It’s said that he hates women and is secretly gay, but I am convinced that this is nonsense.

Womanizers love women. They really, really, really love women. I think most guys don’t really like women that much. Well, they like them, but not like the womanizer does. When it comes down to it, your man’s man would rather hang out with the guys. A lot of other guys are sort of scared of women or never got that comfortable around them, including married men.

Further, the more masculine a guy is, the more alienated and disturbed he is by typical feminine behavior, and the more he finds it offensive in men and silly and nonsensical in women. So in highly machismo cultures like Latin America and Arabia you also find a lot of misogyny, and when the guys want to hang out, they hang out with guys. When the girls want to hang out, they hang out with girls.

In order for a guy to hang out with the ladies, he has to respect femininity and the female nature on some basic level. Machismo is all about contempt for femininity in oneself, other males and frankly in general.

The womanizer on the other hand, while definitely a masculine guy in a way, likes women so much that most of his friends are women.

The most notorious ones I knew had women coming and going all the time, seemingly all day and all night, like some kind of weird sexual revolving door. The phone was always ringing, and there was often a woman on the end of the line. I would go out with these guys, and females would go into hypnotized stares just being in the presence of this guy, this Man With the Golden Sperm.

Many of their friends were females, and their female friends were always vicariously fucking the womanizer via fixing their friends up with him.

So let us put to rest once and for all the notion that the womanizer hates women. Quite the opposite. He’s addicted to them, in some ways the way an addict is to dope. He can’t get enough of them. He’s drowning in a sea of females. It’s true that womanizers don’t treat women very well, but I would argue that that doesn’t mean that they hate them. They don’t treat them well, but they still really love them. Does that make sense?

Most of the most notorious womanizers I have ever known, including yours truly back in the day (Not so much these days, unfortunately!), were somewhat androgynous guys. They were not full-on macho man’s man types.

I think part of the success of the womanizer is that he likes women so much because he has so much in common with them. And strangely, it is the fact that the womanizer is “in touch with his female side” that makes women so attracted to him.

No, they are not having lesbian sex with a girl with a dick. But he is sort of one of the girls in a bit of a strange way, but then he’s not either, he really is a man, and you better believe it. He’s definitely a sexual threat since he has a cock and knows how to use it, but then again he’s not because he’s so approachable.

The most notorious ones I knew were always being approached by females. Females were always touching them, walking up to them and sitting on their laps, walking close to them, grabbing them, teasing them. If you asked them why they did that, they would say, “He’s just so…approachable.” Other guys would watch with their mouths open and ask, “How the Hell do you do it, man?”

Some womanizers are even soft, sensitive and androgynous in bed, and females actually like this. Females who had sex with these guys tell me that it was a weird experience, and sometimes they almost felt like they were having sex with another woman! But nevertheless they loved it anyway.

And some of these guys have confessed to me that when they had sex with females, they felt like a woman having sex with another woman, like a lesbian with a dick. They said it was a weird feeling, but if the chick is young and beautiful, hey, the sex is still great anyway.

As far as whether the womanizer is an “asshole who uses women” as the line goes, it’s hard to say.

Most of the real notorious ones I knew had it made. Women basically approached them all the time. They barely even had to try, and when they did, their approaches were quite welcome. It isn’t so much that these guys are chasing women, but that in many cases, females are chasing them.

Sure he goes through women like underwear, and I’m sure there is some resentment on the part of the women, but not as much as you think. A lot of the females seemed to be delighted to play along and put a notch in their belt by bagging The Man with the Golden Sperm.

Although resentment was evident in former girlfriends of these guys, you could tell that the females still sort of loved them in a way. How could they not?

I am convinced that in most females of all ages, even in the coldest and hardest of broken of hardened female hearts, there is a tiny section set aside for The Man with the Golden Sperm.

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  1. The womanizer, or, as I call him in his most notorious formation, The Man with the Golden Sperm.

    Gee….thanks. More than 100 notches in the bed post, really love myself for coming this far. But I’m in a steady relationship now after all these years. And loving every moment of it.

    My longest relationship, however, lasted only 2 years. So don’t know if I’d slip into player mode again.

    When we were growing up, even grandmas and grandpas used to laugh their asses off at the Olympian antics of the local womanizers. Even little girls, 10 and 11 years old, thought there was something amazing about them. And they’re more popular with women than you think.

    Supposedly all women hate these guys as users or predators, but in my life, all I ever noticed is that they have females around them all the time, and that they seem to be much loved by women.These are the men that the women love. Women don’t seem to be bothered by their antics either. If you bring up their womanizing, most women just bust out laughing and almost fall on the floor from laughing so hard.

    I’m more of a late bloomer, was never shy but generally reserved around women when coming up. I was a good student and spent most of my time in studies and hanging out with mostly male friends. As a kid, girls did find me cute and would kiss me on the cheeks etc (I hated kissing, even today the idea of exchanging saliva with girls makes me sick). I had a girlfriend in Grade 7 but that it was such a pure, sweet and innocent thing. Would never have something like that for the rest of my life.

    When I turned 19, I lost my virginity to a junior in my college. We were on an academic-sponsored road trip somewhere in Western India and she was kinda “more experienced” on these matters. The first time it happened, I felt a bit violated, she enjoyed it much more than I did. In hindsight, I’m grateful to that girl for “showing me the ropes” around women. It really helped me a lot in the long run.

    At age 22, I took my first overseas vacation in Thailand. I guess that’s the country where I really came of age, transforming from a boy to a man. And none of that lady boy shit before someone brings it up. I lost my second virginity to a Russian girl from Yekaterinberg who was a licensed tourism coordinator for Aeroflot, Russia’s national airline. That was the first time like I had truly enjoyed sex in life. She was a brunette with olive-green eyes, was a tourism coordinator from Yekaterinburg.

    Later I went on to meet more Russian women in my life, even traveled to Uzbekistan for a vacation which is ethnically like 30% Russian and such a pervert’s paradise. Girls were like angels, One of the best times I ever had except that I came close to being kidnapped by “Taliban type” fundies – Uzebekistan’s a shithole but the women more than compensate for it, tempting you to take risks with your life.

    Of course, the best times I ever had in my life with women was in Europe. Went there twice in last 1 year alone. Can now add Polish, Romanian, Czech-o-Slovak, French, German, Bulgarian, Romanian, Spanish, Italian (and possibly Slovenian) girls to my count of bedpost notches. Here’s the breakdown – 8 Polish girls, 6 Romanians, 6 Czech-o-Slovaks and 4 French, 2 German, 2 Bulgarian, 2 Romanian, 1 Italian. Oh, 1 each from England, Australia and USA as well. Only reason count is low for these countries because I haven’t traveled to these places yet.

    Really sorry if I sound like a braggart but there’s no other way to restate this truth, my dick has experienced pussies from all around the world…it’s like competing in some kind of Olympics.

    And some of these guys have confessed to me that when they had sex with females, they felt like a woman having sex with another woman, like a lesbian with a dick.

    Not really. Never felt like that. I’m not scrawny but not very macho either. During sex, however, I transform into the ‘manliest of men’ FORCING myself on her, using her in the ROUGHEST manner possible (nothing to do with rape fantasies, just the way I project myself). All women so far have loved this side of me.

    Most of the real notorious ones I knew had it made. Women basically approached them all the time. They barely even had to try, and when they did, their approaches were quite welcome. It isn’t so much that these guys are chasing women, but that in many cases, females are chasing them.

    More than 80% of the time I make the first move. Even if a girl lacks interest in me initially, I can always concentrate on her later, I really love working on long-term “projects”. Making a killer first impression is not important to me although it does happen quite often.

    And yes, even though not ugly, I’m NOT a particularly good-looking guy. I do get a LOT of rejections for not being good-looking enough but it doesn’t affect my game at all, the key is to let rejections roll off you like water off a ducks back. Keep moving on to the next target.

  2. You most certainly do have a lot of potential to do well in the future, provided that you can avoid taking any rash action to derail your steady progress. I fear for you on that count.

  3. You really need to lighten up, friend. Many men have had bad experiences with women just the same way many women have had bad experiences with men. IT REALLY CUTS BOTH WAYS. No-one’s virtuous here. Stop treating women as distinct creatures, each one is a person and individual in their own right. Women are beautiful creatures who make your life beautiful in an incredible number of ways.

    I guess you’re still very young, high time to change this woman-hating attitude. I have a feeling that it’s not the true you and you’re just trolling a bit to provoke debate. You can always enjoy a great career and an amazing future but having a beautiful woman to share your happiness makes you more even happier. I wish you all the best, an angel will walk into your life soon 🙂

    1. Please list all of the ways females can make your life better, SHI

      Assuming you’re very young, I’m hardly surprised by such a lame question. This attitude is not yours alone but reflects the problem of an entire generation. MILLENNIALS and POST-MILLENNIALS like you have lost the meaning and value of relationships. You just don’t quite “get” it.

      Basically, you were the generation that got raised on a junk food diet of iPhones, Facebook, e-cigarettes, instant pornography, reality TV, Justin Bieber, The Kardashians and douchebag movies like “Entourage”. All this has seriously hampered your ability in sharing your life with others (it’s always “me, “me”, “me” – “fuck everyone else” with you guys), to understand the value of self-sacrifice and finding a deeper meaning and sense of purpose. University degrees and jobs don’t really count.

      By the way, I have an engineering degree from a prestigious college. In the past, I had worked with leading multinational corporations (although I’m unemployed presently). I don’t really give a shit, none of the jobs, degrees or bling bling DEFINES who I am. My life has been a great adventure so far, and I really love it just the way it is. I take each day as it comes and you could shove all your fucking iPhones, plasma TV screens and expensive Master degrees where the sun don’t shine, I still wouldn’t trade places with you selfish millennials.

      I really pity you and your generation for missing out on so much in life and being such stick-in-the-muds, damn!

      But I don’t really blame you for being the way you are, I mean you didn’t know any better, you just had the misfortune to be raised in the 2000s.

      If I die tomorrow itself, I’ll die a real content and satisfied man.

      Class dismissed, kid.

    2. If I die tomorrow itself, I’ll die a real content and satisfied man.

      Only the violent struggle of the discontent will move history forward.

  4. So the key to O.J. Simpson’s sucess with women was that he was
    an effet man? Women could detect his innate sensativity and
    “femaleness?” O.J. was born under the sign of Cancer.
    How about Elvis? The girls went for him. He was born in the
    Chinese year of the Dog. Dogs are squeemish about sex.
    Elvis was briefly connected to Natlie Wood. She was born in the year
    of the voracious Tiger. Tiger gals can never get enough. Elvis was
    too reticent to screw her. When she was at Graceland, she asked
    Elvis’ entourage, “What’s a matter with your boss? Doesn’t he know how
    to fuck?” Elvis would get a girl excited, she would scream “Take me!”
    He’d hand her off to his entourage, and they’d close the deal.
    When Natlie got done fucking all of Elvis’ hired hands, she departed
    and said, “Anytime!”
    Micheal Jackson was also born in the year of the Dog. We all know
    about Jackson and sex. Elvis was “King of Rock.” Jackson was “King
    of Pop.” They were both connected through his daughter which Jackson
    was married to for about two seconds.
    Yes, my friends, you can disgard all your fancy theories. Astrology
    Eastern and Western tells us why some people are babe magnets
    and why people born in the year of the Dog, like myself will die virgins.

  5. Seems to be a contradiction here. It’s said jackass woman hating dip-shits are what women desire. Now it’s being said mildly “metro-sexual” womanizers are getting all the chicks.

  6. I don’t believe womanizers love women more than any other men. I’d say you couldn’t be a womanizer without being emotionally cold to some extent. These guys usually have dark triad traits to some extent. Womanizers are simply men with a sex addiction. And perhaps a sexual variety addiction as well. I’m at the point where I no long understand dudes who dedicate their entire life to chasing new pussy. At the end of the day it’s just a slimy pink hole. You don’t need it 3x a day for survival. I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, but there’s much more to life than ejaculating. I know some guys like that. You can’t even have a normal conversation with them. All they want to talk about is sex, endlessly.

    1. I am not sure if they love women more than other guys do because I am not sure how much your average guy loves women.

      There are two different kinds of womanizers:

      1. Misogynist womanizers. Well you see them all over the PUA sites, the Manosphere, the Red Pill sites. If these guys like women, they sure don’t like it. They talk about them in very unflattering terms and they often say that the only way to get along with women is treat them like shit, beat them up, hit them, etc. A lot of them are practically rapists.
      2. Woman-loving womanizers. These guys really really love women. Now whether they love them more than ordinary guys, I have no idea. But how many ordinary guys prefer to hang around females all the time? Most of them? Wouldn’t most guys prefer to hang around guys. This type of womanizer is like women’s gay friends except they are not gay. They talk to women about woman thins like makeup and clothes, they watch women’s TV shows like fashion and cooking shows, they read women’s magazines. If you didn’t know better, you would think they were faggots. Except they’re not.

      My Mom said, “Well there are two kinds. One kind hates women, but the other kind really, really loves women. They really like them. They don’t treat them very well, but they do love them.”

      My Mom is right about most stuff because her opinion is that of the wisdom of ages before feminist propaganda warped everyone’s minds.

      1. They love women
        but
      2. They don’t treat them very well.

      I am not sure that that makes sense, but that’s how it works.

  7. In general basically…Men who have a positive experience with women love women. And men who have a negative experience are either misogynistic or very naive about them.
    Who would have guessed.

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