Friendzone Game is very hard to run and you have to be very skilled to run it. When I was a much younger man, say around 18, I was getting friendzoned all the time and usually staying there, and it was very painful for me, so I sympathize with men who get friendzoned. It can be quite humiliating especially if you have nothing else going on. It’s like dangling food in front of a starving man and telling him he can’t eat it.
Friendzone Game works like this. You either make a play on the women or you don’t. This depends on a lot of things. Marital status is one. I had a Lit class at university. On about the 3rd class session, I made friends with three of the best looking women in the class. The class was almost all women with only a few guys and as you might expect, the guys were pretty wimpy and lame. I cam out of class and saw those three walking together and came up to them. They said to each other, “Who’s he? Hey, let’s make friends with this guy!” So I made friends with them and after every class, we would go have lunch. I was 22. They were 27, 28, and 35. The 27 and 35 year old were married and the 28 year old was in a long term relationship with a man she lived with. Since they were all married or cohabiting, I pretty much left them alone from the start. Why pester them? They’re married women! Leave them the Hell alone! If they want to have affairs, let them, but it’s pretty sleazy to try to pick up on married women or try to convince them to cheat on their husbands. A lot of them will cheat all right, you better believe it, but they will cheat when they want to, not when you want them to. Just leave it in their hands is the best way to do it.
Well there was a lot of sexual energy at the table of course but there was not a lot of overt sexual talk. One woman kept grabbing my body. She said I made her feel so relaxed and comfortable that she just wanted to grab me. I put up with it for a while, but then I started getting mad because it was just bullshit teasing. Don’t tease me if you don’t want to follow through. I would grab her back and she would try to stop me. One time she said, “Well you sure are skinny…” in a contemptuous, emasculating sort of way. If you are a thin guy, you are just going to have to deal with this because you are going to hear this from time to time from women. I said, “Shut up cunt!” She flinched back and started whimpering like a puppy, “You macho pig,” she whimpered. The other women looked at me like, “Whoa! I can’t believe you just called her that!” They acted sort of outraged but they also acted like they liked.
This was I just let all three of these women go ahead and friendzone me. They all had partners anyway. Why be a dick and pressure partnered women to cheat on their partners? What for? So I just laid back, let them take charge and acted like I could care less that I was friendzoned and I could give a damn whether I ever had sex with any of them. This seems to make women very intrigued and I suppose it is abundance mentality. What is interesting is that quite a bit of the time if you act like you could care less you just got friendzoned and you could give a damn whether you have sex with a woman or not, this really peeks her interest because you are not a desperate, horny pathetic idiot like most guys. You display high value by acting aloof about what happens between you two.
Anyway, by the end of the semester, I had had sex with both of the married women. With one it was an ongoing thing (I wrote papers for her and she paid me with sex) and with the other one, it was a one-time deal. But we still played tennis a lot. I didn’t have sex with the cohabiting one, but I don’t think she wanted to cheat on him anyway. But we did do a huge drug deal with 1,000 Quaaludes.
This has happened to me a few times recently. I had made friends with some women and I became friends with them again after long splits. The first thing I said was, “Hey look, I know you just want to be friends ok, so don’t think I am trying for anything sexual from you, ok? I don’t want to make you angry like that.” They both said, “Oh no, don’t worry about that. It’s fine. Then I pretty much laid off both of them. I talked about sex with them but only in a detached, clinical way. I never implied that I wanted to do it with her. I did complement them on their beauty a few times because they were beautiful and deserved it. I was a great friend to both of them and listened to all of their trials and tribulations without asking for or implying a desire for anything in return.
Within 1-2 months, both of them started openly propostioning me for sex.
So there’s Friendzone Game. Act like you don’t care. If she says let’s just be friends, maybe laugh at her. Or respect it very earnestly. Mostly act like you could care less whether you stay friends or whether you have sex. You don’t care. You’re above all of that. You don’t even need sex, at least not with her. The implication is maybe you are getting all you need elsewhere which implies abundance mentality. Also women are fascinated by men who in a non-wimpy way act like they could care less if they have sex with them or not. You’re not desperate like most men. You’re not pestering her like most men. You have the power and strength to stay aloof and it seems like you are laughing at her ability to attract you sexually because you act like it has no effect on you.
I am not sure how it works, but I think quite a few women see these men as seduction challenges. They are also mysterious, intriguing, and fascinating and they are actually projecting a tremendous amount of strength – the strength to rise above her sexual powers ensnare most men.
I am still trying to figure out how I do this. Anyway, I really don’t mind being Friendzoned because quite a few times anywhere from months to even years later, the woman who friendzoned me tries to seduce me.
I am not sure how Friendzone Game works if you are not Chad. Apparently I am Chad or at least used to be. And I am not sure how it works if you lack Game. But if you are Chad with great Game, it can work quite well. Chad + Game + Money/Power/Status/Fame would probably be even better.