I am not going to debate whether I was good-looking or not as a young man. Obviously I have my own opinion, but my opinion of my looks is worthless. The only thing that matters looks-wise is how others see you.
It’s not something to be endlessly debated with yourself and others: “Am I good-looking or not?” It is not something for you to decide. It is something for others to decide. If you are, lots of females, gay and bisexual men and even straight men will let you know right to your face, trust me.
I was told at the time that I looked like Tom Hanks and Rick Springfield.
As far as slaying or being a PUA, I started to get a pretty big ego with regard to females when I was about 18. And then I started having a lot of success somehow. I am not even sure how it happened.
We would be sitting at a table in the library studying at junior college, and women at the table would look at me, sort of freeze, put down their work, get up from their seat, walk right over to me, give me a big smile and sit right down in my lap! Guys at the table would freeze in shock, look at me, shake their heads and say, “How do you do it? “How do you do it? I will never understand this.”
Thing is I don’t even know how I did it myself! I am not sure why women were always sitting on my lap, but possibly I was “approachable” and “open.” If you want advice, I would just say, “Be approachable.” I would also say “open yourself up” to females. You can either “close your body off” or “open your body up” to other humans, and I am not even sure how that is done! It is almost metaphysical. You just have to try to do it and see what happens.
More good advice would be: “make females feel comfortable around you.”
I have had women say, “You make me feel so comfortable to be around you! You make me relax so much. And you are open too. I just want to grab you every time I see you.”
Well, with increased success came more success. It was like every new female I slayed just made this Stud or Slayer or whatever persona even greater.
I haven’t the faintest idea if I am Alpha or not, and I could care less if I am or was at any time. Whether or not you are Alpha is best seen as “not an important question.”
I never use the word Alpha to refer to myself, and I think most men in general should not call themselves Alphas. I think it is tacky. Alpha is like good-looking. You’re only good-looking if others think you are. If people think you are Alpha, then you’re Alpha.
I think most real true Alphas would rarely if ever say, “I’m an Alpha!” Someone might ask them, “Are you Alpha?” and the real pure Alpha would shrug his shoulders and ask back, “I dunno. Do you think I’m Alpha?” The questioner says, “Hell yeah, Chad! You are the Alphamost of the Alphiest of the Alpha Alpha Alphas!”
And then the pure Alpha would laugh and shrug his shoulders and say, “Ok, well I guess I am an Alpha then. If you say so.”
All these guys running around on PUA forums yelling, “I am Alpha!” are the biggest dickwads. I have no idea if they are Alphas or not, but if they are, they are not very good ones.
I reiterate that the real pure Alpha would rarely if ever say something stupid like, “I am Alpha.” He might just figure it was obvious and need not be said. Some things are best demonstrated by showing, not telling.
Anyway, it was like an expanding head. And with each new female, as that head expands a bit more, you start attracting a few more females.
There are Slayer levels like levels in videogames, ok? I know that sounds nuts, but I am serious. For instance say your head is at Slayer +5. Ok, you are attracting some women. So then you slay some more, now you are at Slayer +10. And now you attract even more females than you did at Slayer +5. And with each new step from +5 to +10, you attract a few more females. Well, this process just builds and builds, and I am not even sure there is any end to it. It is almost frightening the way it just keeps expanding with no end in sight.
Pretty soon your head or Slayer Persona is so huge it almost has its own orbit, and now you are attracting females almost everywhere you go. I mean the gas station, the liquor store, driving down the street, at school, at work – everywhere – you literally cannot escape them. It is like you are walking honey, and females are bees or like you are a giving off some magic scent that attracts them. You become actually a literal chick magnet. It almost gets scary or annoying sometimes, and sometimes you want to hide inside just to avoid females.
As you get a Slayer reputation, of course you accumulate a lot of exes saying you’re the scum of the Earth and despising you, but even they usually do not hate you 100%, and when they tear you apart, you can often see this odd little smile on their face.
But also you get a good reputation, and now you have these new females who incredibly enough want to get in on the action with the Slayer dude, even though he’s not boyfriend material, it’s obvious that it won’t lead anywhere, and he’s totally unreliable. They don’t even really care if they get pump and dumped! They could care less! It never got to the point where they were lining up and literally taking numbers to have sex with me, but it was like that for some of my friends.
Let us take one guy named SP. I mean they were practically lining up and taking numbers just to get pump and dumped by SP. And after getting pump and dumped, they would walk out with this huge smile on their face like, “Wow I just had sex with the Biggest Slayer in Town, SP!” Like they got a medal or something. You had to see it to believe it, it was incredible.
So I guess all this boils down to Game. The Game idiots are complete tards because they think they have invented some new thing.
Game has been around forever. There is a famous book in Latin called On Love, and really it should be called How to Pick up Girls n Rome AD 100. Men have been perfecting this stuff forever.
We were all running Game in the 1970’s and 1980’s even though we did not call it that or realize it. I idolized some Ultra-Slayers and became best friends with them. These dudes like SP would literally date like 3-4 females every day. A morning date, an afternoon date, an evening date and then a midnight date. And SP would have sex with every single one of them! He was simply incredible.
So I made these guys like SP my gurus, and I actually become very good friends with SP, and when you hang out with SP, the pussy literally drops in your lap. I studied these guys very carefully.
All of these guys had systems. For instance, SP had the craziest, most elaborate Game systems I have ever seen in my entire life. He probably had like 100 different Game systems, they were all quite complex, and frequently he seemed to be running multiple systems at once almost like it was a big game to him, which I suppose it was.
This SP guy was literally the most calculating fucker I have ever known. He calculated every single thing he said and did. He was not spontaneous at all. I think spontaneity is idiocy, personally. If you are spontaneous, and you are just going to say and do the wrong thing too many times. It’s not worth it to be “free.”
All these guys have systems. Casanova and Don Juan had systems. You can’t even slay unless you have a system. So really all slayers are running Game because you have to run Game to slay.
Well, with SP, I studied him so carefully that I would try to literally become SP. I would go into “SP mode,” and I would seem to turn into him and channel his personality. I had his voice down pat, and I would use it on females. I would call up some chick I just met using my SP voice, and she would say, “Hey, my roommate says you have a sexy voice…”
The voice I used was usually pretty soft. A lot of people could hardly hear me, and I had to repeat stuff a lot. You do not need a strong, masculine, powerful voice at all.
Also you do not have to be built. I was never built. I was always pretty skinny. Women say they hate skinny guys, but if you are Skinny Chad, they could care less. Women would complain or ever ridicule me for being skinny, but those same ones would usually have sex with me anyway. So this whole “you can’t be skinny” or “you have to have a great built body” thing is nonsense.
So I ran Game. We had different systems of Game.
I ran Surfer Game, Skiier Game, Doper Game, Drug Dealer Game (this one is really good), Delinquent Game (Thug Game?), Criminal Game, Cool Guy Game, Rocker Game, Writer (Artist) Game, Punker Game, Hippie Game, on and on. There is even Slayer Game itself where you simply sit back and let your slayer reputation drive more and more females to you.
I still run Game to this very day. I probably run maybe 5-10 different kinds of Game and often different types at once. It gets to be entertainment after a while, and you can create these new Game types and invent these new personas just for shits and giggles, and then you really have to become almost a method actor and literally turn into that persona, and now you are running the Game of that persona. If you don’t melt completely into the new role like an actor, lose yourself and turn into a new person, you are not really running that particular Game optimally. A skilled guy who has 15 different types of Game he runs is literally becoming 15 completely new human beings with each new Game type he runs.
Unfortunately my Game is worthless now as I am -Looks or Minus Looks. My looks are pretty much gone, and young women in general want nothing to do with me, and probably a lot of older ones do too. But I run Game anyway because now it is just the natural and normal way to be. Even when I am alone, I am off into some other Game persona playing a role like an actor. So I run Game even when I am all alone. In fact, Alone Time is a good time to really work on perfecting whatever Game system you have like an actor practicing a new role.
My basic opinion on this sort of thing?
Looks is worthless without Game, and Game is worthless without Looks. Anyone who says PUA (Game) doesn’t work is a complete tool and moron.
All Slayers run Game! The best Slayers run the finest Game of them all!
I don’t see how you can slay at all without Game. How are you going to slay -Game? I have known guys who had MM looks but zero Game, and they would go years with sex. MM looks -Game is almost worthless.