Men – Ignore Masculinity at Your Own Peril

Homer Simpson writes:

If anything, it’s the women whom are the true gender enforcers, for what they find sexy in men is among the things that keep men behaving as they are. If you step out of line, then you won’t get any, or even get into the friend zone.

I was never really into hardcore masculinity. I was always a soft-spoken, rather androgynous type guy in the good sense of androgyny. After many years of that, I finally figured out that it doesn’t work. I got tired of getting called gay and bi and gay and having bi guys hitting on me. Incredibly enough, I even got gay-bashed a few times! I lost jobs when queer bosses fired me for not sucking their dicks. I got tired of my very own girlfriends accusing me of being gay or bi or neverendingly questioning me about whether I was gay or bi.
I got tired of girlfriends mocking me, laughing in my face, humiliating me, openly cuckolding me and trying to wear the pants. I got tired of being a pussy-whipped idiot.
I always had a deep masculine core, but it was sort of hidden. But anyone with half a brain could always see it pretty fast.
I decided to get a lot more into that masculine core. I actually enjoyed it, because that had always been an important part of my self, even if it wasn’t always out front.
I also got a lot more dominant with my girlfriends in bed and also out of bed. I started cussing out my girlfriends when they misbehaved, and even threatening them sometimes when they attacked my Achilles Heels with “attacks that I never allow anyone to make.”
I started making a lot more decisions. We are going to use this car rental agency. We are going to stay in this motel. We are going to eat at this restaurant. Instead of getting angry, my girlfriends looked relieved.
I figured out that most if not all women and girls want to be dominated in bed and even out of bed to some extent. My girlfriends started acting openly submissive in and even out of bed. Some started calling me Daddy and wanting to play Daddy – teenage daughter sexual age play games with me. They started asking me to play out rape fantasies, which in a couple of cases involved me “breaking into the house,” accosting them and having sex with them “against their will.” After I “raped” them, they would tell me that the sex was incredible.
The sex got a lot wilder and way more more perverted. My girlfriends would get these little girl voices with scared eyes in bed as we wrapped up in each other to go to sleep.
I started fighting with girlfriends a lot more, and the fights got extremely wild and even crazy. My girlfriends fought me harder and dirtier than they ever had. Some started physically assaulting me for the first time, something I had to figure out how to deal with.
My relationships also got a lot more intense and lasted a lot longer. Women fell more deeply and wildly in love with me than they ever had before. Girlfriends started fighting over me and actually threatening each other. I would meet a new woman, tell her I was dating two other women, and immediately she would give me her phone number. Girlfriends started spending a lot of money on me and showering me with gifts. They became insanely jealous of other women and demanded that I be with them only. They acted like guard dogs around me, defending me against the depredations of other women.
For the first time in a while, women started asking me to marry them. This grew more common. There also a lot of requests to move in with women. Women hopped on airplanes to come see me from very long distances. They bought plane tickets for me to some see them thousands of miles away.
Girlfriend A would be over at my house and Girlfriend B would call on the phone. Instead of getting furious Woman A would pick it up, laugh and say, “It’s your wife,” and hand the phone to me. I would be lying in bed Woman A at 11 PM when Woman C would call me on the phone. I would get out of bed and take the call outdoors. When C asked me what I was doing, I would tell her that Woman A was visiting me now and I was in bed with A when C called. Woman C would get visibly excited and start talking dirty to me. I would go back to bed, and A would ask who it was. I would tell her it was Woman C and instead of getting angry, she would start laughing.
I started reading Game blogs and realized that these idiots who I had castigated before were actually right. They were still narcissistic misogynistic shits, but they had actually managed to figure out women.
I started realizing that there was something to this masculinity stuff after all. I got a much more Gender Realist and biological idea of gender, which was endlessly confirmed to me by women in my life.
I realized that all the leftwingers and feminists who had castigated masculinity and played a role in me downplaying it while playing the role of a “modern feminist man” were simply dead wrong, so I trashed the Left and feminist view of sex and gender.
I started realizing that most of us are slaves to Mother Nature and that Mother Nature always bats last.
And once I figured that out for real, as you can see above, my life got a whole lot better.
Men, I do not care how leftwing or feminist you are, you ignore and downplay masculinity at your own risk.
I am warning you.

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0 thoughts on “Men – Ignore Masculinity at Your Own Peril”

  1. Good stuff homer. I remember a time in my life where I was servicing many. They all knew about the others and it became a competition. Asking me all the time if any of the others gave better head. Guess what they always did. This isn’t the whole gender but probably 30 percent. I even had an ocassion or 2 that women a would show up on woman b’s night and ending up staying over anyhow.

  2. Well, this comment may sound strange, and might offend. But one reason someone might think someone is gay, is cause they talk about masculinity, gayness, femininity all the time. If a guy never talks about this stuff, then girls never think anything strange, like, well, maybe this guy is gay.
    If I spoke about stuff like that in public, people would think things, especially at a college campus which has lots of gays.

    1. I never talked about that stuff. I had an extreme phobia of even discussing male homosexuality because the subject terrified me and as you can see, I had a bad history with that subject. So mostly I just acted like there was no such thing as queers.
      And guys who are androgynous in a normal way never talk about masculinity and femininity in men as they think those concepts are stupid and obsolete and they are trying to get away from all of that.

    2. I think if I guy is funny (I mean not in a queer way HA HA), then chicks can dig that. It breaks the ice, and they don’t care if he has an androgynous demeanor, or hairstyle. However, If I guy is quiet, then it puts them off.

  3. My whole attitude toward this gay paranoia things, is FUCK YOU. I mean really, I’m on a college campus full of gays, so lots of paranoia goes around. But I’m not changing the way I dress, or act, to deter accusations of being gay.

  4. It depends on the person. I have a deep voice and masculine build, and women love my passive and harmless personality.

    1. Probably you are physically manly enough for them to instinctively respect your masculinity. It might not be the same story if you were a weakly chap.

  5. The concept of gender enforcers is a bit redundant if that is what men are naturally like anyway. They are only enforcing what is natural to us and how we want to be.
    So, Robert, you don’t sound androgynous, you sound manly. Did your voice get deeper as you aged? What else about you seemed gay…your mannerisms?

    1. I never figured any of this out. I had some friends who got called that all the time too. They were just very pretty, soft and rather sensitive type guys. None of them were effeminate in any way shape or form. They just weren’t macho is all. In the US, if you’re not macho, you must be gay.
      This “Bob acts gay” shit never made any sense to me. People insisted it was true, but I just could never see it. I do have sort of a fluid way of walking.
      Never seen myself on videotape though. My voice got deeper as I aged, yes.

      1. The same thing happened to me a couple of times when I was younger.
        A group of people said they thought I was a bit on the feminine side. That was completely at odds with my own self image and interests so I was very surprised. My internal dialogue was like: “I like boxing, I’m good at sports, I like women a lot, I definitely look like a male, I think I sound male…WTF…is this true? I don’t get it. Shit, do I have to alter my self-image? Fuck them, they’re wrong. But what if other people think it?” etc etc I think it was for the same reason you said…coming across as kind of nice and sensitive and not feeling any need to act particularly masculine.
        They were the only ones. A cousin also thought I was gay but that was mainly because she hadn’t seen me with a girlfriend at family parties.

  6. I’ve seen a study that showed feminists are more masculine than average women, based on a physical sign of t (relative length of index and ring finger).
    I’ve seen another study which shows that men with more masculine faces were more likely to express racist un-pc opinions. However, they were not more likely to have implicit racists ideas. Thus, less masculine men are more pc and more masculine men more likely to have the courage to say what they think and not be cowed by the social rules. In general, higher t is correlated with rule breaking.

  7. Only so many men can be good at sports. But then again a lot of guys are good at music, and get more pussy than football players.
    QUOTE”A group of people said they thought I was a bit on the feminine side. That was completely at odds with my own self image and interests so I was very surprised. ”
    I don’t have time to care what people think about me at college. A lot of it, is just guys (or sometimes girls) being punk. They have to feel superior to somebody, so they start shit with non-conformists.

    1. Mostly guys who come across as macho, are pricks. That’s how they keep a masculine image, by being an insecure cocksucker. I hate those guys, and could never be like that.

    2. QUOTE”In the US, if you’re not macho, you must be gay. ”
      The point is that people, don’t owe other people stuff. If they don’t like the way people behave, dress or whatnot, then they can “eat shit”.

  8. QUOTE”Probably you are physically manly enough for them to instinctively respect your masculinity. It might not be the same story if you were a weakly chap.”
    I think a big reason guys aren’t getting chicks, is cause of non-conformity, not necessarily cause of weak appearance, or girly behavior.
    I mean, If I had political views like everybody else in the southern USA, I’d have lots of friends, and probably that would lead to lots of money, and women. However, since I don’t go with the flow, then things are tough.
    Also If I smoked cigarettes, and maybe did drugs, then I’d get more chicks. At least, I’d be able to have a social life among losers.

    1. You can use pain pills to become a dealer, then lots of women, including hot ones, would come your way, regardless of appearance, or behavior.

  9. QUOTE”I figured out that most if not all women and girls want to be dominated in bed and even out of bed to some extent. My girlfriends started acting openly submissive in and even out of bed. Some started calling me Daddy and wanting to play Daddy – teenage daughter sexual age play games with me. They started asking me to play out rape fantasies, which in a couple of cases involved me “breaking into the house,” accosting them and having sex with them “against their will.” After I “raped” them, they would tell me that the sex was incredible.”
    This can be dangerous. If they ever change their opinion of you, they could use the “rape” thing against you, and claim they were “raped”, and everybody would believe them. It’s kind of like being a black guy screwing a white women in pre-1960s America.

    1. Men are falling like flies to “child porn” and “molestation” charges, so make sure whatever woman you are with, is above age, and keep a distance from any kids she has, that is, if you want to play this “macho” stuff.

  10. Definitely Asian men hate white men cause white guys are more masculine than they are. Go on Asia Finest forum and see all the venomous racism spewed out.
    As we discussed on here, cause Asian guys are small, they have to act all “tough” all the time. Obviously, though that can be draining, because being that macho 24/7 isn’t natural for most guys. But they have to act like that, cause they’re being threatened by whites, especially whites coming in as English teachers in Asia etc…
    White guys don’t have to act that tough in Asia, cause they’re bigger, exotic etc.., so they even be feminine, and still get chicks.

  11. People are social creatures. They have their good and bad sides, and you have to deal with it. They just don’t seem to change year after year, and it can become a bit frustrating, but that’s part of life.
    I think the whole gay thing is kind of absurd. Your asking people to change the way they are to satisfy peer pressure, when people pretty much are the way they are. The shy are shy, the outgoing are going etc..

    1. So in a sense, my comment about “not caring about what others think” doesn’t really work in the real world. Ultimately, we live in a social world. But people can only change behavior so much, and only so much behavior change is cool, a lot of it is degrading.

  12. There are a lot of women that flat out hunt down an alpha male type because they think it’s the primary breadwinner and they want to feel safe and they want to be owned. So they hook up with alpha male types. Big broad shouldered super-males with big brow ridges, or skinny alpha-nerds with a code book shoved up their a@$, who get what they want out of life with trickery, deceit, social engineering and sometimes even hacking, but the women are correct. Nice guys finish last. Beta males aren’t getting any kind action.
    Many women hardly even want a man to be polite, and will literally cut off every sentence a man says to them unless they’re sexist and rude. Then they play the game of acting all offended and butt hurt about it as if they disliked it and did nothing to provoke it… The use guilt to dig their hooks into a guy and plant all these mines they can set off later to force the guy to have to interface with them. Some women even resort to this to entrap men into staking them so they can collect on the boost to their reputation, get lawsuits etc, or revel in the man’s emotional duress. They actually try to turn men into alpha males so that they can be controlled by them, get an easy meal ticket, and use guilt enforcement to control the man’s alpha male urges and direct them where they want them. Just about every straight woman secretly wants to be taken by force. And you’re always supposed to steal the kiss, but if you don’t argue with her afterwards it’s “Can we just be friends?”. Because ordinarily guys go around hate kissing all day… The mysteries of life never cease to amaze.

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