“Just be yourself.”
If you ask women how to be successful with women, they will always say, idiotically, “Just be yourself.” Great idea except it doesn’t work. If your natural self is a chick magnet, then ok, be yourself, fine.
But if this worked then no one would ever have to learn game, right.
Alpha/Sigma: Top 15% of men. Attractive to many of the females much of the time.
Beta: 70% of men. This is your “normal, regular, everyday guy.” Not that there is anything wrong with that! Attractive to some of the females some of the time.
Omega: Bottom 15% of men. Elliot Rodger. More or less attractive to almost none of the females nearly all of the time.
Now let us assume that all of these guys are just being themselves. What’s the problem with Omegas? The damned problem is that they are just being themselves! When they are “being themselves,” they are acting Omega, period.
Nowadays a lot of Beta guys are trying to figure out how to be Alphas. They feel that being Betas is causing them pain and hardship with females. What is the problem with these Beta guys? The whole damned problem is that they are being themselves! To these guys, being yourself means being Beta. Why are they learning Game? They are learning Game in order to be themselves less, to create a new persona using the techniques of Game.
The fact that women always give us this stupid advice shows me a couple of things:
- Women do not have the foggiest idea of what it means to be a man.
- Women apparently have no real conscious understanding of male-female dynamics and what sort of men women are attracted to, ignore or are repelled by. Why do women have no understanding of the Real World. I believe it is because women to not believe in the Real World.
Females simply prefer to live in Fantasyland from the time they are girls playing Dollhouse through marriage and possibly onward, although older and even elderly women are often have a better understanding of Cold Reality than any other woman. This is probably because when a woman becomes elderly, she really doesn’t need the comfort blanket of fantasy anymore. She’s seen the real world and lived through it and is not afraid to tell it like it is.
Why do females dislike the Real World? Everyone knows that the Real World is a cold, cruel, hard place. Men are cold, cruel and hard anyway, so they just accept this and move on. Women are very sensitive creatures and it’s hard for them to accept a brutal and depressing reality, so they simply say it doesn’t exist.