In response to the Black People Like to Fuck post, tulio notes:
Who the hell doesn’t like to fuck. Isn’t mating nature’s strongest instinct? If we didn’t all get horny and like fucking we’d be extinct eons ago.
First of all the observation of disgusted European explorers was not that Blacks liked to fuck, but they were just too into it and obsessed with it. From Shakespeare’s time on at least, there is a long European intellectual tradition acknowledging that White people do indeed like to fuck.
Actually, lots of people don’t like to fuck. Especially after they get older. It’s a notorious problem in females. ~40% of all females complain of low sex drive. These ladies need some pills! Break out the female Viagra, docs. Do it for the country!
Around age 35, especially after they have had a few kids, a lot of women become sexophobes and start hating sex. The overt sexophobes are most prominent between ages of 35-45. I have met a few of them myself. They openly told me that they did not like sex. All of them were married and had had a few kids. At least one was good looking. Why their husbands put up with this is a mystery.
I had a girlfriend recently who was 50 years old. She told me that all or nearly all of her old friends from high school had recently confessed to her that they never liked sex. They had put up with it with their husbands long enough to have some kids, then they had basically stopped doing it. The only reason they did it was to keep him happy and make some babies. When the kids grew, they more or less quit doing it and felt a lot better. My girlfriend was a sex-lover (At age 50, she even masturbated regularly, which seems odd for that age), and she was mystified and stunned by her friends’ revelations.
It is very common for men to complain of lack of sex, especially after about 7 years of marriage. This is the so called 7 year itch problem dealt with in movies.
Some guys are making women sign pre-nups agreeing to sex 3 times a week or so. At the point the woman is not living up to her duties, he has a right to leave her no problem. The women sign the agreement on the dotted line like good girls. More pre-nups like this!
There are indeed men who do not like sex. A woman I dated had a husband like that. The guy only wanted sex about once a month or so, if that. For the first 6 months of their marriage, it had been non-stop sex, then it all ended. As a result of that and her very high sex drive (confirmed by me in a number controlled experiments), she had been having a series of affairs since the first year of her marriage. The guy had been “molested” by his sister repeatedly as a boy and was seriously fucked in the head as a result, apparently permanently. She still loved the guy, so she would not leave him.