If I want a woman to treat me the way I want to be treated, there are a couple of things I can do. First of all, I need to try to be nice to her, if she deserves it. If she’s being nice to me, I’ll be nice to her. If you want people to be nice to you, be nice to them. That’s a number one rule with men, women, everyone. Second, she ought to make me afraid of her righteous rage. I know quite a few people who I am afraid to open up on, much less even criticize. They get pretty angry at best, or fly into wild rages at worst, often if I merely criticize them. They’ve got me terrorized. I must say that it works. On a more reasonable level, a woman needs to let me know that she will defend herself if I attack her unreasonably. If I am afraid of her righteous self-defensive rage, then this will keep me from giving in to my worst tendencies and picking on her or beating up on her psychologically. If she’s bad, I have a right to get pissed, but this will keep me from acting sadistic, mean or cruel, which unfortunately I can be.
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