I’ve known some record-setting womanizers in my time. Some guys would just amaze you. My friends used to rent a house on the beach in the summer. They had a continuous keg of beer going, and they sold Thai weed all day and nite. That’s when they were not surfing. There was a constant party at the house, with women and girls flowing in and out at all hours. My friend Steve might go through 150-200 women in a single summer. I think he was trying to set a record.
I’ve studied guys like Steve. My conclusion is that these guys genuinely like women. I think most guys don’t like females that much. They’d much rather spend their time with guys. Steve was a very masculine guy, and had guys around all the time, but he also had women around all the time. Most of these guys have no illusions about women. They don’t put them on a pedestal at all. They are well aware of the female, her nature and her limitations and frustrations. But they like them anyway.
Steve hung up on females, called them bitches, on and on. He didn’t put up with any shit from females at all. He was always making them cry. His Mom would say, Steve, she’s crying!” and he’d just grin sheepishly and shrug his shoulders.
Nevertheless, the womanizer doesn’t treat women very well.
So he’s a guy who really loves women, but he doesn’t treat them all that well. Which is sort of weird right there.
I’ve noticed that many of the most notorious womanizers on Earth also have reputations as being horrible misogynists. Which is weird. If they treat women like shit and hate them, why do the masochistic crazies keep coming around?
I finally realized that a lot of these guys have dated hundreds of women and they’ve had sex with hundreds of women (not like me). These guys are drowning in women all the time. They’ve had to deal with so much drama, nuttiness, insanity, etc. that maybe that’s what provoked the misogyny.