A commenter asks why women don’t approach us instead of us approaching them. Well, sometimes it may in fact occur, but it doesn’t very often. If we wait around for women to approach you, we’ll all die virgins.
Women are not going to approach you, at least not very much. They may smile at you or give you some sort of signal that they are approachable, but then we need to do all the work. Just assume that women are never going to approach you, basically, ever. OK?
Now that we have that down, we have to approach the women. We are either going to be idiots and act shy and not talk to them, or we are going to grow a pair and walk up to them and say some stuff.
It may be difficult if you are a reserved person. My Mom is a normal person, but she is sort of shy. I know some other normal but shy people. They are amazed that I walk right up to total strangers and start talking to them. They tell me that they could never do that.
Thing is, that is what you are going to have to do if you want to meet women. You are going to have to start talking to total fucking strangers. It’s not as bad as it seems. You can practice in stores, shops and restaurants with the help. You have to talk to them, and you can easily make a bit of conversation. Talk to the checker in line when you buy your stuff.
If she’s a bitch, fine, just blow the bitch off! So what, so she’s a bitch, big deal. Bitches are like motes of dust, they’re floating around us all the time, and they’re a dime a dozen.*
Thing is, you are going to have to get used to getting knocked down and blown off a lot, but so what, they’re just silly bitches, who cares what they think anyway? Just say fuck her, and go talk to some other one instead.
*This may seem a cold-hearted and misogynistic approach to take, but if you put women on a pedestal and adore them with every inch of your sensitive soul, you’re going to be terribly hurt when they pull the typical stuff that women do to us all day every day if we give them half a chance.
Putting women on an adoration pedestal is a recipe for getting your feelings totally hurt, and turning into a permanently shy around women type. It seems cruel to adopt this apparently misogynistic approach, but that’s the only way you can keep approaching female strangers all the time without getting your soul caved in.