This does not surprise me at all. 25% of British women over age 35 report that they “never” have sex. In Scotland, it’s 38%, but that’s because its’ so damn cold all the time, plus they eat haggis, and let me tell you, that shit will kill anyone libido. I hear that it’s even worse in Japan.
Age 35 is about the key here. This is what the fairer sex starts losing interest in sex. Around 35, 2 or 3 kids, yep, no more sex, married or unmarried. I don’t know much about this, but I have known two women, both married, one 40 and the other 45, who simply told me that they didn’t like sex. Why their husbands were still with them is anybody’s guess. I assume it only gets worse later on.
I’ve never been married, but there are plenty of married men masculinist blogs out there. Cruising around a bit, a lot of them are pissed. Seems there’s often tons of sex at first. After about seven years of marriage, if you’re still getting much at all, you’re lucky! There’s that 7-year itch thing. So after 5-10 years of marriage, a lot of women don’t want much sex anymore, and the guys still want tons. The feeling from the men is rage and desire for divorce.
Honestly, the old way and the 3rd World Way was just better. Women were not necessarily supposed to like sex all that much, but it was definitely a wifely duty. You didn’t get a lot of reports of young women holding out in marriage. Men took sex with their wives any way and time that they wanted to, dammit. Women either enjoyed it or put up with it, at any rate, they didn’t feel it was within their duties to say no. Who knows how happy the women are?
From tales from women from my Mom’s generation, this sort of sex didn’t exactly make them miserable. They seem to be a happy lot. Of course the guys were quite happy.
Now the women have a right to say no, and they are doing so in army formations. The men, especially the young men, are furious. What the fuck? Why else would a guy get married if not for the sex? What else is there? The feminists are cheering this as some sort of bullshit female empowerment. The power to be a sexless prude. Some revolution, feminists. You proud of yourselves now?
From skimpy US statistics, at age ~60, only 40% of women had sex in the last year, while 70% of men did. I have known some older women that have gone years without sex. Ages ranged from 45-60, and time without sex ranged from 5-8 years. Most of them acted like they could take it or leave it too.
That’s one major turnoff of women my age. They just don’t seem to be into it that much. Young women, whatever their faults, well, they’re generally pretty damn horny, or at least fairly horny. Some young women actually get frustrated if you don’t put it to them pretty quickly in my experience.
There are quite a few women, especially around 35-45, who actually want to get fucked every single day, and get pissed if they miss a day. They are often regular masturbators. I knew a 45 year old woman who masturbated once a day and looked toward menopause with utter dread.
One amazing figure from the article is a 30% increase in the number of men who no longer want to have sex with their wives. I can’t relate to this at all, and I have no explanation for it. I’m of the “take it any way I can get it and the Hell with her if she doesn’t like it” school. What do you mean you don’t want to do it? Close your eyes and pretend she’s a porn star. Put a flag over her face and do it for the country. Whatever it takes, man. What else are you gonna do, jerk off?
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“Why else would a guy get married if not for the sex? What else is there?”
They can try real Love.
“One amazing figure from the article is a 30% increase in the number of men who no longer want to have sex with their wives.”
I know a bunch of guys who believed that that “sexual urge ” that they felt for their girlfriends and spouses would last a long time. They never thought for one moment that they could become bored .
real love?
you are either a guy in highschool, a guy in college who didnt date in highschool, a social retard, or a chick.
lol…………none of the fuck above.
Man, I can’t believe a survey like this. I can’t comprehend the thought of not having sex. If people can’t get it, they will masturbate. A guy pretty much remains horny well past his 50s. I am in my late 20s myself.
But one thing I have noticed is that here on the streets of London you definitely see a lot fewer couples than you use to compared to 10 years ago even. These days its quite rare to see a guy and a girl walking while holding hands.
I blame the rise of ultra-feminism in the West for this. Women somehow think they are sacred and should not be touched by men.
But I also read a report recently that suggested some 6 or 7 out of 10 men in the UK have admitted using the services of a prostitute, and some use them regularly. I was kind of shocked by these stats.
“One amazing figure from the article is a 30% increase in the number of men who no longer want to have sex with their wives. I can’t relate to this at all, and I have no explanation for it. I’m of the “take it any way I can get it and the Hell with her if she doesn’t like it” school.”
A lot of American women are FAT. Even the high school kids these days are fatter than there were just 10 years ago. The average adult female in the US is 5’4″ and weighs 164 pounds(the average male is 5’9″ and weighs 190).
Is it really that hard to believe that you’d get sick of fucking a 5’9″, 164-lb woman? Especially if she’s been nagging you or using other shaming tactics? I’ve know lots of women who love to say emasculating things to their men. The men let them get away with it because what else are they going to do? But it’s still a huge turnoff.
And then of course a lot of the younger women these days have been told their whole lives that they can have it all. My 20-year-old cousin still talks about wanting to be a “princess.” Her words. Of course nobody can have it all, but women who have been indoctrinated by radical feminism tend to blame men for this.
I’m in my late 20s, and the guys my age who are married don’t seem very happy. One friend has a smart wife who was educated at Columbia. That’s great, but she’s chubby and has an unpleasant, needlessly confrontational personality. Thanks to her I now know about this gem of a theory:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womb_and_vagina_envy
She brought it up when we were all drinking on a Saturday night and it was completely out of context.
Then there’s the fact that I got unfairly mixed up in a sexual harassment flap right when I was hitting puberty. That really screwed me up, because I developed an irrational fear of doing anything at all that could be construed as harassment. That’s not where you want to be at that developmental stage.
And when I was 24 some girl at a party falsely accused me of trying to grope her and made a big deal about it. Her ex-boyfriend tried to start a fight with me and dozens of people hated me after that. She knew I was still a virgin and I think that egged on her actions.
I’m not a virgin any longer but I’ll stick to internet porn anyway.
As for “taking it when you can get it,” well, I’m not naive enough to believe in “true love” or some bullshit like that but I’m not really into it if there’s no emotional connection at all. I got a hand job in Thailand once and it didn’t compare in any way to sex with a woman who was into it.
I think this is basically accurate:
http://www.psy.fsu.edu/~baumeistertice/goodaboutmen.htm
By the way, I’m not anti-feminist. Women traditionally got a shitty deal. On the other hand, you don’t exactly see a lot of females on the back of garbage trucks. And Tiger Woods’ wife is now asking for $750 million in addition to custody of their children. That’s fucking ridiculous, any way you look at it.
I was in the US last summer on holiday in New York, Boston and then the West Coast, and man its not a very pretty sight. So many people on the streets carrying 20,30, 40 pounds more than they should be. Overweight people are a turn off in terms of attraction. Even chubby people who are not necessarily that overweight are not attractive.
Can internet porn also be responsible for fewer relationships? So many people really get involved into this stuff and and feel they don’t always need the real thing.
Yeah. Even fat people aren’t attracted to fat people.
I do think that porn leads to fewer relationships. I don’t necessarily think that’s a bad thing, or at least it’s not for me as an individual. The relationships I’ve had were way too much of a hassle to be worthwhile. I’m sure it’s a different story for others who started having relationships when they were adolescents or teens instead of in their mid-20s like I was.
I mean, look at the attitude on display here:
http://i.imgur.com/NqxnI.jpg
Obviously it’s an extreme example. But it’s really not that extreme these days, at least where I live.
Bwahahahaha! Even the Fat Girl Angle Shot didn’t work for her! LOLZ!
So true, so sad. But haggis is ok. Lowland Scotland is no colder than London, but less warm in Summer; in fact you might not notice the summer – it’s more like the rainy season. The rain is the problem – miserable and unrelenting. ‘Hair’ ( you know, singing the Age of Aquarius naked) could never have come from Scotland.
Yes to above. London is so dismal now. Middle class English women are just a dead loss – if you speak to them, they’re going to take your every word round to their ‘sisterhood’ to tear you to bits, slander and undermine you. We should be able to discriminate against these bitches. They’ve even got new laws imposed that penalise men for using prostitutes. They don’t think it’s acceptable even to know prostitutes, or have them in your home as friends, like prostitutes should be shunned and not allowed to live indoors – these screwed up spiteful spinsters are as medieval as the Taliban. Thankfully the culture of the young seems to be largely hip-hop – I hate the music and the vicious materialism, but at least they know what a woman’s ass is for. And there’s also been a huge influx of East Europeans who are usually beautiful and have pretty healthy sexualities – I’m pretty much opposed to mass immigration, but I have to admit on average I prefer the Poles to the British, especially the women.
Whatever it takes, man. What else are you gonna do, jerk off?
Yup, seems like that’s the only option.
I can hardly imagine what it must be like in China, where you already have female infanticide/gender imbalance, and where there’s eventually going to be 1 young person for every 4 old people.
Yikes!