Middle Aged White Woman On Why She Only Dates Black Men

Great article. Frankly, these Black guys can have these bitches. We don’t want em! Take them and keep them, please. Better yet, move them out of our neighborhoods so we don’t have to deal with them anymore.
The article sums up exactly what I have been saying on this blog. In a multicultural America, White women will increasingly turn down White men. And Asian women will increasingly turn down Asian men.
Why? In Asia, Asian men are plenty masculine. But in the multicultural US, compared to White guys, they are going to come up short. Asian women in the US complain that Asian guys look like women, seem unmasculine and don’t treat them right. That’s only because these Asian women are comparing them to White guys.
Over in Asia, these guys would seem just fine. And in Asia, as far as not treating them well, the women don’t have much choice, do they? An Asian man or none.
In an all-White society, White males are plenty masculine. I grew up with masculine White guys in a mostly-White society. But in a multicultural US, White women are going to compare us to Black guys, and as the White woman in the article does, we are going to come up short, seem wimpy, lame, depressed, awkward and unmasculine. No way can we White guys compete with Black guys in the masculinity department. Forget it, don’t even try.
This will particularly be the case if we are talking about middle-aged White guys. We middle-aged White guys definitely wimp out hard. I see them all the time. We look depressed, defeated, out of shape, and miserable. Our self-esteem is shot. Young White men do all right, but I don’t know what happens to us White guys as we age. We just seem to lose it hard.
Correspondingly or perhaps in reaction, White women get more masculine, and are often seen carping at their cowering middle aged White partners.
White nationalists scream and yell about miscegenation, but then they turn around and say it barely exists. Doesn’t make much sense. 40% of Americans have dated outside their race.
I run a Yahoo group that is full of middle-aged White women. The % of these women dating Black men is incredibly large. Many seem to mostly or exclusively date Black men. These same women seem to be furious at White men. At the same time, they seem to think we are a bunch of wimps.
These women often love to partake in “ball-busting” where they attack proud, masculine White men and try to emasculate them as best they can. I’ve seen this sorry spectacle quite a few times. They seem to hate masculine and defiant (Who won’t take any crap from women) White men most of all. They’re nearly homicidal towards these guys.
They claim they love soft, almost wimpy guys (though they don’t describe them that way – they call them sensitive) but as soon as they get a hold of one, they make mincemeat out of his balls.
Why are these women dating Blacks? I’m not sure, but let’s look at the article:

A white woman past forty is often passed over by her white-male contemporaries. She goes younger or ethnic or foreign-born or down the socioeconomic scale or darker or she spends lonely nights at home with her cats. Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn’t have when she was twentysomething and fertile.

So this provides a clue as to why these women in my group are dating Black. They say that White guys don’t want them.
However, some of them could clearly get a White guy – they just don’t want one. Some were extremely attractive for their ages – 50-62.
I think they are going Black because they think we middle aged White guys are a bunch of wussies. I also think they are furious at White men. One of the ways that liberal White women, especially older ones, retaliate against all the White men who wronged them in life is to date Black. It’s the ultimate f-you to the White man. “I’m dating a nigger*! What are you going to do about it, pussy!?”
I recall 25 years ago when I was embroiled in a passionate affair with an older White woman. We were screwing so much we barely had time to eat, drink or go to the bathroom. Nevertheless, she still thought I was a wuss. You can’t fuck your way to manhood. How do I know she felt this way? She more or less out and out told me. It’s true, I have the mild-mannered professor demeanor of a Noam Chomsky – I don’t seem macho at all.
One time it was Saturday morning and we were recovering as usual from our nightly Sexual Olympics. She announced she was leaving for the weekend. We had an open relationship, I was a broke student, she had lots of money and paid for everything, so I didn’t care. But she was trying to get my goat. Worse than that. She was trying to get beat up. No, she was trying to get murdered.
I yawned. “Yeah? Ok, no problem.”
She jumped up and was dancing around in front of me like a boxer in the ring.
“I have a date!”
I raised my eyebrows a bit. You can’t faze me. I was getting tons of sex anyway, what did I care? I shrugged.
She was trying to piss me off and it wasn’t working. “It’s with a Black guy!” She was practically shouting and had a look on her face like she was defying me to punch her. “And I’m going to be gone all weekend!” Her voice was getting shriller and shriller.
I still didn’t care, but I don’t know why. Actually, I should have said, “Take lots of pics and show them to me,” but I didn’t. In olden days, a woman saying such a thing would get hit, or possibly even murdered. It’s one thing to make your man a cuckold, but it’s quite another to delightfully do it in front of his face, cackling diabolically the whole time. Overcivilized, we’ve quit justifiably murdering our women for this crap, and now look at ’em, dammit.
Think about that while you read that article.
As far as me, I’ve had enough bitches for fifty lifetimes. Who needs this? Life’s tough enough without some dominatrix trying to kick me in the balls.
White women over 40 are losing their looks, so they need to be nice to have at least one redeeming feature. Guess not. In that case, I’m looking hard at Latinas and Asian women.
*Used sardonically.
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203 thoughts on “Middle Aged White Woman On Why She Only Dates Black Men”

  1. here in ny there is alot of white woman with black men but most of them are un educated and come from a poor background or a family with no morals and a rotten childhood ,the crime rate is mostly from black men ,aids is mostly from black men as far as statistics go here in ny ,black men are very maculine and have a big ego and beat there woman ,leave them for another girl ,sell drugs and collect welfare ,if u go by the welfare building u will see alot of black men with white woman ,im not racist iam just stating what i see ,its more of the younger woman ussually under 25 ,iam glad i am not attracted to the lower class woman who would date out of there ethinic background not that iam racist but because i believe if u are white u should act white and if ur black u should act black ,iam not against true love but i think these woman love to be treated badly and beaten and left but thats why they become crazy white woman ,im not sure if its a fact that these woman have low self esteem or not but these black men make them feel like queens till they find a better taboo situation ,but as far as them not wanting a white man in my oppinion thats great good ridence cause i dont have to look masculine which iam by the way to know how to treat a woman and i can honestly say i have more to offer than any black man in competition its just they never had a real white man like me they just had a fantasy dream that ussually ends in demise ,but hey i wouldnt mind a good screw from a beautiful black woman and maybe save her from a rough life …hahahhahah and accually had a few chances ,i dont have a problem finding a woman or even a black woman ,oh one more thing statistics say 75% of woman under 21yrs old have or have had an std ,is this because young woman nowa days are more permiscus and are to free with there dirty snatches? well thats good then im glad they perfer black men hahahahah ,black men and ww who love black men dont get upset by this cause it is true weather u like it or not ….yeaaaaa buddyyyyy get er done!!!!

  2. In a multicultural society, the standards for beauty necessarily broaden. Although the western world has been heretofore largely white, that has changed in recent years. The United States will soon have a minority white population. I contend that bi-racial dating, coupling and procreation will occur with increasing frequency. This will occur because of access, opportunity, and most of all, because of greater appreciation of the variation in human beauty.
    The white-women-with-black-men is not a monolithic dating block. Whether anyone else approves, it seems to serve the needs of the couple.
    I dated an attractive black woman who shared my professional and avocational interests. She was closer to my ideal woman than anyone I had ever known. At the time, I thought I was a racist because I did not find her appealing. Now I realize that she just did not fit my narrow image of the “perfect” woman. We all have that picture in our heads, only now it is less restricted.
    Celebrate! It’s a good thing.

  3. women of all races love well-endowed men, and for what ever reason black guys fit the bill. All this dumb shit about race mixing is a bunch of baloney. Today its abouit the haves and have nots. Smart whiteboys like Carl Rove know its a bunch of stupid redneck angry white boys that if feed this bs to them they will vote for the devil if you stir them up. They like controversy so the rich can keep their yachts while dumbass racist white boys will never make enough money to move out the trailer park!!!!

  4. So please explain why Asian females would also not compare European and African men and chase after African men like European women do? Why do they stop at European and whore there instead?

  5. Serendipity is always fascinating. Especially for a social scientist such as myself ( History, MA) Encountered this rummaging through “adult” sites. (the word pornography says nothing, but implies such a variety of misconceptions and propaganda for certain agendas) So many posts exhibit astuteness,and simplicities; at the same time. I’ll think about it awhile and get back with a few of my own observations. Everyone is right/correct, and flawed.

  6. Reposting something here about the outrage in the Manosphere over the movie MAGIC MIKE and what all men can learn from Black men.
    You know, I have to say, this is not an issue in the Black and Latino communities. That women are visually stimulated and blatant objectifiers of the male physique is a no-brainer to them. Their cultures have not yet, and hopefully never will, lose touch of the fact that physical fitness and rhythm (dance) are two traits that play major roles in female sexual attraction. The only people who seem to be surprised are White men. Anyone here who watches black rom-coms will note the objectification of the black male physique to a greater degree than the white male physique is objectified in white rom-coms. There is always at least one scene of shirtless, muscular, sweaty men playing Basketball in every Black rom-com, and its not there for the heterosexual men in the audience, that is for sure. The half naked physically fit muscular male physique and its accompany swagger (rhythm) is showcased throughout those movies. Displays of rhythmic skills in the form of dancing are common.
    Watch this video of women movie goers and note their language about Magic Mike from about the halfway mark on.
    “if only this movie was in 3D”
    “a lot of asses, I’ll say that, you see a lot of asses”
    “Enough?” “A decent amount, a decent amount, it’ll definitely get your blood goin’ ”
    “Were you so distracted you couldn’t pay attention to the story?”
    ” A little bit, yeah”
    “What made you go and see this movie today?”
    “The nudity”
    “Can a straight guy go and see this movie?”
    “He can get a lot of good tips, I can tell ya that much, us ladies will appreciate it.”
    “What do you think of this growing trend of male nudity in movies?”
    “I’m all for it.” …. “Finally!” … “Us women we always have to put up with it (female nudity) in every movie, and we’re out there and its like ‘ok sure’ but now with the guys there’s finally something for us. I like it!”
    “What was the mood like in the theatre?
    “Very verbal.”
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEnRLObWDqw&feature=related

  7. to me
    First of all, a white woman doesn’t use a black guy to try to bait your lame decrepit half dead sexually unimaginative ass into an argument as means to retaliate for fucking her cohorts 20 some odd years ago. So her “look i’m dating a black guy (or nigg#r as you so eloquently termed) so this is the ultimate fuck you” is about as effective as your two stroke awkwardly infantile attempts at trying to figure sex out at your age; and this is YOUR mid life crisis. The time and creative energy you spent writing this bullsh*t you should and could have been directed towards learning your own body and how to use your it! Ok so you were young and you had a plethora of easy “lays” but what was so special about this one so called fat white woman who would better serve the “white race” by dating black men because we deserve your “bottom of the barrell” line up. While you have harbored those feeling like a woman would, a black guy was knee deep in your favorite girl from your wealthy stable of gorgeous goddesses. . . maybe lol Think of it like this, the more you over think things the more your penis shrinks and judging by your passage your over compensating quite a bit on a motley of what you feel are your possible shortcomings. (pun intended) You give the good white men who can actually fuck a woman right, who I’m pretty sure are out there somewher, a bad name.
    Whose to say, maybe the black man entertains the desperate women in your race because he feels sorry for her knowing you are the potential highlight of her sexual maturity; thereby feeling sorry for you. Or maybe black men come from a sincere and honest place when they say “hey I don’t need no wife, I’m just gon get you from the back one good time and send you on your way” Cut to the chase! You want to keep her for sex say it! You love her say it! For example, you were with your older white woman screwing 100 times a day and she still tried to rub the fact that she was off to get broken in half by a black man . . . why? I guess because you ain’t get IT right the first time. Please be confident and know what you want and what you want to do. Do you want to be self loathing and depressed or do you want to beat on your chest and deprecate anyone who doesn’t “stroke” your ego! You should know if you “suck” in bed (pun intended again) own it, a major difference is black men don’t second guess certain things and sex is definitely one of them. You’d have a better chance of finding 20 white guys like you as oppose to one black guy who would think he was anything less than brilliant in the mechanics of sex.
    I have friends who are about as masculine as a paps mere but yet they have managed to garner enough experience having sex that it brings to believe that if this is the masculinity your women seek then how confused, naked and inadequate is your self esteem and confidence. But I am not dumb as I do recognize black men are more expressive and project different characteristics of manhood with a certain amount of moxie and style that you should feel as if your manhood is as pliable as an over paid contortionist. You’re fed up with your white woman who is also fed up so you claim to be more interested in asian and latina women. Please . . . believe latin women need to be sexually pleased by the likes of a man and last I checked they are their men have been handling their business and asian women who do date outside their race will have their needs met by a black and or latin man. She may appreciate your value as a status symbol. So with all the stereo types some of you love to attach to us in saying that only deal with the cream of the crop black man or beware of the increased likelihood a crime will occur! The only crime is not knowing that the older you get the more you express desperation and the older I get the more sex I have with white women. I wouldn’t worry you can always rely on scientology for answers when your manhood becomes permanently flaccid. So while you nurse your tender wounds remember WE did not take your WHITE women from you . . . they WILLINGLY walked in and laid in the bed.
    p.s. She’s pregnant! You can congratulate any one of us when the time suits you best.

      1. Robert you are quite the race hater. And at first I thought you were different. You know that penis extenders/stretchers do work, maybe if you tried one you might grow a few inches and would not hate black men so much. Racist devil. Now band me like I give the fat white lady’s ass.

    1. I’m a fag and LOVE all Men under 35..
      But, what I don’t quite understand is..If the black Man is suppose to be so well indowed, (I’ve seen lots of white Men and other races with just as big Cocks).
      .And so hot a fuck..
      WHY?.does the white trailer trash girl have to have 2 and 3 black guys screwing her to get her satisfaction?.
      When the girls that go with white guys get satisfied with just one Man..

      1. Cro Magnon man actually had a much larger penis than we see today in Europe. The common theory is that it shrunk over subsequent generations due to the cold weather.
        Also, additional body fat was naturally selected over subsequent generations – this provided better insulation.
        If you look at the Massai or Dinka people of East Africa , who were also classed as “Caucasoid” you can get an idea of the “undiluted” appearance of modern humans from East Africa before any Neanderthal contact.

  8. Geeshshshsh!!!!!!You guys and gals are off the chain. This will probably be the only time I utilize this type of forum. I am only interested because my baby boo is as white as the snow. She makes good money, she has two college degrees, manages a fortune 500 company, long hair, light blue eyes, etc, need I say more. Two more things, she has a shape out of this world and she loves the Lord our God.
    Me, well I will just say by the look and the sound of the conversation, this is not my platform. I will say I am black and proud. I was born and raised in Chicago. I am a founder and CEO of a corporation.
    Those comments are really nasty and shameful.

  9. yeah,,ure a race trader who no white man would pursue,,,.get over it ugly nigger lover,…im just saying what many other r thinking but r 2 pussyfooted to say,,enjoy your nigger dick bitch,,..cause no respected white man would even consider touching u!

  10. what do you mean we can’t compete with black masculinity,you.re an ass kissing son of a bitch i’ll tell you that,last I remember they were shining our shoes not the other way round.the blacks that are strong are slave blood and were bred like racehorces,you avg black from Africa is a skinny pathetic looking sob just like us.i don’t know where you live but I never see white women with blacks except in this porn bullshit,which is run by jews,brain-washing women into thinking blacks have enormous dongs,i’m sure some do ,but so do all races.rap music influences white women too,run by jews,the mind control continues.i wouldn’t allow my kids to have those electronic phones,this constant bombardment of black faces in the media and sports.you have to let em know at a young age they are dangerous bitter bastards that hate us,and keep them away from black schools or any minority schools but that is getting harder and harder to do.if they aren’t there they bus them in,feral minority vermin.thanks to a liberal agenda at our feminist and homo run schools.these older hoes are used goods probably living fat on their ex husbands life savings ,white women owe loyalty to none they are feminist assholes,who need to be reeducated in their heritage and traditions,not listening to rap crap music watching black tv shows or sports,thats how the jew breaks down your sense of brotherhood to other whites.NFL is another jew run org.that is liquidating white players in place of non whites,tim tebow a good example,the guy threw for more yards than peyton manning in college,how can he all of a sudden be not good enough?he’s white,jews want him gone,they replace the whites with light skinned brothas so they look white from a distance looking at their arms,but when the helmet comes off its always an imposter,he only looked white.the jew pest is at his bull again,making us fight their wars,crashing the stockmarket[yes,the jews had infiltrated alqueda and knew the attack was coming ,but opted to make billions of dollars instead of alerting the us.this is a fact,now they are breaking down the white family values.one brick at a time making it seem like its the right thing to do “through deceit though shalt wage war” a famous jew motto.white women that do this should be ostracized but instead seem to be put on a pedestal,like the kardasians.kendra,shannon twins,buch a stank assed gold diggerswho wants to see it.think I am paranoid?that’s exactly what they want you to think idiot.’never before on the face of the earth has there been such a destructive pest as the jew”adolf hitler.

      1. Bob
        An asian here we dont care about asian women in USA as most of them are horribly ugly and cannot even be looked upon their face at once. Most of asian trash fucking ladies have chinese geek faces and small assets., i dont know how the fuck white guys prefer them. also the number of caucasian females preferring niggers is much much much more than number of caucasian male preferrring asian which means most of white trashes dont even have a gal as few lucky ones or rather unlucky ones have to settle for asian chinese and other mongoloid bitches where a white female prefer nigger negroes. Funny part is few muslim living in US and indian women still prefer people from their race and very very very few marry outside of their races which proves that they respect their rootvalues. Indian and muslim women are way better than any other race. Poor white folks., the are losing their race and color by mixing with other races and there will be eventually a time like there is no white race at all even if is it is hard to find like pure bred rare type of rottweiler.

        1. This guy is extremely funny in the way he tells., I do believe it is true to some extent. There are more number of black male going out with blonde caucasian women than asian women going the white way. i agree they are ugly as hell., at least blacks got a face with some features unlike ugly asian women with chinese features like a pyramid face and an abysmal puke-worthy body.
          Even with those ugly feature they seem to hit not only on men but also women.. beware these asians are also claiming your women see this video
          http://xhamster.com/movies/1690512/girls_kissing_girls_2_s1_samantha_ryan_amp_jessica_bangkok.html

    1. Ha ha ha ha!
      Tim Tebow sucks donkey balls you damn cracker montherfucker. Black defensive players are at his nuts faster than he can wind to throw.

  11. s.t.f.u. niggr…..lol..cowards,huh,the race war ain’t gonna be boxing muthr fukr we’ll see who the cowards are,white men have walked on the moon asshole while you and yours were too stupid and scared to ever attempt such things,anything to conquer on this earth was accomplished by whites first,any great feat of mankind,ancient rome,the re3naqissance,we built castles and sailed the 7 seas,while you fools were punting around on reed boats throwing fishing nets around,with a leaf covering your balls,you and yours i’m afraid are the pathetic ones.and if you showed up at my house trying to get at my mom i’d crack your goddamn skull.racist my ass,you people have run all the credibility out of that word,it no longer means anything kinda like the boy who cryed wolf.

  12. I don’t even know where to start with this… I guess it’s good to “know thy enemy” in which I’m sure I’ll create a few on here with this response.
    I am 35 y/o British Black dude from London and I’ve been slaying women of all races and across all continents from 14 to 32, and then got married to an absolutely beauty and gem of a white girl, and we have an even more beautiful mixed-race (note the most socially and widely-accepted term) son and btw I’m going absolutely nowhere not a chance. I love this little dude. I also make a low six-figure salary from my day job, and abother $60-80k a year from my side businesses (web design and consulting – not selling drugs as I’m sure that’s already popped into your heads). I am safely in the what you white folks would regard to be the ‘mid- to upper-class’ bracket of society.
    Now, it would take me too many hours to dissect and shit on all of the racist comments and ignorance on this blog, and there’s no guarantee that this post will be allowed to see the light of day, so let me just some up my already long-winded post.
    I have fucked so many women in this time and could have had the pick of at last 7 woment to settle down with. This list contains black, white and Indian (yes Indian!!)
    My current wife (did I already mention that she’ absolutely beautiful) also has an awesome and well paid career could have had literally any dude she wanted.
    Guess what..? She chose me.
    Sure, some eyebrows where raised among some of the older less-educated (white) folk on her side of the family, but we never heard anything about it, it’s been all good. Mind you she never ‘intended’ on being with a ‘nigger*’ (*used sardonically), but that’s what happened I guess.
    This blog and the author stinks of self-induced inferiorty and self-hate to some degree – and I love it! Keep doing what you’re doing so that my black brothers can keep slaying and inpregnating white women and then when we’re all yellow in a few generation’s time that will be that.
    And just for some further points if clarification, I come from a ‘poor’ family and my wife was already ‘middle-class’ before we met. I’ve never taken a penny from her and I make more than triple what she does – without the fancy degree either. We are a fantastic partnership that sees no color.
    I know you’re all going to say that it’s a one off, or that my situation isn’t the norm, but trust me you’re wrong. There are LOTS of us, slaying, wooing, and converting your women – whether that be when their young or old.
    What a bunch of utter morons on here.. Some of you need to focus on yourselves and get a fucking life.
    P.S Robert, we all know it’s your blog mate, you sound like a petulant little child with your ‘instant bans’. Lol – I won’t be back with any defending comments, I’ll be too busy fucking my georgous white wife.

    1. Wow I guess you won white woman slayer. The jokes on you. When you say you’ve fuck many women to you that is twenty. Then you counted as if it really matters. I hope your white wife doesn’t read what you wrote here. She might feel token to a man who believes he can single handedly account for white man pregnancied to slave woman. Someday you’ll understand there are no races. There’s only DNA putting humans into subgroups and not along 1960s era race lines. And of course your in the asshole group.

      1. As a young black I found that white and Asian women seemed attracted to me, I’ve been with quite a few myself since I was 14′. In reality they mostly wanted to try something different sexually in their lives and were not looking for a lasting relationship. I’m under 5 feet tall and I still get offers every so ofter but not for a relationship, casual sex is fun but it’s not what I want for a life time. I hope I can find a women way before I reach 35

  13. They probably date blacks because blacks are very nice to them. Think about it, if your some BBW (big beautiful women), even a hot looking one, white guys won’t date you. However, a black guy will treat you like a super-model. The problem lies with our society which views only skinny women as beautiful. However, the black sub-culture likes BBW women.

    1. Sure maybe he treats her like a queen. But White man dating Blacks is hazardous. On my other site, we had a lot of White women who were dating Blacks, and many of them had been battered psychologically or physically or even raped and robbed. This is far more likely to happen to you dating a Black man than dating a White man.

  14. Also, you could use the same argument with age. Young black men would be happy to date an older white woman, while young white men would not.
    Of course, there always is a level of “FU” in this interracial stuff (no matter the motivation for it), but I don’t think it’s the primary motivation.

  15. Met up with an old high school friend last year and she said she had spent 5 years married to a black guy. She knew it was her low self esteem that led her to him. He was your typical racist black man who picks women by skin color. He was abusive and insecure, probably because his dick was small and he couldnt get it up half the time…contradicting the stereotype. He said all that was her fault and she’d get smacked for it because thats how you deal with women. She said she’d never go black again and gives that advice to her women friends….except to her black women friends who already know it and prefer white guys.

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