No man will ever say such a ridiculous thing. But you hear women complaining about it all the time. This whole thing about the frustration of having to have sex with someone you hate is a woman thing. Women are always complaining about having sex with their husbands or boyfriends and they don’t love them anymore, or maybe even they hate them, and therefore what a drag the sex is. I have never met one male in my entire life who ever said such a thing. If any guy ever said in a group full of guys what a drag it was to have sex with his wife or girlfriend who he hated, the whole room would start laughing and never stop. The teasing and ridicule would go on forever. So I don’t know if guys feel this way, but for sure they never talk about it. Men, if they don’t like the woman or hate her or especially, if they are turned off by her, simply stop having sex with her. It’s typical if she’s older and gains lots of weight. A middle aged guy will stay with her but he will call her a fat pig and refuse to have sex with her, and she will be crying all the time. You see this on the Maury-type shows all the time. It probably never comes up, because no man would admit in a group full of guys that he has a wife or girlfriend and nevertheless he is not getting any, but it’s possible with older guys, a middle aged guy might say, “She gained 40 pounds and she’s a fat pig! No way am I having sex with her!” That would probably be ok, because a lot of middle aged guys freely admit they’re pretty much given up sex anyway. As long as they got lots in their youth, no one cares. If some guy was so stupid as to say, “I just don’t love my wife anymore. She’s such a bitch. She’s so mean to me. Having sex with her is horrible.” When everyone stopped laughing at him (Probably never!) someone might say, “Just tie her to the bed and do it anyway!” “Just pretend you’re raping her, haha!” or maybe just “Who cares, at least she’s giving you sex. Get all you can, and call her names when you do it, haha!” Mostly if any guy admits that his wife/girlfriend is a total bitch to him, he’s in danger of being seen as a wimp, so guys don’t admit that too much. If she’s a bitch and he really fights back hard and especially if he leaves her in tears, then that’s cool. He’s not a wimp because he’s really fighting back hard and being really mean. But if he’s pussy whipped and just sits there and takes it, a lot of guys are simply disgusted with him. If she’s really mean and he fights her, guys might say, “Leave her,” or “So go get a new woman.” They might encourage him to cheat on her, since she deserves it for being such a bitch. After a while, someone might say, as a joke, “Kill her!” or, “Just kill the bitch!” Assuming he isn’t actually going to do it, that’s absolutely hilarious, and everyone will fall out of their seats for the next five minutes. Main thing is men are not supposed to need emotional fulfillment to have good sex. We are supposed to be able to have sex whether we are in love or not. If some guy said, “I can’t have sex with a woman unless I love her,” a lot of other guys would think he’s just the most incredible wuss.
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